There isn’t one this is just where I vent October 04, 2020 at 11:59PM

This me and my friends used to go round each others houses and play smash bros/mario kart now all they want to do is get drunk and go "out to town" they recently did drugs too.. ughh I feel your pain OP October 04, 2020 at 11:55PM

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Hi I don’t know whether I’m good at giving advice but I feel the same as you with all the stuff you said. I’ve thought I might be ace for about 3 years because of this but didn’t want to tell anyone because I didn’t want to seem like I was looking for attention or a reason to stand out. I don’t know about anyone else but for me, if you do research on asexuality and still resonate with it then you most likely are. Try not to worry about it too much as this community is very understanding for anyone questioning. Hope this helps a little October 04, 2020 at 11:40PM

AceApp is alright if you can avoid the sugar daddies. I really struggle with online dating though as I just can’t form an emotional connection with someone the other side of a computer screen. I know loads of people can, but I kinda struggle to feel vibes without face to face conversation. I’m destined to be single forever! Good luck with it October 04, 2020 at 11:31PM

Once I read somebody say that she put it in the f*** you finger to show that those are the only f***s she gives 😂😂 October 04, 2020 at 11:28PM

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no worries about rambling, it’s always nice to hear about other aces’ experiences and i’d be glad to help if you have any questions! but that’s the main reason i used a flag to come out, because trying to find a chance to bring it up in conversation seemed impossible so it was just easier to show rather than tell. and i totally get how you feel about the whole “you’ll change your mind” reaction that you’re worried about but i feel like thats because it’s such a big change from what they’re used to that it’ll take some time to adjust to the concept of asexuality. and being confident is very important in establishing who you want to be :) October 04, 2020 at 11:10PM

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My husband and I have been together for 5 years. I’m 29 he’s 33. We have a home and a cat. Our life is pretty normal and boring. Ok so now onto my venting..My husband has been trying to quit smoking. I want him too, besides him being healthier we save money. It’s been a week and the past two days he’s been downright miserable and lashing out at me. We decided I can be a STAW for at least another year and the past two days he’s been making snide remarks about “how much gas did I use on HIS car” and how we need 3 jobs to pay off our debt. Yes we need more income and yes he knows I’ve been looking for work regardless of our agreement. (I have a few mental illnesses that really affect my life in case I get questioned..)I know it’s all coming down to him quitting smoking because before these past few days he’s never acted like this. How do I deal with a miserable husband? I’ve tried to say kind supportive things..I’ve been extremely patient with his moods but eventually if this keeps up I’...

I (F33) am polyamorous and have been dating my boyfriend (43) for a few months now. We normally see each other once every 1-2 weeks, which suits us well as I am married to M42 (yes, he knows) and my BF has a super busy job and is a single parent with sole custody. My BF is fearful avoidant and has a tendency to engage in sabotaging behaviours, and he himself admits that he finds it difficult to get close to people. At the same time, he is deeply sensitive and afraid of rejection. I am a pretty patient and understanding person, and I am willing to put in some effort to help him become more secure in our relationship. His sabotaging behaviour tends to take the form of going silent for a few days. In the past he has always resurfaced and been remorseful about giving me the silent treatment. I accept that this is part of his attachment style, and I don’t take it personally. We had plans to meet tomorrow (his idea), and on Friday I messaged him on WhatsApp asking him to call me in the af...

Backstory: Moved to a new city pre-covid, wasn't able to meet new friends prior to the pandemic, broke up with my long-term girlfriend, super cautious about the virus, so had no local friends and limited hobbies, then finally got back into dating. OLD: A few months back, I made a connection with through OLD. It felt like we immediately hit things off and met up shortly after. We went on 3 great dates over the course of a week and had some amazing chemistry. It felt like we had a lot in common and could talk about anything. We had planned a forth date, but she ended up cancelling, saying that as much as she wished she was into me, she just wasn't feeling it. My gut feeling is I came off too available (having no friends and limited hobbies in my new city) and that's why she ended things. We exchanged a few really nice/meaningful goodbye texts and haven't been in contact since. Fast forward to now, I've put a lot of effort into expanding my network in my new city, h...

Hi all, I'm just in my early 30s and came to Tulsa, Oklahoma this year. I wanna date some decent desirable guys bc I believe I am too(😂) but couldn't really date one so far!!! Realized it's tough to meet someone and socialize not living in a big city. Tried to use some dating apps a few times but deleted bc it didn't really work and guys didn't seem forward and interested. There were some approaches offline all of a sudden but they weren't my types. Just started working out at a gym just to make more chances of 'seeing' guys.🤣 My work is 99% woman. Any suggestions? It's close to 1yr w/o dating!! Submitted October 04, 2020 at 10:26PM Hi all, I'm just in my early 30s and came to Tulsa, Oklahoma this year. I wanna date some decent desirable guys bc I believe I am too(😂) but couldn't really date one so far!!! Realized it's tough to meet someone and socialize not living in a big city. Tried to use some dating apps a few times but del...

F(35) and BF (38) started dating about 6 months ago. I asked him if he had any social media and he said no. Since I do my due diligence when start dating someone I googled him and his social media popped up. I confronted him about it and said ohh but that I e doesn’t have my picture, then he said that account is for him to sign up for stuff online. Then blocked me. We are still dating and this still bothers me. First the fact that he lied at first saying no then blocking me. Had anyone gone though this? Submitted October 04, 2020 at 11:46PM F(35) and BF (38) started dating about 6 months ago. I asked him if he had any social media and he said no. Since I do my due diligence when start dating someone I googled him and his social media popped up. I confronted him about it and said ohh but that I e doesn’t have my picture, then he said that account is for him to sign up for stuff online. Then blocked me. We are still dating and this still bothers me. First the fact that he lied at ...

I rejected him 10 years ago because of age difference, I was 19 and he was 25. A year ago we reconnected after meeting on a night out. (36M) (31F). He lives in another state due to work but visits my state every 3 weeks. He would always meet up with me and we would hang out for 7-8hours on a Friday or Saturday night. We would speak on the phone every 2weeks for 1-2hours. That’s been our dynamic for a year. Given that he never came out and asked for anything more I’m thinking that he is just seeking emotional validation as we’ve never been intimate. Our chemistry is off the charts though- both of us kept it at first base (make-out). I don’t know if I’m wasting my time or what is his deal. He invited me to come over to his state and spend the weekend with him but due to the pandemic I couldn’t. I started back school and I’m now busy with work and studying. I don’t want to be wasting my precious time on a dead end. Can someone help me out. Idk what to think. Submitted October 04, ...