I've tried but they always go sour :/ July 28, 2021 at 11:54PM

Never did tongue, and don’t really want to 😅 July 28, 2021 at 11:53PM

Kissing is more romantic to me and I enjoy it very much as long as there’s not an expectation for more July 28, 2021 at 11:51PM

Well, I’m aro-spec ace, and I love cuddling and hugs and platonic kisses on the cheeks, forehead, pecks on the lips, back of my hand, holding hands, etc., so long as I know that it’s literally all platonic and there are no romantic nor sexual feelings on the other person’s part, because if there were I’d become uncomfortable being around them, let alone touching. I’m lucky that a lot of my close friends are also of this mindset and enjoy expressing totally platonic friendship in this way too. Unlucky because we live on opposite ends of the country now. July 28, 2021 at 11:49PM

I was ! A long time ago now but I was talking to a friend and she was going on and on about how long it’s been, so long she might forget how to do it she said. I asked how long it had been, she puffed out this big breath and said “ god FOREVER!!!” “ like 2 and a half weeks! “ In my head I was like WHAT ?! isn’t that really recently. I had no clue people had sex so often! July 28, 2021 at 11:48PM

I think it shocks me more that there are people who are very adamant they can’t have sex less than 3 times a week. But yes. July 28, 2021 at 11:44PM

I just don't say I'm asexual to new people. Way too much questions. July 28, 2021 at 11:44PM

I'm honestly not sure how to feel about kissing. My only experiences were with the only person I've ever dated, in 8th grade, and we were both extremely inexperienced and not sure of what we were doing. We experimented a little, and it felt incredibly awkward. I liked how close it made me feel to him, but the tongue stuff was kinda weird. We only did that once. Trying to keep an open mind about it, I've since mostly chalked it up to our mutual lack of experience. Plus, I don't know why, but I kind of find hugs and cheek/forehead kisses and the like to be more intimate and meaningful than full, on the mouth kissing. Like I said, though, open mind. I'm not opposed to trying again if I ever get a significant other. Especially if it makes me feel that same level of closeness I mentioned before. July 28, 2021 at 11:39PM

Pregnancy Scare (Please read everything to understand) I (F17) and my boyfriend (M17) are a little bit worried so any help or some support would be great. So in the past week, we have seen each other two times (exactly a week apart) and both times we engaged in sexual acts. Including the type that would land me pregnant. We did not use any form of protection any of the times we did it, and on one of the days we did it 9 times. We aren’t completely helpless in this situation though as we used the pull out method and cleaned up before each entry after finishing. The most that could have happened is some of that stuff being still on him and it getting in me. Obviously precum was present inside of me both days and after everything we over he did the best to scoop out anything from me and I did my best to scoop out anything after him. I know that pregnancy can happen when one ejaculates or pre-ejaculates gets into a vagina or on a vulva. If you don’t know what a vulva is; it is the part...

My wife and I usually have sex 3 times a week. Ever since I made a drunken comment to her, she hasn’t wanted to have sex with me. Apparently I told her I was tired of her pussy, and wanted to try new one. I feel awful, but the damage is done. I have no clue how to make things better. I have apologized profusely, but we still haven’t had sex in weeks. Any advice on how to get her to open up and confident again? Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:13PM My wife and I usually have sex 3 times a week. Ever since I made a drunken comment to her, she hasn’t wanted to have sex with me. Apparently I told her I was tired of her pussy, and wanted to try new one. I feel awful, but the damage is done. I have no clue how to make things better. I have apologized profusely, but we still haven’t had sex in weeks. Any advice on how to get her to open up and confident again?

So this is a throwaway as i don’t want to take chances of her browsing reddit and finding my account A friend of my mother who ill call G(F 43) recently decided to move to my city, but because of some problems that are too long to tell G can move into her new house in about 3 weeks. Now this is where I(M 22) come in G asked me if she could stay over at my place for the time being. Naturally I said yes as I know G since pretty much my childhood. One thing about G is that she is a very sexual person i can remember conversations with her where she would openly flaunt about her sextoys or favourite positions. Its a topic i strangely always could talk with her about as I find myself to be a very experimental person in bed. One time out of curiosity I went and tried sex with a trans women just or know how it is. This is also where my curiosity comes in I never managed to have sex with a MILF although always wanting to. Fast forward to today G is already 3 days at my house and since litte...

Me and my girlfriend would like to Try something new. She is kind of unexperienced and when i ask her what she likes she replies "just take me harder" which is a sign that she does not know exactly what she likes. Ive played around the thought of buying a sex toy. What sex toy works best for you? There is so much to choose from, vibrating cock rings, finger vibrators, bullets, plugs. Thanks for the help❤️ Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:18PM Me and my girlfriend would like to Try something new. She is kind of unexperienced and when i ask her what she likes she replies "just take me harder" which is a sign that she does not know exactly what she likes.Ive played around the thought of buying a sex toy.What sex toy works best for you?There is so much to choose from, vibrating cock rings, finger vibrators, bullets, plugs.Thanks for the help❤️

Looking for some ideas to use with my partner. We often are in the same environment and the build up to sex is often very similar. (Think along the lines of Netflix and chill) I’m looking for some more out of the box ways someone has initiated foreplay that ended up leading to sex. For example something they said that stuck out to you, or something they did that really turned you on. Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:18PM Looking for some ideas to use with my partner. We often are in the same environment and the build up to sex is often very similar. (Think along the lines of Netflix and chill)I’m looking for some more out of the box ways someone has initiated foreplay that ended up leading to sex. For example something they said that stuck out to you, or something they did that really turned you on.

Absolutely no one asked, but I didn‘t know I had a thing for hairy arms and legs until I started dating my boyfriend. When we‘re on the bus or watching a movie together I can‘t stop touching the hair on his arms or legs and the more I do it or think about it the more it turns me on. He thinks it’s cute and will roll up his sleeves for me to tease me when I’m noticeably getting turned on. However I‘m somehow not that much into chest or pubic hair lol. Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:18PM Absolutely no one asked, but I didn‘t know I had a thing for hairy arms and legs until I started dating my boyfriend. When we‘re on the bus or watching a movie together I can‘t stop touching the hair on his arms or legs and the more I do it or think about it the more it turns me on. He thinks it’s cute and will roll up his sleeves for me to tease me when I’m noticeably getting turned on. However I‘m somehow not that much into chest or pubic hair lol.

My (30M) girlfriend (33) was exchanging messages telling us we were in crisis. She was talking with him for about a month, while I was financially supporting her to be in a dream internship. She stops and told me after a while everything that happened. I am pretty hurt, felling insecure and not enough. The guy is famous and has a bad boy style which is not me at all. This gets in my guts. But the venting part is: the story made me horny (?????). I have no idea how to deal, I feel shitty but also I was aroused by her exchanging photos. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT THIS. I don't really understand this ambivalence. How can I be so hurt and still be hard thinking about it? Just pretty confused. I know that sexuality is plural but I'm scared with me Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:24PM My (30M) girlfriend (33) was exchanging messages telling us we were in crisis. She was talking with him for about a month, while I was financially supporting her to be in a dream internshi...

So my 21F girlfriend repeatedly said that she wants to try and finger my 26M ass. Although I don't want to try it (I find it kinda gay, and I am 100% heterosexual) I do want to fulfill most of her sex fantasies. Are there any guys here with experience on this? How did it feel? Any tips to prepare? Thanks in advance! Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:29PM So my 21F girlfriend repeatedly said that she wants to try and finger my 26M ass. Although I don't want to try it (I find it kinda gay, and I am 100% heterosexual) I do want to fulfill most of her sex fantasies. Are there any guys here with experience on this? How did it feel? Any tips to prepare? Thanks in advance!

Using a throw away acc ofc bc my bf has reddit … So at first my bf was so about hygiene always smelled good always had clean smelling breath and always showered before we hung out always had a clean room .. the longer we been dating his hygiene has just completely dropped hes like lost himself … he has an externally high sex drive and i mean i have a decent one but i just have been so so turned off when he wants to have sex because he just smells so bad his feet are atrocious!!! he literally makes the bed smell at times .. i also think he might not wipe after he uses the bathroom, it’s gotten to the point where his breath stinks and i don’t even want him to eat me out and he gets mad when i reject him eating me out and causes arguments .. how do i bring all this up without being mean i have no idea what happened but i can’t take it anymore i just try and take care of my needs with a vibrator when he’s at work to avoid having sex with him … i literally can’t even suck his dick the way...

Are there ways to tell if a guy likes one better than the other? And If he likes your butt Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:38PM Are there ways to tell if a guy likes one better than the other? And If he likes your butt

Versus just with clitoral stimulation. Does anyone else do this? Is there a scientific reasoning for why this helps? Or am I just really weird... Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:45PM Versus just with clitoral stimulation. Does anyone else do this? Is there a scientific reasoning for why this helps? Or am I just really weird...

If you would, do you think it would be better or worse than the first time? I personally had a fine experience when I lost my virginity, but it wasn’t necessarily amazing and I think it’d be fun to see what they were like now. But I’m sure that’s not the case for everyone. Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:51PM If you would, do you think it would be better or worse than the first time? I personally had a fine experience when I lost my virginity, but it wasn’t necessarily amazing and I think it’d be fun to see what they were like now. But I’m sure that’s not the case for everyone.

I’m just curious to know. Would love to also hear from people who were once unfit (like me currently) and have since improved their fitness- like what’s changed for you now? Maybe it’ll be a good motivator lol. Hopefully I’m posting in the right sub! Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:53PM I’m just curious to know. Would love to also hear from people who were once unfit (like me currently) and have since improved their fitness- like what’s changed for you now? Maybe it’ll be a good motivator lol. Hopefully I’m posting in the right sub!

So I’ve been with my soon to be wife for 4 years. I met her when I was 25 and she was 23 going on 24 I was a super virgin when we met. She’s my first and only everything. She on the other hand has never told me the exact number of men and women she’s been with but I know she says it’s embarrassingly high and that she was “wild and crazy” in her college days. We sometimes talk about funny dating stories and funny sexual encounters from our past and Normally I don’t have a problem with it. But sometimes we come across certain things that make me uncomfortable. Like she once said the worst sex she ever had was a threesome she had where both guys “thought they were with a sex doll and not a woman who has limits and can feel pain”. The thought about her being with 2 guys at once and they treated her like that kinda made me feel sick. And the fact that she implied she did it multiple times made me feel even worse. I also have issues when there are times I’d like to try new things and she ...

im a trans guy on t now for over 2 years but my body still doesnt pass and it makes me afraid that if i have sex i will be seen as a woman or if my partner is only attracted to men they wont be attract to me anymore when they see my body, or that i will accidentally get misgendered during sex because they cant help it they just see my body as female. without meaning anything bad you know. and i have so much shame about this also like i feel like my body is disgusting and wrong because it isnt totally male and i feel like im being predatory by being attracted to people because im deceiving them. sometimes i honestly think i shouldn’t have a sex drive or jerk off or even get turned on because i feel like my body is too unnatural for that. thats horrible to say and ive never told anyone that but i just wanted to get that off my chest idk. and i dont want to be like this but i really dk how to stop feeling like this. Submitted July 28, 2021 at 11:56PM im a trans guy on t now for ove...