Basically this girl and I were just looking at each other for months without ever talking. She was mostly very shy towards me. I failed to talk to her properly in the meantime. Read this post for more context. This week, I overheard a conversation between her with a friend that made it seem like she got a boyfriend. Her attitude towards me changed. She started holding eye contact, smiling, and last time she saw me she winked. Which is something I never thought she could do since that was not her usual behavior. Not gonna lie, I am pissed. At myself mostly, but still, what does she wants? Rubbing it in my face, mocking me? I am confused. Submitted November 01, 2020 at 11:55PM Basically this girl and I were just looking at each other for months without ever talking. She was mostly very shy towards me. I failed to talk to her properly in the meantime. Read this post for more context.This week, I overheard a conversation between her with a friend that made it seem like she got a ...

Hey all hope you are doing well! Figured I’d give this a quick shot. Background- Male, been talking to someone for about 2 months now, done ~10 dates with a mixture of activities in there (first one about 1 month ago), been intimate, and just want to see what you all think. I feel like I’ve implied that I like this person with certain phrases (ex: “ I’m so happy to see you”) which is always reciprocated. And I see things with this person potentially going somewhere and understand they need to clearly understand my intentions and know I am committed. If this were you, when would you say the words “I like you”, bring up the idea of being bf / gf, and really have those deeper conversations of how I feel. Am I already a little late? I just want to make it a meaningful conversation and do it in person and avoid talking over the phone. Thank you in advance! Submitted November 02, 2020 at 12:00AM Hey all hope you are doing well! Figured I’d give this a quick shot. Background- Male, b...

Hi, so i was in a relationship with this person (I'll just call him Jon here). I'm 16F he's 18M. First relationship I've ever had, first person I've ever loved this way. I loved him for a while before I thought we might actually be able to be in a relationship together. I asked him out, he accepted, and we started dating. Very shortly after, he told me he wanted to be my boyfriend, but he had a few conditions that i should know about before, just so that I knew what i was going to get into if we actually got into a long-term committed relationship. Basically, he said that he wanted a relationship where he could still be with other girls and introduce them into the relationship (with my approval) emotionally/sexually. But me being with other guys would be considered cheating. Btw I have nothing against relationships like this but i just don't want to be in one. Just saying in case it seems like i don't respect poly relationships, because i do. I told him i c...

Ive told him all my issues before and he swears he changing for the better. Ive given so much of my time to this guy older than i l, that know I deserve the better guy. but i hate that im hurting this insecure, depressed guy thats got barely any family, by leaving him. Submitted November 02, 2020 at 12:14AM Ive told him all my issues before and he swears he changing for the better. Ive given so much of my time to this guy older than i l, that know I deserve the better guy. but i hate that im hurting this insecure, depressed guy thats got barely any family, by leaving him.

I'm an average looking woman 54 female. I have a lot of younger friends and friends in general. I have been divorced from my second husband for 2 years now. I very easily make friends. I have a lot of stuff going on in my life. Ever so once in awhile I get down and I either feel like absolutely nobody likes me or I'm a doormat. For some strange reason I get really hot guys that pay attention to me. I don't get it either sleek or sexy I don't sleep with them I'm friends for them for a long period of time. I just get friend zoned. Here's where it gets complicated. There's always some girl who is way hotter than me who will convince the guy that I like that I'm not a part of the" It" crowd. I'm frustrated I don't understand how they're paying attention to me in the first place and second of all why does somebody just walk in and swoop them away from me. What am I doing wrong? Submitted November 02, 2020 at 12:17AM I'm an ave...

I've been on Lexapro (SSRI) for 8 months when I was 17. I experienced the same lack of libido but it came back eventually.(1 year later) What I mean by libido is wanting the orgasm. I still don't feel sexual attraction/want to have sex. This haven't changed since I hit puberty. And it hasn't changed at any point. I can say very confidently that I experienced a rudimentar version of that BEFORE puberty and IDK what happened after. I have no traumas or anything. I did experience crushes and romantic attraction, and this also hasn't changed after antidepressants. If I were you I'd think about how you behaved before and after taking the meds. If you had a libido before antidepressants it's probably going to return but this process takes time. November 01, 2020 at 11:58PM

I actually laughed aloud at this 😂 November 01, 2020 at 11:57PM

I duno if you read my post. I want to stop because i dont see any enjoyment in it and it makes me feel bad and tbh doesnt feel all that good 😦 November 01, 2020 at 11:56PM

What the point is supposed to be. Most guys are going to be miserable November 01, 2020 at 11:55PM

I don't, actually. I spend most of my time arguing on Tumblr and Instagram. November 01, 2020 at 11:50PM

You don't understand what? Why? November 01, 2020 at 11:43PM

Legit don't understand it. November 01, 2020 at 11:42PM

"sex dream" "I'm just passively watching" November 01, 2020 at 11:39PM

I like the blurry first image November 01, 2020 at 11:35PM

How to deal with virgin shaming: "Mind your own business". Ignore anything else they say about the subject. November 01, 2020 at 11:34PM

Personaly i don't. But i do partake in that sort of thing as my brain convinces me that today will be the day that i find that one thing that im attracted to. Obviously that wont ever hapen for me. Just my brain making excuses. November 01, 2020 at 11:28PM

Its mitosis November 01, 2020 at 11:20PM

Yeah I know it's kind of a hard show to get parents to watch lol. There might be other shows you could use, but idk. November 01, 2020 at 11:20PM

What? November 01, 2020 at 11:18PM

Nice And it's not too late, we should be proud no matter the time of the year xD November 01, 2020 at 11:17PM

You are stunning 💛 and thank you for this. I needed it. Was called abnormal for being ace... was told “it’s natural so you need help” this helped a lot 🥺 November 01, 2020 at 11:17PM

shubble is also ace! not sure if you know her, but she was the one who helped me figure out i was ace. November 01, 2020 at 11:11PM

people on the sub usually say they do November 01, 2020 at 11:09PM