Heh.. we did talk about it, and it's more because I've messed up a bunch of important things and she was feeling very distant so love was on the table, but just just wasn't. So very much a case of, "it's not me, it's you. "😅 Thanks for the advice! Ps we just had sex and it was awesome. 😉 July 10, 2021 at 12:26AM

Yeah, definitely. It freaks me out and makes me feel like I’m in danger. July 10, 2021 at 12:25AM

Questioning. Currently would say heteromantic, since I'm in a hetero relationship, but I also need a connection before I really like someone, and I think I could possibly be demi-pan. May never know for sure though. July 10, 2021 at 12:22AM

The decapitated chicken fuck. A dude cuts off a chicken's head, then rips the neck hole wide open and fucks it for a solid 10 minutes. No condom, chicken blood all over his dick. Blood and jizz on his hand. I sometimes have nightmares about that one July 10, 2021 at 12:15AM

I(17F) keep seeing comments about sex being fun, but what’s so fun about it anyways? Submitted July 09, 2021 at 11:59PM I(17F) keep seeing comments about sex being fun, but what’s so fun about it anyways?

First, what do they actually do? Second, is it effective? Are there any specific brands you recommend? Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:02AM First, what do they actually do? Second, is it effective? Are there any specific brands you recommend?

I think I’m just be too good at giving head or something, because every time I’ve tried to give my fwb head, he cums in less than a minute. And then the asshole goes and leaves me high and dry and horny with zero satisfaction. I had the same issue with my previous boyfriend but it was with sex in general, Ik condoms help to make things less sensitive, but other than that is there a way to make him not cum so god damn fast? It’s honestly just frustrating at this point, I want to get off too ya know! >:( Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:03AM I think I’m just be too good at giving head or something, because every time I’ve tried to give my fwb head, he cums in less than a minute. And then the asshole goes and leaves me high and dry and horny with zero satisfaction. I had the same issue with my previous boyfriend but it was with sex in general, Ik condoms help to make things less sensitive, but other than that is there a way to make him not cum so god damn fast? It’s honestly just f...

1st post. I’m sure this has been asked before but I couldn’t figure out how to search for it. I (38m) think my wife (36f) would have fun watching some porn, but most of the stuff (even labeled as female friendly) still seems a little too hardcore or more geared towards guys. Any suggestions? Thank you! Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:03AM 1st post. I’m sure this has been asked before but I couldn’t figure out how to search for it.I (38m) think my wife (36f) would have fun watching some porn, but most of the stuff (even labeled as female friendly) still seems a little too hardcore or more geared towards guys.Any suggestions?Thank you!

Of course it is no mystery that men may experience premature ejaculation in certain situations such as when they are with a new partner. Have you ever been so turned on that you came almost immediately? Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:06AM Of course it is no mystery that men may experience premature ejaculation in certain situations such as when they are with a new partner.Have you ever been so turned on that you came almost immediately?

This has happened a few times where I’ll bleed some from sex just from moving a little too fast. I know to move slower now but it’s happened in the past and I just want to know what people think when bleeding happens from vaginal penetration Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:14AM This has happened a few times where I’ll bleed some from sex just from moving a little too fast. I know to move slower now but it’s happened in the past and I just want to know what people think when bleeding happens from vaginal penetration

This isnt affecting me badly or anything but it's just something i sometimes think about. It's not really sexual mostly but partly. Im early 20s and a guy. i always have these thoughts about mommy (not in an incestual way) shit like just relationship wise, like mommydom or whatever, although without the dom part because im not into bdsm like at all. I almost feel embarrassed about it especially sexually because when im sometimes aroused i have thoughts about stuff like pegging too, but normally i feel grossed or weirded out by it. It's just like my non aroused state of mind is more "vanilla?" I guess where I have no desire for "weirder" relationship stuff and so i feel ashamed sometimes of the way i feel when i am aroused Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:15AM This isnt affecting me badly or anything but it's just something i sometimes think about. It's not really sexual mostly but partly. Im early 20s and a guy. i always have these thoughts a...

First off this is a repost, I took it down bc I was getting some backlash. It was my fault though, the title was misleading. Here we go again. Ok so I've always been like this... I do like sex, A lot! But I've always had a thing for blowjobs or handjobs (I'm into tantra stuff) .. when I watch porn I always end up watching some super sexy videos of women giving a guy a slow sensual massage or those videos where it's simply just a women giving a slow teasing edging handjob. I suppose you could call it a kink? To the point where I could honestly say that I prefer these things rather than actual sex. (Aside from regular sex) BJ's OR HJ's I like them both the same. Now let me clearify something before people get all crazy on me. I love my girlfriend and love having sex with her, my number one goal in the bedroom is to make sure she is satisfied.. she's 26 I'm 31. I often go down on her during sex (without her even asking). She doesn't really ask for an...

I’m not sure if this is the right terminology but I just “discovered” that I’m bi, and I don’t know where exactly to go from there. Aside from the inherent religious guilt, my parents aren’t exactly supporters of the community, and my friends can’t keep secrets to save their lives so I don’t exactly anyone to really talk to about it (plus I live in a decently conservative area so like that makes things a little more difficult lol). But ummm yeah… that’s about it really. I will end this mildly awkward paragraph by saying to drop any advice ya got below Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:18AM I’m not sure if this is the right terminology but I just “discovered” that I’m bi, and I don’t know where exactly to go from there. Aside from the inherent religious guilt, my parents aren’t exactly supporters of the community, and my friends can’t keep secrets to save their lives so I don’t exactly anyone to really talk to about it (plus I live in a decently conservative area so like that makes t...

I’ve had sex (male, 21) before but the girl wasn’t a virgin. My gf is a virgin and she wants to have sex soon at some point. We’ve messed around and done sexual things (oral, etc) but never PIV sex. So how do I make her first PIV experience good? I know some girls experience pain, but is it possible to avoid that? How do I make it painless and feel good? How do I make her feel comfortable? Also, a friend told me that we shouldn’t use lube because that just means she’s not turned on enough if we have to use it. Is that true? Should she be on top for it so she has all the control? Basically any advice is helpful. I just want to give her a good time. Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:19AM I’ve had sex (male, 21) before but the girl wasn’t a virgin. My gf is a virgin and she wants to have sex soon at some point. We’ve messed around and done sexual things (oral, etc) but never PIV sex. So how do I make her first PIV experience good? I know some girls experience pain, but is it possible t...

Hello… 2 weeks ago I 29F went on a date with a 35M. We hit it off… so I thought. This was my 4th time matching him on a dating app and we decided to give it a go and agreed to dinner. The night was great. I really enjoyed the convo and he mentioned twice wanting to see me again. I went away for a weeklong trip and conversation (thru text only) was consistent however lackluster and diminished… he is repeatedly making comments such as “work is hard/tough/busy… etc” Effective this week, I’m only hearing from him maybe once a day. I asked him if he was free anytime ‘soon’ for dinner and he responded that work has been keeping him busy. Now usually I would take this as a sign and lose interest… but since he’s 35 — that’s why I’m on here making this post. Should men at this age be more clear? Am I completely missing this sign? Am I to accept that he’s really busy with work? I think after just one date I don’t necessarily have the right to ask if he’s interested… but what should/can I do...

Ive been talking to this girl for about half a year at work (I know I know lol), shes constantly touching me, complimenting what I wear, and asking me if something is wrong if I look even remotely tired... so I ended up seeing her on Tinder and got her Snapchat. I didnt even know she was single actually, Im a little slow lol. Anyway, I sent her a silly snap and she seemed excited and asked how I was blah, blah, blah. After a little texting I just cut to the chase and mentioned I saw her on Tinder and didnt know she was single. Once I said we should meet up she saved the chat and stopped responding. Have I totally misread the situation as her just being nice? Shes definitely flirty with me, but now I assume shes just like that with everyone. I texted her back a week later just laughing at a funny story pic and she responded to that... so I deleted the chat and unfriended her. I hate when people play games with me, and feel even more disrespected if she wont just make it clear shes no...

TLDR: What are good limits and rules for Multidating so i treat everyone well (avoid hurting feelings, feeling guilt etc). You can ignore my story below if u want, it's just showing a bit of my insecurity regarding Multidating that's all. Might be a bit confusing. Sorry for that. Hi everyone, I think online dating or 2020 / 2021 kinda changed how dating nowadays works, or what we are dating at the moment. The topic I need advice on now is multi dating. Context: For setting a bit context, I am male, 26 - and I am late bloomer regarding relationships (only 1 which lasted a year). I myself would describe myself fairly attractive, open, extroverted etc. with "common" hobbies and I can hold myself relatively well in conversation. Just a normo, funny and genuinely nice guy. Ive always thought myself as a relationship kinda guy and who would normally date only a person at a time. Be it as it may now I am in a situation in which I like 2 girls and for now it is very wel...

Does anybody know anything about a girl putting her boy bestfriends initials in her bio that's a girl that put there boy bestfriends initials in there bios? This same girl I been liking gets so confusing everyday. She talks with this boy everyday and and she recently went somewhere with him but she claims there just bestfriends even one of her highlights on instagram has him as bestfriend but how come she can go out with him but when I ask her out shes busy I'm getting very confused and angry and not only that she used to show so much interest until like last month around the time she met the boy now shes acting like I'm just....meh any advice? Submitted July 09, 2021 at 11:45PM Does anybody know anything about a girl putting her boy bestfriends initials in her bio that's a girl that put there boy bestfriends initials in there bios? This same girl I been liking gets so confusing everyday. She talks with this boy everyday and and she recently went somewhere with h...

Hi all! I need some advice: I've been seeing a guy (37m) for about 3months. He's super friendly, affectionate, and has been very open with me but for the last two weeks his communication has slowed down from our previous contact (good morning / good night video chats in between dates, daily meme exchanges, etc) We had a date scheduled last Thursday that was made before the drift. I initiated a bit of contact in between without a response. So I just assumed he was busy and went on with my week. On Wednesday afternoon I called him to confirm and he asked for a raincheck since he had forgotten he already had plans with some coworkers. He offered another date for this upcoming Wednesday but contact is still a bit muffled. Should I bother trying to confirm with him again the night before? Or just wait for him to contact me? 🤷🏾‍♀️ Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:05AM Hi all! I need some advice:I've been seeing a guy (37m) for about 3months.He's super friendly, af...

I’m really worried about using online means to find people who may want to try going on a date. I need to know if face book is worth it seeing as it uses people you know who are also trying to date. Help??? Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:06AM I’m really worried about using online means to find people who may want to try going on a date. I need to know if face book is worth it seeing as it uses people you know who are also trying to date. Help???

I’ve (f19) never felt like this with anyone. It’s like I feel complete peace, even when we aren’t talking. Usually, with my past relationships (idk if I can even call them that), it was constant anxiety. Maybe I’ve just matured but this feels different from the rest. We haven’t discussed exclusivity, mostly because he’s leaving for his last year at uni in September and he’ll be out of state, but hopefully we’ll talk about it soon. I’d love to hear you all’s thoughts about what you felt when you realized you found your person Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:11AM I’ve (f19) never felt like this with anyone. It’s like I feel complete peace, even when we aren’t talking. Usually, with my past relationships (idk if I can even call them that), it was constant anxiety. Maybe I’ve just matured but this feels different from the rest.We haven’t discussed exclusivity, mostly because he’s leaving for his last year at uni in September and he’ll be out of state, but hopefully we’ll talk about ...

I’m looking for people to share stories of their successes and failures when that sort of thing has happened. I personally struggle to approach girls even when I think they might be interested. For some dumb reason my brain thinks it’s weird or inappropriate to show interest in girls. Idk where this feeling comes from, maybe because I’m socially awkward (have autism), or because I don’t want to assume she’s checking me out/interested in case she’s not. I feel like hearing some stories of how things went will help me gain the confidence to make moves. My dating life has suffered greatly from not making moves, especially since guys are expected to make the first move by many. I need to fix this. Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:11AM I’m looking for people to share stories of their successes and failures when that sort of thing has happened. I personally struggle to approach girls even when I think they might be interested. For some dumb reason my brain thinks it’s weird or inappropr...

What do you talk about when you’ve just started talking to someone and you’ve talked about everything but the sexual part of the relationship and actually dating each other?? Not to mention you’ve never actually talked just texted consistently. Submitted July 10, 2021 at 12:13AM What do you talk about when you’ve just started talking to someone and you’ve talked about everything but the sexual part of the relationship and actually dating each other?? Not to mention you’ve never actually talked just texted consistently.