A girl that i have been messaging with wont stop spamming me(over 100 messages in 3 days). What do i do?

So I have been texting this girl for like 2 and a half months. She is shy and doesn't talk much but messages me regularly(this was before the incident). 10 days ago I went on a 5 day vacation which I couldn't message her like at all, only one time when I got in to a hotel with good enough wifi. She knew how long my vacation lasted and when I got home from my vacation at lunch time she messaged me. I was eating and didn't reply, and then for the rest of the day I forgot to message her. when i woke up i saw a text from her. It was "hi", then another "hi", and then she said "fuck you".(all of this is happening on Instagram so i was looking at all her messages from my NOTIFICATIONS so she didn't knew that i was reading all of them) I was shocked and a little bit offended because she told me that she likes me. after that she started spamming random letter(like asd dsd sd sdad and stuff like that) and she ended the day with "just say something to me or swear at me at least😭😭😭". The next day she started spamming my name like 10-20 times and ended on "where did it all go wrong, we were supposed to fuck". and today she also spammed my name in caps and tried calling me. That's the last thing she did today, she has sent 100 messages in total and suddenly a random hate account appeared that was with my pfp with an x on it and the name is coward(my name)hateaccount(99 present her). I don't know what to do because she messaged me so often and complimented me on my stories on instagram, we have talked about a lot of stuff and i didn't expect this from her. Should i try to fix our relationship or just to block her and forget about her?*(she was calling me while i was writing this)



Submitted June 12, 2022 at 12:11AM

So I have been texting this girl for like 2 and a half months. She is shy and doesn't talk much but messages me regularly(this was before the incident). 10 days ago I went on a 5 day vacation which I couldn't message her like at all, only one time when I got in to a hotel with good enough wifi. She knew how long my vacation lasted and when I got home from my vacation at lunch time she messaged me. I was eating and didn't reply, and then for the rest of the day I forgot to message her. when i woke up i saw a text from her. It was "hi", then another "hi", and then she said "fuck you".(all of this is happening on Instagram so i was looking at all her messages from my NOTIFICATIONS so she didn't knew that i was reading all of them) I was shocked and a little bit offended because she told me that she likes me. after that she started spamming random letter(like asd dsd sd sdad and stuff like that) and she ended the day with "just say something to me or swear at me at least😭😭😭". The next day she started spamming my name like 10-20 times and ended on "where did it all go wrong, we were supposed to fuck". and today she also spammed my name in caps and tried calling me. That's the last thing she did today, she has sent 100 messages in total and suddenly a random hate account appeared that was with my pfp with an x on it and the name is coward(my name)hateaccount(99 present her). I don't know what to do because she messaged me so often and complimented me on my stories on instagram, we have talked about a lot of stuff and i didn't expect this from her. Should i try to fix our relationship or just to block her and forget about her?*(she was calling me while i was writing this)
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