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/u/Riskan-Rebel on I had a blow up with my mum about pronouns

In the right? this wasn't a competition between my mother and me. I don't give a flying frick if I was in the right. I'm worried my mother is living in constant fear. Also more baseless assumptions. Considering I never wrote anything to do with my tone or emotions in the post and you got heartless, know it all brat from it says a lot about you. Not me. September 21, 2022 at 01:07AM

Feeling like an idiot.

I’m used to being In toxic, abusive, controlling relationships. Normally the guys I’m with are obsessed with me. I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 months & he said he’s “figuring out if there’s potential for a long term relationship”. He’s only dated 2 women and they were both quite long term. He doesn’t want to “rush into a relationship” and I’ve definitely been pushing him away by wanting a relationship so fast. It’s extremely frustrating because my trauma is telling me he’s seeing other women & he’s telling me it’s only me. We don’t go on dates. He’s “busy”. Which he is. He says we’re exclusively seeing one another. But I feel like I’m a f buddy. His ex reallly screwed him over and I could understand him being hesitant… but dang. He said we couldn’t go on a date this week because even though he “cares” about my emotions he’s putting himself first and has things he needs to do. But that we can soon. He’s getting frustrated with me. Kinda being distant now. I feel dumb and ...

I need real advice please I don't know what to do.

I (21F) was going out with this trainer from my gym (25M), let's call him Dylan since december last year. Dylan has been playing games with me, he kept me believing "I was the only one" and that he only had eyes for me and sh!t. It's been that long and he's kept me a secret in front of the people in the gym (which I thought was fine because he works there). He has these habit of saying we are going to do something and when the day comes not one text not one call, NOTHING. Of course I am mad because this is child-like behavior and I'm not his mom to tell him how to communicate like a decent person. Mid-june I went to a party and I got very drunk and this other guy (he knows him) and I hooked up. I told him everything and said that I was sorry and everything. And he ALWAYS brought it up and said how could you do that. And yeah I took all responsability and all. And I did it because deep down I knew Dylan was cheating on me. Anyway one day he tells me "ok...

/u/SnowCookie6234 on I wanted to attend a pirate party but now I'm heartbroken

Ouch, those organizers sound like creeps. September 21, 2022 at 12:02AM

Need genuine advice regarding dating a girl who has a high body count.

I(24m) met a gorgeous girl(23f) online and we hit it off quite well and we been texting and talking daily for 3 months. However, recently she told me she has never been in a serious relationship and has slept with like 15-20 guys. So, do you think she is a player and i will get dumped too or should i give it a try. Tbh, i have never really been interested in relationships and im still a virgin if that matters. Submitted September 21, 2022 at 12:13AM I(24m) met a gorgeous girl(23f) online and we hit it off quite well and we been texting and talking daily for 3 months. However, recently she told me she has never been in a serious relationship and has slept with like 15-20 guys. So, do you think she is a player and i will get dumped too or should i give it a try. Tbh, i have never really been interested in relationships and im still a virgin if that matters.

Do women realize most men get almost zero attention from women in their teens and 20s?

I'm not saying women owe men anything I'm just curious if they realize this Submitted September 21, 2022 at 12:14AM I'm not saying women owe men anythingI'm just curious if they realize this