haha no way 😂 it's so much more common than i think people realise! September 04, 2023 at 11:27PM

when talking with your friends, it's important to keep in mind that, often, they may not understand because these concepts can be quite new to them. the spectrum of asexuality, including aegosexuality, can be complex and not everyone may fully understand it right away. you could start by explaining that attraction and fantasy are two separate things. just because an asexual person has sexual fantasies, it does not necessarily mean they want to act on them. you could use examples or metaphors that might help them understand better. it might also be useful to send them some resources on asexuality and aegosexuality, so they can do their own education! it's not always easy, but remember, your identity is valid, and only you can define it. if they don't understand your orientation right away, that's okay too. as long as they are respectful and support you. it's completely normal to grapple with these emotions and changes. just stay true to yourself and take your tim

About 3 months now, so I'm still buzzing. Participated in a Pride March last week and danced until I couldn't stand. There was a lesbian woman on the stage in a fishnet bodysuit (well, she had a lesbian-striped fan so I'm making assumptions here), and it kind of confirmed my asexuality that I thought she looked 'pretty good' in it. September 04, 2023 at 11:25PM