I'd assume it depends why you're thinking those thoughts. My allo husband says he doesn't get an immediate physical reaction just from seeing a hot celebrity, but he realizes when he's horny in bed later, he's likely to start thinking about them. In a situation like that, it's likely to be sexual attraction. On the other hand, I used to think, "I'd do them," when I saw a really attractive celebrity. In my case, it was just because I heard other people making similar comments, so those were the words that came to mind. What I really meant was that the person was really aesthetically attractive, and I wouldn't be bothered by it if I had to have sex with them. Not that I was really interested in the person sexually. June 11, 2022 at 11:43PM

What did she do that made her not an ally in the past? /gen June 11, 2022 at 11:39PM

When I first discovered I was asexual, It was almost a year into dating my current bf, and I learned about the corrective r***, the dating droplet we had, all of that. I became hesitant. But he didnt scream, or shout, or sigh, or ask me on the spot to leave. I explained more, how I was feeling, and that maybe I didnt wasn't all that interested in intercourse. 2 or 3 years later, he still has the flag as a banner in his game. Whenever anyone cracks a joke about it, or what the flag means, or mistakes the flag for something else, he'll take the time to correct them. I cant say how many times I've walked away from the phone and came back to him giving a lecture on what it means. Many of us aces suffer and it pained me to realize that, you can have a partner who is literally your other half, who you can do almost anything with, your partner in crime. You can have all the best qualities they/you wanted. And yet by mentioning you're asexual, its an automatic dealbreaker. Som...

So basically I was on tinder and I saw that this girl let’s call her Joanne liked me. So I swiped right on the Joanne that kept popping up for me on my tinder. We get to talking anyways we never met before, then finally we set up a date. And as a guy does I told my best mates that I got a date with a girl. I tell all of them, then I say it to the last friend, let’s call him John. He tells me Joanne sounds familiar. Let’s see her snap name. John tells me then and their that’s my ex from 4 years ago we went out for a year and apparently they had a very spicy relationship. He tells me everything they did how it started and ended. I start to add things up quickly and I realise that my friend John is on 3 of my 8 pics alongside me on my tinder profile. So now I’m thinking did this girl seriously like me just to hurt my friend again or hurt me by possibly standing me up on that date just because I’m best friends with her ex, who is John. Which I didn’t know about I’ve only been good mate...

So I have been texting this girl for like 2 and a half months. She is shy and doesn't talk much but messages me regularly(this was before the incident). 10 days ago I went on a 5 day vacation which I couldn't message her like at all, only one time when I got in to a hotel with good enough wifi. She knew how long my vacation lasted and when I got home from my vacation at lunch time she messaged me. I was eating and didn't reply, and then for the rest of the day I forgot to message her. when i woke up i saw a text from her. It was "hi", then another "hi", and then she said "fuck you".(all of this is happening on Instagram so i was looking at all her messages from my NOTIFICATIONS so she didn't knew that i was reading all of them) I was shocked and a little bit offended because she told me that she likes me. after that she started spamming random letter(like asd dsd sd sdad and stuff like that) and she ended the day with "just say someth...

Nah. / joke June 11, 2022 at 11:35PM

Man, I know people tell me not to drink bleach but sometimes it looks like kool aid! Those who say that drinking bleach is harmful to your body and you could “die” if you drink too much have never tried to drink bleach before! Don’t knock it till you try it! June 11, 2022 at 11:35PM