What do you say when a woman you’re interested in says, “I have a boyfriend”? Well, here are a few ways a guy like you can react. Pursue Her Anyway I’ve seen some guys do this, maybe because they think it’s “alpha,” or maybe because they think the girl is lying to them. As in, “There’s no way she’s dating someone else who’s not me, so I’m gonna go for it anyway.” Bad move, my friend. Stunts like these don’t come off as confident. They’re arrogant and abrasive. Walk Away This is where I’d say 99% of guys fall into. She says she has a boyfriend, so you just walk away with your head hung low in defeat. You tried, and you failed — that’s your mentality. But again, this isn’t the mindset to have. Just because a woman says she’s got a boyfriend, that doesn’t mean it’s the end of the story. There’s no reason to walk away yet… Do What I Say In the Video Below Watch the video below to find out what you should  actually do. I can almost guarantee you’ve never thought...

This is a message to all of you who think you can change somebody. You think you have those powers, those magical powers of being a change agent, and being able to change somebody. But, here’s reality for you. You can’t change somebody. You can be their cheerleader. You can support them. You can hope and wish and pray, and say man, if they only would change this about themselves, they’d be great to be in a relationship with. Well, let me tell you something: they may like who they are. That’s right. They may like being stuck. They may like being overweight. They may like everything about them. The thing is, you’re settling. It’s something I hear from clients all the time: I just don’t like their body. If I can just get them to go to the gym, they’d be great. Well, here’s a dose of reality for you… If you don’t like their body, and they’re not going to the gym for themselves, and they weren’t before you met them, there’s no way in the world you’re going to get...

When you’re self aware, you realize when you’re in a bad habit mode. I want you to look at your life right now, because this is about you, not about me. Do I have some bad habits? Absolutely. And when I catch myself in a bad habit cycle, I really have a cold dose of reality. You see, every morning when we wake up, we try to eliminate our bad habits. A lot of us wake up always refreshed and feeling positive. Feeling like today is going to be the day we are going to finally eliminate the bad habits. We get excited. And what happens? Well, bad habits are hard to break. For those of you who are overweight, you know how soothing those carbs and sugars can be for you. For those of you who are frustrated the way your body looks, you know how easy it is to avoid going to the gym. For a lot of you, you can’t seem to connect with the opposite sex on a deeper level. And you know the bad habits are holding you back. Bad habits are really challenging. T...

Here’s something you see almost daily, especially while driving: the drifter and texter. I would say if you count the amount of times you see this happen, you would run out of fingers on your hands and toes. There are a few versions of these clueless assholes: There’s the walker texter, there’s the elevator texter, and there’s the person who really doesn’t give a shit if anybody else is there, because they need to get that text in. Well, that person just starts drifting into a light. They see the red light, they grab their precious phone, their slimy, greasy iPhone screen that’s never clean, it’s like a borderline for bacteria and leprosy. They know that there’s a red light coming up, so they’ll start slowing down, and then they’ll put their head in the position of downward motion, a position that only used to be reserved for cunnilingus and blowjobs. Anyway, they’ll usually leave at least three or four car lengths ahead. They tend to be the person you...

Do you ever run in and see somebody that you know you know? You instantly feel something for them, a sense of attraction or sense of familiarity, but you just can’t place it. You think, well maybe that’s just somebody I want to know. Then all of a sudden, you start talking to them and you realize you  do know them. They look at you, they smile because they know you. But, you don’t remember where you know them from. But you know they’re a good person. You know that you’ve shared some type of moment with them. But, you don’t remember where or when. I have met so many people in my life that occasionally I’ll run into somebody and I don’t remember where I know them from. I could’ve gone out on a date with them years back. It could’ve been somebody who was in one of my bigger seminars. I like to talk to them and have a wonderful connection with them because I have met so many people in my life, but I don’t remember everybody or even how I first met them. But, here is ...

How do you feel when I say that word, struggle? It’s a very uncomfortable feeling. Struggling. But really, struggling just means that you’re not accomplishing what you want to accomplish. Whatever task you have at that present moment feels like a mountain that you need to climb. Not fun. Lately, I’ve been learning the stock market. In the beginning I was doing well, but then I hit a pitfall. I had one bad day. Ever since then, what was once fun has been a complete struggle. And yet, I continue to study. I continue to read, watch videos, take courses. But still I continue to have a daily struggle. I’ve probably spent about 4 hours a day trading the market. Most of the time I break even. It’s a struggle. It’s a struggle to overcome my fears. I have fear when I’m in there. Am I going to lose? Am I going to lose money? Let me get out, fast, I don’t want to lose. I’ve got that whole have-to-win mentality, when in reality, losing is all part of the game, an...

I hope the first word that comes to your mind is not drugs or alcohol, because you’re just medicating what is bothering you. We all have escapes. We all have things that we need to do in order to escape the day-to-day life that we live. Some of us come home and put the TV on for three or four hours, and we call it “zoning out.” In reality, it’s really not zoning out. It’s escaping. It’s escaping and avoiding whatever is truly bothering you, truly on your mind. Some of us reach for drugs and alcohol. We say it’s good to have a glass of wine or two a night, good for our heart, good for our blood. Some would say it’s okay to smoke a joint after a rough day because it relaxes you. But in reality, shouldn’t you be able to relax yourself? Isn’t that what medication mindset is all about? To be able to relax yourself, to be able to work on yourself and get past the things that’s stressing you out so you’re able to do it naturally. Some of us shop. We love it. We get to es...