I (24f) live in a pretty small college town, so most of the guys I see on OLD live in bigger cities around me that are almost an hour away. The few I’ve been talking to on hinge almost immediately start talking about a date (it must be a thing on that app?). There’s hardly anything to do in my town, so of course most of the date ideas are for where these guys live. There’s no halfway point for us to meet, just even smaller towns between us lol. Submitted November 25, 2022 at 01:04AM I (24f) live in a pretty small college town, so most of the guys I see on OLD live in bigger cities around me that are almost an hour away. The few I’ve been talking to on hinge almost immediately start talking about a date (it must be a thing on that app?). There’s hardly anything to do in my town, so of course most of the date ideas are for where these guys live. There’s no halfway point for us to meet, just even smaller towns between us lol.

I don’t FaceTime, and I’m not really a talker, so unless the other is carrying/initiating it I’m often little clueless at times on how to maintain a long call. Any cute things you guys do, what you talk about, or just ways to keep the vibe going? Submitted November 25, 2022 at 01:08AM I don’t FaceTime, and I’m not really a talker, so unless the other is carrying/initiating it I’m often little clueless at times on how to maintain a long call. Any cute things you guys do, what you talk about, or just ways to keep the vibe going?

Hi everyone, I (24F) was dating someone (35M) for about 2.5 months. We shared the same values, and he was incredibly consistent with me - we would call everyday for 1-2 hours and he would travel down by car just to see me almost twice a month (it's a 6hr drive!). We were not physical with each other due to our religious convictions however we shared a deep emotional bond with each other. Until he dropped the bomb on me and told me he was just not ready for a commitment. He offered to stay friends in the mean time "to see if his mind will change". I told him that while I understand his decision, I cannot stay friends with him at the moment as it would be difficult for me to move on. I unfollowed him on instagram, deleted his contact info, and all our pictures together, etc. He has not reached out since. I am quite sad as he's such an amazing guy regardless of this. Was I rash in my decision? Or was it right of me to do? Should I move on? Or hope that he will reach...

At the beginning of the year I (F21) met my friend’s friend (M22). He asked for my number and I gave it to him but ended up…ghosting him. I was dumb I know. I met that guy again a month ago. He seemed nice so I texted him. We started chatting and went out. Those times were amazing, he is so considerate, intelligent and interesting. And physically he’s like TOTALLY my type, no really the way he’s soooo fine is insane… Now! I have a bit of a problem coz obviously I appreciate the time we spend together (basically we can talk for 5 hours non stop). But on our last meeting he said “I struggled to find a place to meet because it’s my first time going out with a female FRIEND”. Each time we went out none of us tried anything romantically. Plus we don’t really text each other, but spend more time going out to try new spots. This week I realized I have a crush on him (which can seem dumb considering the amount of time we’ve spent…). I feel like I friend zoned myself…idk what to do to make ...

I'm not sex repluse I do get you need it and it is important ( my husband is allo and I know how important it is to him) But I've seen relationships fall because one can't give sex. Either because lace of time, stress, or medical. You should love someone more than just sex. It should be a benefit and enjoyed experience with your lover. If you have to so you don't loose your lover I think there's a problem. That might just be me. November 24, 2022 at 11:29PM

You might be adexsexual ? It kind of is the opposite of aegosexuality, as in it's a very self-centric. The focus is on you and your sensations. November 24, 2022 at 11:27PM

Physics November 24, 2022 at 11:24PM