Been on one date. Will be going on another date. The guy I wondered if he is not too keen on spending. Its just been a few days past my bday too. The gift was a mug from him. Is it like a low effort gift? Submitted May 08, 2023 at 02:10AM Been on one date. Will be going on another date. The guy I wondered if he is not too keen on spending. Its just been a few days past my bday too. The gift was a mug from him. Is it like a low effort gift?

Trying to ask out a girl from work Long story short I’ve been super into this one counterpart at work I know work relationships can be sticky but as much as I’ve heard not to form any I really do like this person I just don’t talk to them on a super personal level all the time I’ve hung out with them twice in a group setting now and I’ve tried reaching out to them over text haven’t gotten a response probably because it’s super random and legit the day after I got their number asking to FaceTime which might’ve been kinda dumb knowing we’re not on that level yet probably but like idk where to go from here now do I continue pursuing or just play off a bit since they never responded to me? Submitted May 08, 2023 at 01:02AM Trying to ask out a girl from workLong story short I’ve been super into this one counterpart at work I know work relationships can be sticky but as much as I’ve heard not to form any I really do like this person I just don’t talk to them on a super personal level...

So there’s this small restaurant in my neighborhood I go to 1-2 times a week. The owner and staff are great. Now there’s these 2 really cute waitresses who work there who are foreign, and the times we interact they’re always really friendly but act shy and slightly nervous toward me. One of them in particular blushes a lot and she compliments my clothing (says stuff like “I like your shirt” “I like your jacket”) etc. Are these good signs or could it be because my presence makes some women feel uneasy? God I hope it’s not the latter, it would seem unlikely because most people say I’m easy to talk to and be around etc. Both jobs I work require people skills to an extent, and my clients compliment my professional skills a lot and trust what I can do for them. Either way I’ve never been that good at reading women which is why I ask Submitted May 08, 2023 at 01:12AM So there’s this small restaurant in my neighborhood I go to 1-2 times a week. The owner and staff are great. Now there’...

Lovely May 07, 2023 at 11:52PM

I have this friend i’ve known for 6 years. He’s always been relatively shy around me even till this day. I’ve had feelings for him off and on but they’ve recently been stronger than ever. Throughout college, he was always there for me. When I found out I got into law school, that same day he came over with food and cake. When I moved to South Carolina for law school and graduated, he flew in to be there and got me a sweet gift. What makes me hesitant is that he’s just always been more shy around me and very careful with his words. It seems like he’s closer to some of his other girl fitness and regularly facetimes them but with me, we don’t do that and he just more serious around me. We recently went out for drinks and he told me it seems like I have high standards because I carry myself well. I didn’t think much of it then but now it’s starting to get to me. We’re both single and im thinking in through but need to know if the signs are there or I am just going crazy. Open to my opi...

A bit of a pathetic post, but here goes.... I'd say that on default, I lean towards the shy side, but can easily chat once I get into the 'zone', find common ground, bouncing off each other well etc. But for the life of me, sometimes I literally - and I stress this - cannot think of a single thing to talk about. Not one topic. I just go blank. Last weekend I was hitting it off with a girl, a bit of a laugh, and a flirt etc. All seemed like it was going well. We ended up going to a friends house later on that night to party etc. We got there and the vibe was fairly low-key and chill. Now, I was basically in her company at the house for a good hour or so, and talking with friends etc. But in terms of 1 on 1 chat, I went blank. Absolutely blank. I couldn't think of one thing to say, or a way to fluently make conversation without it seeming forced/weird, if that makes sense. To be fair, I think she had also absolutely hit the wall, so I think she was in a similar boat...