He has apologized!!! And I have granted him his wish of pissing on me in the bathroom and in my mouth... I was upset because he pissed on me without any notice but we talked after him pissing me off (pun intended) Now he’s asked if he can possibly piss inside my asshole. I’ve never heard of this. I’m not that experienced when it come to “kink”. He’s almost a whole 10 years older. And o feel like I’m not prepared for his intensity but I wanna know how it feels to be a chick that gets pissed on. I’ll let you guys know tomorrow how I like this new pissing agreement... but my real concern is of this changes me to only like pissing from now on and nothing else?🙅🏻‍♀️ I’ll let you know what his piss tasted like too cause I’m curious. 😊 Submitted April 11, 2020 at 12:12AM He has apologized!!! And I have granted him his wish of pissing on me in the bathroom and in my mouth... I was upset because he pissed on me without any notice but we talked after him pissing me off (pun intended

So when I have tried to lose my virginity to my boyfriend he can get about 2” into my vagina and then there is a thin ring of skin that makes the opening smaller. We got past it today but it hurt and bled slightly. We did a lot of foreplay, it’s not an issue of that. I just don’t know what this is because it fits the description of the hymen that I have read except for the fact that it is internal.... have any of y’all experienced this? Submitted April 11, 2020 at 12:13AM So when I have tried to lose my virginity to my boyfriend he can get about 2” into my vagina and then there is a thin ring of skin that makes the opening smaller. We got past it today but it hurt and bled slightly. We did a lot of foreplay, it’s not an issue of that. I just don’t know what this is because it fits the description of the hymen that I have read except for the fact that it is internal.... have any of y’all experienced this?

So I saw a post about guys talking about frenulum stimulation. The way they described it sounds amazing, however when I was born I was circumcised so a doctor cut off most of my frenulum. I know it's one of those things where "why be sad if you never knew what it felt like in the first place?" but like, I was born with it, and they decided it was the best for me to cut it off my junk. To uncut guys out there, enjoy your frenulum. You are the lucky ones who don't have to deal with being sad over having part of their body lopped off without their consent, and never know what it is like to wonder what their natural body was supposed to feel like. Submitted April 11, 2020 at 12:22AM So I saw a post about guys talking about frenulum stimulation. The way they described it sounds amazing, however when I was born I was circumcised so a doctor cut off most of my frenulum.I know it's one of those things where "why be sad if you never knew what it felt like in

Our lives are constantly on the move....well until Covid-19 reared its ugly head into our lives. Stay-at-Home orders across the country are forcing millions of people to stay indoors with families we really haven't spent that much time with recently (special holidays don't count). There is no better time than now to reconnect. Take this time to reflect on your spouse and why you married him/her. Give to one another more than the material; rekindle the love you have for each other. This is the best time to get to know your husband/wife all over again. Submitted April 10, 2020 at 11:56PM Our lives are constantly on the move....well until Covid-19 reared its ugly head into our lives. Stay-at-Home orders across the country are forcing millions of people to stay indoors with families we really haven't spent that much time with recently (special holidays don't count). There is no better time than now to reconnect. Take this time to reflect on your spouse and why you ma

This is sort of a vent post. I am just tired of being the mature one. He belittles our 3 year old and behaves like a dick. He will accidentally hurt her and make her cry and his response is “oh please” and then when I tell him to apologize he makes a stupid douchey face and says “Sowwy baby” in the most degrading way. He has little empathy for her or anyone. Back when she was barely walking he made no effort to ensure her safety. She was hitting her head and falling on her head whenever he was with her, an embarrasing number of times. He refused to address the issue at all! There are so many things he refuses to address because he doesn’t think they are problems. Things are better now that our daughter can take better care of herself but there are still days when I’m blown away at how messed up my husband is. I’ve made a post here about how he rarely helps out. But that’s just a part of a bigger problem. There’s a part of his brain that doesn’t understand the world as anything outside

Yeah I'm allo. I love [looks at smudged writing on my hand] varguba. April 11, 2020 at 12:13AM

Mind blown... April 11, 2020 at 12:13AM

honestly the only reason i'm not so outspoken about lgbt things in public is cause i never know who will ask for my certificate of belonging in it. maybe social media just ruined my perspective of the community's acceptance, but i don't know for sure April 11, 2020 at 12:11AM

Genderfluid ace reporting for duty miss April 11, 2020 at 12:11AM

Don’t worry you’re fine. I know what you mean though, like how is Netflix and Chill = Sex? I don’t get it April 11, 2020 at 12:05AM

your English is better than a lot of native speakers, my friend! April 10, 2020 at 11:58PM

Something to remember is that your orientation is determined by who you are sexually attracted to, not whether you engage in sexual activities. If you don't (or do but very rarely) experience sexual attraction, then you're asexual. You say you "can't see the same appeal" so that may be the case. You can be bisexual and still not want to have sex. If sex has such a strong negative impact on you then it's likely you are sex-repulsed. Many people of all orientations are. If the pain you are talking about is a physical pain then you may need to see a doctor. Physical pain is usually an indicator that either your partner is moving too fast (or you need additional lubricant), or there's a medical issue. April 10, 2020 at 11:56PM

The contestants are also from North America, The UK, Ireland, and Australia. So like, if they do make an emotional connection it'll have to be long distance (meaning sexless) for at least a period of time after the show anyway. April 10, 2020 at 11:52PM

I’m 19 and I feel you completely dude. My sexuality has been a rollercoaster from straight to bi to only attracted to traps, trans, cross dressers, etc, and then all the way now to ace (I think). I find pussies, penises, and anuses gross. Though if I HAD to choose I’d go with penis they’re much nicer. Though I like the feminine figure but vaginas repulse me (hence the trans kink) I’m honestly still confused about my sexuality. I like MTF trans, but I’m not interested in neither live, relationships, or sex. Only time I’m really interested is when the teenage hormones kick in and a boner won’t go down. It’s hard to explain for me but I’ll try to put it in simpler terms I guess. When I’m not horny, I don’t like anything. When I am horny, I’m interested in loads of porn (still push to the males though) so I’m not entirely sure what to think or do. Hopefully this could help you feel not so alone in your way of thinking? Sorry if I don’t make any sense, talking is hard for me lol. Apr

I like physical affection (hugs, little kisses - not heavy making out -, cuddling). I don't like sex. Sex does absolutely nothing for me, it is like taking out the trash. A somewhat gross chore that I will do to 'keep the peace' as it were. This is all said with the caveat that I haven't dated in almost a decade because most guys want to have sex, and if I can get away with not having to, then I am not going to. April 10, 2020 at 11:51PM

I (23 F) recently got into a relationship with my current boyfriend (25 M) about two and a half months ago. I spend the majority of the week with him at his and his roommate’s (23 M) apartment. When he and I were together with friends we always would always be super cuddly and kiss (just a peck) every now and then, but he, later on, was told by his roommate that he and their friends found it super uncomfortable and we needed to tone it down. To be honest we weren’t that great about it and I had no idea that what we were doing wasn’t okay with the others because I only heard it through my boyfriend and nobody else. When we hung out with our friends after that we now just slightly cuddled (mostly rest on each other but fully cuddle when no one was around), gave a quick peck less often, and that was mostly it. Just last week he was told again that what we were doing was not okay and at first I was pretty annoyed and unhappy with the fact that we needed to tone it down even more. For me

We are half siblings, and I was raised by another family member basically as an only child; I never had too much contact with my mom, sister and her father really growing up. The most I ever lived with my mom and her was about a month when I graduated highschool. My mom is with someone else right now and they are telling me that my sister has been out hanging out late in the city with her friends for days on end at times, and also has been busted for pot recently. My mom said she tries to prevent her from leaving but she manages to leave anyway by sneaking out. All of the adults seem to be at their wits end on what to do; and our other half siblings that are older than me aren't of any help either. Her father said that she doesnt have any good role models so I need to talk to her and set her straight. It doesnt help that he thinks im his daughter too; he doesnt know Im not. (Its complicated.) I just have no idea how to go about talking to her; whenever I try to pry she gets unc

My boyfriend owns a 16 month blue healer puppy that is absolutely adorable and high strung. He loves her so much and sometimes she does get out of hand and he will harmlessly push her away from him or give her a light spank. Last night we were drinking and my boyfriend got sick, thus, he was very tired this morning and woke up to diareah all over the house. I opened my eyes to my boyfriend carrying the dog out of the room from her shoulders and I heard her yelp. He probably came back into the room 3 times carrying the dog and threw her onto the bed and hit her. I felt awful for the dog and tried to give her love/explain to my boyfriend she probably had diareah and couldn’t hold it in etc but he claimed she knows not to poop in the house. After the whole fiasco was over, we noticed the dog was limping on her back leg. Also anytime he would put a hand to her to pet, she would flinch. I have owned dogs before and I know you need to have a bit of assertiveness when dealing with them/train

Hey all, Boyfriend has always struggled with his weight. I am someone who can eat whatever and stay thin. I actually eat quite healthy but I don’t limit myself or cut out certain foods, I just prioritize getting lots of nutrients. I also LOVE to cook foods from all over the world and like to make a dessert once a month or so. Boyfriends nutritionist recently put him on a diet that is essentially a keto/AIP diet, so, strict. I do all of the cooking in our house, and so I’ve been making foods that fit his diet and just serving myself a side of rice or eating real pasta where he has zucchini noodles. My problem comes in more with making treats. Today I wanted to make peanut butter cookies, and he didn’t say anything but acted kind of like I was being unsupportive. I understand why he could feel this way, but I also don’t want to limit myself from eating the foods I like because he has to lose weight. If it were short term I wouldn’t mind, but this is meant to be a long term diet and I

my boyfriend’s number one love language is words of affirmation whereas mine is quality time. this would not be an issue if he truly understood/respected the difference within him and i as well as tried to make it known that it is something being worked on. we both have significant mental health issues which may play some small role within this but the difference between him and i is that i have had years of therapy and medications. i am educated and well aware of my battles, he is not with mine nor his own. i constantly feel either smothered or neglected, there is no in between. i don’t feel happy within this constant battle. i love him, but i don’t know how to feel loved by him. i have tried explaining the difference between him and i on numerous occasions and it seems that he doesn’t truly get the significance of the struggle i face. i would like to continue with this relationship but i simply do not know how to with such a lack of communication in the love language category.

TD;LR: Boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) are having difficulties with 5 months of distance while in quarantine, but excelled last time we did distance for 4 months and a 12 hour time difference. My boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) have been together for a year and a half been forced to return home from school due to quarantine. This effectively put us into a LDR until school begins again in August. It’s been a month since I’ve seen him and I love him dearly, but this quarantine is just getting to us. This is not the first time we’ve been LDR. I spent last summer on the other side of the world visiting family (4 months) and we got through that without any major hiccups. Now, in quarantine, we’re struggling. We both have anxiety and I also have depression, so this situation isn’t easy to begin with. I get that tensions are higher because we are stuck inside for another month but this is just tearing me apart. He asks me questions but phrases them in a really rude and off-putting way and then ge

He’s been asking me to play and I want to play and enjoy them, but I’ve always hated mutiplayer games. I feel so stupid and like I’m going to lose and everybody is watching me lose. I know it’s a stupid fear to have and I should get over it and he won’t judge me, I just don’t know how to enjoy it. Literally I just don’t like waiting for other players and talking to people during the game and stuff. I feel bad because he plays with his friends all the time and he wants me to play games with him one on one but I just really don’t enjoy it. I try to get into it. I just feel so bad for losing and then I feel bad for feeling bad because he can definitely tell. What adult likes to say “I’m a sore loser?”. Like what a pathetic problem to have, right? Idk, general advice. I know. Love myself. Practice self love. Your feelings are valid. But that doesn’t make me enjoy it. TLDR: I hate losing. How do I get over it? Submitted April 11, 2020 at 12:11AM He’s been asking me to play and I wa

At first, I was trying to remain positive. I've always thought it's better to act than to sit around and cry about it. I was going to use this time to discover new things about myself. At the age of only 23, my life is at a bit of a cross-roads. I've just graduated and I'm wondering what to do with my life. Now's the PERFECT chance to stop and think what I want with my life. But there's an issue. I don't really get a lot of time to myself, because I'm basically here to look after my parents who are unable to cope with COVID-19. My mother has outright given up, which is absolutely unlike her in every way. She's always been a fighter, overcoming everything in her path, and shifting heaven and earth for the people she loves. But she has underlying health issues, several of them, which all means if she gets it, the outcome likely won't be good. She has absolutely convinced herself she's going to get it and is going to die. Every day she tells