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So basically I started chatting with this girl on Instagram the other day I had met and she said I was cute. Me being single say she’s cute and ask to get to know her. So we chat the whole day and she’s like she fucks with me so she says she has work and will hit me back up after work so I’m like cool. Sure enough it’s nighttime and I fall asleep and wake up to no notifications. I’m not thinking too much into at the time so the day goes by and later that night I send her a meme I thought was really fun and she likes it and responds but when I try to start a conversation it’s just dry with her now, and we were having a convo but she never replied to my last message which hasn’t been seen as of yet. That was two days ago. I made like three posts yesterday of me and what I was doing and she liked them all. So I’m just confused on the matter of if she likes me or not or I’m doing something wrong? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 12:31AM So basically I started chatting with this girl on Ins...

Hi Reddit. You guys helped me get out of that situation. I actually deleted the post because the problem had been solved, but to get everyone seeing this up to date: I’m 18 (m) and my girlfriend (ex) is 17. After breaking up with her I felt relieved. 2 days later her mother texted me. She always turns things around on me and makes me out to be the bad guy. She tried to do it this time but I stood my ground. She sent me voice messages calling me a spineless puke, threatening to come to my house and “hunt me down”, what do I do? I’m a bit nervous because I don’t want to do anything regrettable if she or her husband were to come at my door. I was thinking of taking the voice messages and texts and contacting the police but I’m not sure how to go about it. And I’ve seen a lot of times the police don’t do anything until the threat is fulfilled when it isn’t something like a school threat. Please help me. Submitted May 21, 2019 at 12:32AM Hi Reddit. You guys helped me get out of that ...

Hey Ladies which would you rather have, a cock with above average girth(but not too huge) or a cock with an average girth with a curve? Which would hit the G-Spot more? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 12:34AM Hey Ladies which would you rather have, a cock with above average girth(but not too huge) or a cock with an average girth with a curve? Which would hit the G-Spot more?

I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over 5 months now. Everything is great and I love her a lot. But a couple days ago when I was over at her place I noticed that she still had Bumble on her phone (We met on Bumble). I was shocked to see it and I ended up seeing if she was talking to anyone. To my surprise there was a message from some guy from that same morning and it read something along the lines of rescheduling to another date. I don't know all the details because I wanted to give her the benefit of doubt and didn't want to invade her privacy. So I didn't read anything besides the little bit that shows on the main page with all her matches. But it's been on my mind ever since and I can't seem to concentrate on anything else I put my mind on. It's eating me up inside and I don't know what to do. Please give me some advice on how I should handle this situation Submitted May 21, 2019 at 12:58AM I have been dating my girlfriend for a little ...

Last week this guy from my humanities class came up to me and we started talking. We talked for about an hour and then he invited me to this stress management thing at school. After it ended he told me “let’s keep in touch” but never asked or gave me his number. I was too shy to ask for his tbh. But now I’m debating whether or not i should hit him up on canvas (which is basically a school website where u can check ur grades/hw/etc). Like should I do it or is that too weird? Lmao Submitted May 21, 2019 at 01:19AM Last week this guy from my humanities class came up to me and we started talking. We talked for about an hour and then he invited me to this stress management thing at school. After it ended he told me “let’s keep in touch” but never asked or gave me his number. I was too shy to ask for his tbh. But now I’m debating whether or not i should hit him up on canvas (which is basically a school website where u can check ur grades/hw/etc). Like should I do it or is that too wei...

Have you ever dated someone who is on a different side of the clean and dry divide, e.g. you don't drink, but your date showed up drunk and so failed to get hard, or you drank and your date didn't and said something about it, or you were baked and wanted to get rammed, but your date doesn't take pot, they eat magic mushrooms instead and couldn't ram you? ​ Edit: What happened exactly? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 01:55AM Have you ever dated someone who is on a different side of the clean and dry divide, e.g. you don't drink, but your date showed up drunk and so failed to get hard, or you drank and your date didn't and said something about it, or you were baked and wanted to get rammed, but your date doesn't take pot, they eat magic mushrooms instead and couldn't ram you?​Edit: What happened exactly?

Hi guys, I’m a 25 year old virgin. Even though it shouldn’t, me being a virgin is starting to bother me. I didn’t really care up until 23, but now it is getting weird. Over these last two years, I’ve gotten tons of compliments on my looks from customers, pretty girls, average girls, big girls, etc. last year I got over 20 compliments on my looks and this year I’ve already been complimented over 15 times. Customers refer to me as the “good looking or sexy guy”. I’m 5’9 and weigh between 175-190 pounds depending on the time of year. I work out a lot, so I’m very muscular and lean and people always ask me for dieting advice. I do have a big forehead though. Anyway, I’m so hard on myself. Even when I get compliments I’ll say “oh, but she is big, old, average looking etc. actual pretty girls don’t like me” however, two really pretty girls said I was cute this year, but indirectly because I heard from their friends’ and I’ll be like “oh, it’s because I was wearing a hat and they can’t see m...

So this is why I am asking. I (23M) go on a morning hike every day. While on the trail I ended up walking behind a cute girl with a dog. I wanted to talk to her and try to get her number but I have never really tried doing this before. How would you want guys to approach and talk to you? Should I just be straight up and say that I think they are attractive and ask for a number? Or just try to make small talk about her dog or something random and hope it goes somewhere? I mainly want to build my confidence when I am talking to girls but I have never approached a random girl I thought was attractive. I have had 2 girlfriend but I meet them through work/group so I didnt need to approach them I just talked to them. Anything will help thanks!! Submitted May 21, 2019 at 02:13AM So this is why I am asking. I (23M) go on a morning hike every day. While on the trail I ended up walking behind a cute girl with a dog. I wanted to talk to her and try to get her number but I have never really...

A guy friend recently got in a relationship and hot damn I've never seen him look so fine. Why does this happen & what's the psychological reasoning behind it? Why do we always want what we can't have even if it was sitting right in front of us completely available just a few months ago? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 02:16AM A guy friend recently got in a relationship and hot damn I've never seen him look so fine. Why does this happen & what's the psychological reasoning behind it? Why do we always want what we can't have even if it was sitting right in front of us completely available just a few months ago?

Hi everyone! I stopped dating for 5 months now and took some steps into feeling better on my own. Everything seems in order, I seem more sure of myself and I finally feel great alone. YAY! I haven't really dated in a long time and I'm now thinking of putting myself out there, but it seems I have a lot of difficulty at doing the whole dating thing. For example, there's someone that I'm interested in. I met him outside of apps even if we matched on Tinder in the past - I didn't remember until I added him on FB and saw pics. We hit it off quite well but when I started realizing that I might be interested and he might be interested, I freaked out and wasn't able to be my usual funny and confident self. I started overthinking too much and wasn't able to have a conversation. Good thing is I thought I fucked up the whole thing until yesterday when he commented on my FB status about Game of Thrones (thank God for a crappy series ending) and we exchanged a bit. I...

Im a 17 y/o, a Junior in an America high school, who doesn't know what to do. There's a girl who I pass in the hall during school every now and then who usually gives me a little smile each time we pass. A couple days ago she was sitting by my lunch table and was passing looks my way. I think she's kind of shy though, and I'm very shy to anyone who I don't know well. How can I make the next step? I think she's a year below me, but I'm not sure as we don't have any classes or clubs together. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Submitted May 21, 2019 at 02:36AM Im a 17 y/o, a Junior in an America high school, who doesn't know what to do. There's a girl who I pass in the hall during school every now and then who usually gives me a little smile each time we pass. A couple days ago she was sitting by my lunch table and was passing looks my way. I think she's kind of shy though, and I'm very shy to anyone who I don't know well. Ho...

My name is jay and I resent myself. I am stupid and dumb. I don't know what to say and I've done idiotic things in middle school. Let me rewind back. 7th grade was my first year of public school. In that grade I was hyperactive and constantly getting in trouble trying to yean for attention. I was running yelling jumping and doing stupid things in the classroom and halls. I acted immuture and stupid. 8th grade I tried doing a little better but I had problem still with the same thing. This is when I started to resent myself and tried to kill myself. I was in and out of hospital for suicidal and depression emotions. I did something stupid which is climb into the ceiling. That followed me all the way to 9th grade 9th grade I was doing alot better but started having issue with teacher and getting mad at them and acting immature. I started to realize this and tried growing but, I cant. I keap being brought back into some stupid stuff because of the roof thing. I did some more stupid...

just needed some affirmation I matched with someone for a kink arrangement but after chatting with him a few times and looking him up, I know he's actually much older than he said on his profile. After chatting some more outside of tinder, he took down his age. I haven't spoken to him in a few days and haven't told him I know. I 90% probably will let this one go but how crazy would I be to meet him after such a big lie??? on a scale of one to ten and do you think he's hiding something worse? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 02:45AM just needed some affirmationI matched with someone for a kink arrangement but after chatting with him a few times and looking him up, I know he's actually much older than he said on his profile. After chatting some more outside of tinder, he took down his age. I haven't spoken to him in a few days and haven't told him I know. I 90% probably will let this one go but how crazy would I be to meet him after such a big lie??? on a sc...

The girl im interested in has a little boy who may be special needs, that's not a problem for me but I've never been with someone that has a kid already Submitted May 21, 2019 at 02:48AM The girl im interested in has a little boy who may be special needs, that's not a problem for me but I've never been with someone that has a kid already

We’ve been dating for a month and I met his family yesterday. They all love me and welcomed me as part of the family. I love my boyfriend and I get along with his family. However, my parents don’t approve of him because of his race and they don’t believe he made a wise decision in his career path; they don’t think he’s smart enough or will make enough in his career. My parents haven’t gotten to know him yet but are judgmental and reject him already. My mom has only talked to him for like 10 seconds when he picked me up at the door yesterday. Also, his family is in town right now for his graduation later this week. And I’m leaving the country for a family emergency the day after. I love him but I can’t stay with him against my parents’ wishes. How do I break up with him? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:01AM We’ve been dating for a month and I met his family yesterday. They all love me and welcomed me as part of the family. I love my boyfriend and I get along with his family. Howev...

My mom needed her blood pressure checked and we went to the fire station. There was a man there, very cute, all business and I was definitely interested. There was no real "moment" but would it be inappropriate to get the fire station a cake and leave him a hand written card with my number on it? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:16AM My mom needed her blood pressure checked and we went to the fire station. There was a man there, very cute, all business and I was definitely interested. There was no real "moment" but would it be inappropriate to get the fire station a cake and leave him a hand written card with my number on it?

So, I'm a man. And I like to google my thoughts, so today I googled and I find all these dumb articles about the 5 "secret" things men look for. Do women read this shit? I don't feel "smothered" when women tell me they love me. I love to hear that! I wish I heard it more often. I don't like being described as apathetic or unaffectionate. I'm very affectionate. I don't know why it is so hard for people to understand that we all have nuance and we're all individuals. These generalizations of men and women lead to these dumb dating games. I'm pretty sick of it. 🙄 Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:17AM So, I'm a man. And I like to google my thoughts, so today I googled and I find all these dumb articles about the 5 "secret" things men look for.Do women read this shit? I don't feel "smothered" when women tell me they love me. I love to hear that! I wish I heard it more often. I don't like being described as...

I got out of a 3 year relationship near the beginning of the year and i felt like a lot of why it failed was because I settled. I've been seeing this girl for about two months now. I think she really makes me happy. We see each other twice a week. I love being around her. When we're together we somehow manage to talk all night. The sex isn't terrible. I get excited to do super romantic things for her. She makes me want to be a better person. But I'm not super attracted to her. You aren't supposed to settle. But I would be sad to give her up. I don't really know what I'm asking. But does anyone have any advice? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:22AM I got out of a 3 year relationship near the beginning of the year and i felt like a lot of why it failed was because I settled.I've been seeing this girl for about two months now. I think she really makes me happy. We see each other twice a week. I love being around her. When we're together we somehow m...

Hey everybody. I'm dating a girl right now and on our last date I asked her when to meet up again. She told me she is really busy the next week so we made up our next date for the 29th(when I asked her it was 16th). I felt like waiting two weeks for the next date is quite hard because its like losing the pace. So on sunday i asked her again if she likes to meet me this week. Well her answer was she will ask me spontaneous this week when she finds time. My question is does it make any sense? Did you ever had a similar situation? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 07:06AM Hey everybody. I'm dating a girl right now and on our last date I asked her when to meet up again. She told me she is really busy the next week so we made up our next date for the 29th(when I asked her it was 16th). I felt like waiting two weeks for the next date is quite hard because its like losing the pace. So on sunday i asked her again if she likes to meet me this week. Well her answer was she will ask me spo...

So I have this friend, she hangs out with me consistently, we text pretty often as well as playfully tease each other, and we eat lunch by each other. My problem is that I want to make a move for a relationship but I don't know how. I'm a pretty introverted person and don't have great self-esteem, but I'm trying to boost my confidence by working out and watching videos on being outgoing in a social setting. She's a senior and I'm a sophomore as of next year. I invited her to Endgame (as friends), she had mentioned going in previous conversation, but she said that she was going with her friend. How should I proceed? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:24AM So I have this friend, she hangs out with me consistently, we text pretty often as well as playfully tease each other, and we eat lunch by each other. My problem is that I want to make a move for a relationship but I don't know how. I'm a pretty introverted person and don't have great self-esteem, b...

Met a beautiful woman and we’ve got to hangout because of some freelance work and we’ve kept in touch by texting and calling. Bailed on our first date because she had a crazy day and was lazy by the time she got home (luckily I was also insanely busy so it helped me finish my work on time). But it sort of dropped off after that. Last we spoke was three days ago when I asked her out again and she was going out of town that weekend for a wedding. She’s back and started a new job today. I was wondering if it was a rookie mistake to give her a call tonight to ask how it went. Is that too desperate? Advice please! I’m 33M she’s 30F Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:25AM Met a beautiful woman and we’ve got to hangout because of some freelance work and we’ve kept in touch by texting and calling. Bailed on our first date because she had a crazy day and was lazy by the time she got home (luckily I was also insanely busy so it helped me finish my work on time). But it sort of dropped off aft...

Hi everyone so I am having trouble forgiving myself for a decision I made in the summer before my senior year. I had a girl that liked me and I honestly kind of wanted to date her but I decided not to because she was dating a new guy every month and I didn't want to get my heart broken. Instead that month she decided to date my best friend and break his heart a month later. She then dated another guy in August and broke his heart but in September she found the person she was going to date the whole school year. Honestly I have been extremely down on myself for not making a move at some point. After realizing 2 months ago high school is ending huge regret has set in for not dating her. Every time I see them in the halls or at any school event I just think that could have been us. I just think I ruined my senior year which I had high expectation for. There were some good moments but I run a business and started working out and that ate up almost all of my time. I never sat down and ...

Both me and my girlfriend are 17. We've been dating for a few weeks. How do I be her first kiss? Are there any tips I can get to figure out how to tackle this? I've only kissed people who have experience, so I've always done 50% of the work, and now I feel like I'll be pulling more Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:34AM Both me and my girlfriend are 17. We've been dating for a few weeks.How do I be her first kiss?Are there any tips I can get to figure out how to tackle this?I've only kissed people who have experience, so I've always done 50% of the work, and now I feel like I'll be pulling more

Title says it all. I didn’t ask for it. She’s been my waitress a couple of times and we’ve shot the shit when she has been. Went to eat there with my sister and her husband and she wasn’t our waitress. She came by a couple of times to talk to me. They left and I decided to finish my beer outside. She came out and told me she just got cut and asked if I would have a drink with her. We had a couple (she paid for herself). After a hour or two she asked for my phone to put her number in (she called herself to have my number). She texted me within 30min of me leaving to tell me she had a great time and we should do it again. Is she just being good at her job or does she seem interested? Haven’t had the best of luck lately so my confidence is pretty shot and I can’t pick up signals. Any little bit would help Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:39AM Title says it all. I didn’t ask for it. She’s been my waitress a couple of times and we’ve shot the shit when she has been. Went to eat there wit...

So, I haven't used Tinder in four years. I matched up with someone I find attractive of course and we have been talking for 5 days now just off and on when we have time to message each other. Being 25 and female and him being 29 male I figure I am okay with age difference and prefer men who are that age anyway. Note: he is LDS but I am eventually leaving the church....maybe it wouldn't hurt to have a makeout buddy? Anyway, we have been just talking and asking each other questions here and there and I want to ask him out and it seems like he wants to ask me but he is too nervous to do so or something. He will ask me for example, movies I like and mention there is a long weekend coming up and that he isn't going to be busy. And hints that he may want to do something. Is this a normal thing or should I ask him out or just let the conversation keep going until he asks me or what? On the other hand, like I said I haven't used the tinder app in a long time because I am mor...

This is my first date since I was like 15. I asked her if she wanted to get boba on Friday and she said yes. I was excited but now I'm just freaking out cause I don't know what I am doing. Do I pay? Do I kiss her afterwards? Help I need guidance please! Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:47AM This is my first date since I was like 15. I asked her if she wanted to get boba on Friday and she said yes. I was excited but now I'm just freaking out cause I don't know what I am doing.Do I pay? Do I kiss her afterwards? Help I need guidance please!

So I recently turned 18 and I’ll be heading to college very soon an I’d love to get into the dating scene. Unfortunately, I’ve lived with a fairly religious family my whole life and I’ve basically had the whole “dating is bad” “no intimacy until you’re married” thing drilled into me for most of my life. Now that I’ll be out on my own for a while, I really want to start exploring with dating and meeting people. I recently got into tinder and I’ve met some decent people but the idea of actually meeting someone in person and trying to create a connection is terrifying. I also can’t help feeling kinda gross when I talk to guys on tinder. I’m not really sure what to do or how to get over this. Has anyone experienced anything similar, any advice? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:47AM So I recently turned 18 and I’ll be heading to college very soon an I’d love to get into the dating scene. Unfortunately, I’ve lived with a fairly religious family my whole life and I’ve basically had the who...

I think Venezuelan girls are awesome and sexy. Yesterday I was taking a walk and passing by a coffee shop which is close to my house, this Venezuelan girl, who works there, kept looking at me and it was very noticible. After a while, for returning home I have to pass through the coffee shop again and she was outside with a friend of her, also a waiter. I had to pass right in front of them and when I did it her friend said to me quickly "she likes you a lot" I just got my face red and pretend I didn't hear it cuz I was nervous and just passed by without even turning. I wanna get back to that coffee shop and talk to her, How could I do it? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 03:57AM I think Venezuelan girls are awesome and sexy.Yesterday I was taking a walk and passing by a coffee shop which is close to my house, this Venezuelan girl, who works there, kept looking at me and it was very noticible.After a while, for returning home I have to pass through the coffee shop agai...

I kind of still want to date this woman.. we agreed to go hiking it was raining so I said maybe next week, she said yea next week but then the convo dragged on.. what are you doing later I forget who asked I said I wasn’t sure her neither, and I left it on seen apologized a day later said it was that I had to spend Mother’s Day that day, asked how she was doing and if she still wanted to go next sat some days later and she agreed, then On that day I asked when a good time was because she had work in the morning but said she still wanted to go and she textd me way later in the day saying she had to run some errands but wwas now home so I asked if she wanted to do something else instead because I was planning to go to a show later she said maybe then asked if I was going with anybody then told me to let her know when I was on my way so I did and she never showed up next day she texts me she had something with family and asked me how it went, txting someone to tell you when your on your ...

Generally speaking she starts the conversation greater than 75% of the time. Since this a mix of Snapchat and Texts, about 90% of the texts starts with meme(s). Even though she may begin the many of our text conversations, she often appears to make no attempt to continue, kind of. Because often I’ll receive the meme or video and I’ll make some clever remark. Then she will say “hahaha yes” or “haha that’s so true”. Then I’m like great gotta move this convo further or end it. But I don’t really wanna end it in her saying haha because I feel like that would be kind of dropping the ball mid convo. My current strategy at this point is either wait multiple hours or a day to drop a fresh meme or do another witty comment and pray not to get another “hahaha omg so accurate” But generally speaking even if she’s not romantically interested, does anyone know how to respond to this situation where texts are initiated but not 50 50 contribution following it. Some background: She is actually very s...

Hi all, My boyfriend (24) and I (24) have been dating almost 2 months. Today I woke up at his house with a bad sickness that causes lots of pain and he didn’t seem to interested in helping me feel better ( rubbing my back/ asking if there was anything he could do/medicine he could grab) but more interested in going back to sleep and when we woke up and started our day he really didn’t seem all that interested in how I was feeling, when we parted ways he didn’t say feel better or anything like that. Its now time for bed and he hasn’t asked if I am ok, or checked in at all. Im worried about this because I don’t know if he should’ve been more attentive and this is possibly a sign that he’s just not that into me, or am I just being needy? Idk I’m just so fucking anxious lol Tldr: I am sick and in pain and bf doesn’t really seem too interested in comforting/checking in on me, should i be worried? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 04:48AM Hi all,My boyfriend (24) and I (24) have been dat...

When did you tell your significant other that you loved them? And how did they react? I (F20) would just like to hear about others opinions and experiences. I’m nervous to tell mine (M22) just because I’m not sure how he’ll react or if he’s ready to hear it. For some background info, we’ve been dating for almost four months and have known each other for almost two years. All comments I get are appreciated! Submitted May 21, 2019 at 04:49AM When did you tell your significant other that you loved them? And how did they react? I (F20) would just like to hear about others opinions and experiences.I’m nervous to tell mine (M22) just because I’m not sure how he’ll react or if he’s ready to hear it. For some background info, we’ve been dating for almost four months and have known each other for almost two years. All comments I get are appreciated!

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my girlfriend got really mad at me because I showed up to her party the other day wearing black face (as a prank) I used her red lipstick for my lips and regular black face paint and an afro wig. When I came in I yelled out "WASSUP NIGGAS!" her friends all looked at me like i was some sort of alien? I assumed because they knew me they knew I obviously wasn't racist and was only fooling around. But she pushed me out onto the front porch and asked me to leave, she looked like she was on the verge of tears for crying out loud! She's a pretty classic girl so I assumed she was upset about me using her lipstick? She said I embarrassed her and we got in an argument because I told her she was over reacting over a harmless prank (she didn't even have black friends in attendance) since the argument I've been avoiding her calls because I can't talk to her when she's all uppity it really grinds my gears. Am I in the wrong here? is she really not over reacti...

And it’s glorious!! I highly recommend. There was this one guy I knew was interested in me in college/asked me out at one point but I denied him because I wasn’t interested and had a long term boyfriend. I recently saw him at a party. We spent hours catching up and I messaged him the day after and asked if he wanted to grab a drink. When we went on the date he was telling me how he had already planned on asking me out but I beat him to it!! He said he was shocked because a girl had never asked him out before! Anyways.. ladies. Don’t hold back. The biggest catastrophe is being turned down. Shoot ya shot.. it could really be worth it!! I have my second date with him tomorrow. I tried dating a few different people but there’s been zero connection. I’m anxious and excited about this all! 😬 Submitted May 21, 2019 at 05:57AM And it’s glorious!! I highly recommend. There was this one guy I knew was interested in me in college/asked me out at one point but I denied him because I wasn...

I’ve been in love with my sister since my freshman year of high school (she’s 2 years older). We are now both in our 20s. She’s probably one of the most important people in my life always showing me kindness and helping me with so many things growing up (it wasn’t always perfect as we had our fair share of fights/argument).Every family gathering/event I always enjoy her presence (and consider it a date, probably immature thinking). Me and her play video games together every now with our other siblings when we aren’t busy with school, work, & other things. I’m afraid of being rejected if I were to come out to her about my feelings towards her since besides just being my sister, I consider her a close friend. Submitted May 21, 2019 at 06:13AM I’ve been in love with my sister since my freshman year of high school (she’s 2 years older). We are now both in our 20s. She’s probably one of the most important people in my life always showing me kindness and helping me with so many th...

Out of couriosity, what is your opinion on red pill and asktrp subreddits and their teachings and supposed "truths"? I think they have some legit points, but do go little bit overboard with some statements. What do you think? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 06:21AM Out of couriosity, what is your opinion on red pill and asktrp subreddits and their teachings and supposed "truths"?I think they have some legit points, but do go little bit overboard with some statements.What do you think?

Signed up for bumble, within two hours I had over 50 prospects. It’s tough to find someone that would be a an actually good match out there right after a match happens. I feel being on reddit helps me understand how hurtful ghosting can be and how hard dating really is but sometimes and i try to be more aware but it’s just too much, conversations fall flat and it’s just a lot to respond to someone when you really don’t know what else to say. I’ve gotten ghosted via dating app, through texting and after dates, I really don’t mind because its a quick way to eliminate people. I just want people to know that even though some people seem to get more options they’re still vulnerable. So just want to say for those struggling out there keep trying because maybe you’ll finally find the one that can keep up a conversation or someone that accepts that second date. I get having too many prospects and not getting many is a huge disconnect but online dating is just tough all around. I do wonder t...

TO ALL MY LADIES, if you have made the first move, how did it go? any advice? how did you gain enough confidence to go forth with it? Submitted May 21, 2019 at 06:36AM TO ALL MY LADIES,if you have made the first move, how did it go? any advice? how did you gain enough confidence to go forth with it?

I feel that it does not help much. Yes, it is another perspective to the relationship, but will it actually help my marriage? I’ve put my wife through so much and she’s always there. For me, when we are “happy” together, all I can think about is how much we bicker at each other and all the flaws about us and her. Then I proceed to tell her I want to leave her. This has happened probably 3-4 times in the past 1.5 years. During the time after I say that all I do is think about the great times we had and all the good aspects about her. I want to leave but I do not. I do not know if I’m just afraid of leaving or what.... I just feel like I’m done with our relationship and I wouldn’t say that I don’t love her anymore but I just don’t feel that we should continue to be together. We have also only been married two years, I feel that we shouldn’t be having this many problems this early in our marriage. Submitted May 20, 2019 at 07:35AM I feel that it does not help much. Yes, it is anoth...

Let me start by saying we believe we are making the best of our lives and wouldn't change anything. Honestly, I think she just has this tucked in the back of her mind because most aspects of our lives are too good to be true with regards to our compatibility. Our life is thus, I am her caregiver for her condition, Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, and I wanted to post this for 2 reasons. First, for anyone else who might be affected by this disease and looking to read something supportive; Second, to share my vision of what marriage really means. For those who are unfamiliar with this sickness it is mainly understood as chronic fatigue syndrome. It's is characterised by a multitude of symptoms but mainly by non-restorative sleep and brain-fog. Her short term memory and her balance have completely gone to shit in the 3 years but she is still able to keep up with her job. We have a pretty sweet arrangement. We've managed to get jobs at the same company so we can carpool since she...

Has anyone here had a long (10+ years) and happy marriage after a period (6+ months) of separation? I don't mean because of travel or work or lifestyle, I mean you broke up, moved out, split the finances etc and were fully prepared to divorce because of your differences that caused the breakup. ​ If so, at what point did you know reconciliation was the way forward? And how did you move past all the hurt and overcome the differences that cost you your marriage initially? Submitted May 20, 2019 at 12:25PM Has anyone here had a long (10+ years) and happy marriage after a period (6+ months) of separation? I don't mean because of travel or work or lifestyle, I mean you broke up, moved out, split the finances etc and were fully prepared to divorce because of your differences that caused the breakup.​If so, at what point did you know reconciliation was the way forward? And how did you move past all the hurt and overcome the differences that cost you your marriage initially?

My fiance and I are in Las Vegas about to walk down the aisle at noon. I feel so lucky to have someone who loves me like he does. I couldn't be happier! I look forward to the rest of forever. Submitted May 20, 2019 at 01:35PM My fiance and I are in Las Vegas about to walk down the aisle at noon. I feel so lucky to have someone who loves me like he does. I couldn't be happier! I look forward to the rest of forever.

TL;DR My husband (mid-40s) and myself (mid-30s) have been married for over a year. We have two children. Simply put, my husband is a gem, rare! He does what he says, he shows me love, he elevates me by reminding me of my good qualities, he’s the most consistent, loving father. What more could a girl want? I’m Unfortunately, like most relationships, things aren’t perfect, if fact, I’m a little concerned. Over the last six months (maybe even a year) I’ve noticed his temper ramp up when he feels wronged, attacked and/or bullied, but fair enough, right? This is where I’m torn on my feelings. Yesterday, I was feeling overwhelmed by a few different obstacles (parenting opinion differences with my ex husband, basic parenting woes, nothing too serious). When my husband woke he came downstairs and I began sharing my morning frustrations and torn opinions on parenting. During this, he began creating analogies to help direct me toward a decision, all good, I appreciate this! The conversation co...

rhetorical question- Staying committed to one person physically, how do you do it? A few times a month I notice random attractive girls I meet in normal everyday life with aggressive intentions, ‘let’s hang out’, ‘want to watch the game with me?’, with chicks that Ve had friendly conversations at the gym and coffee shop, how do you feel about blowjobs? We should workout together, etc. I’ve been married for over a decade, sex life is there 10-20/month depending how busy we are however it does feel routine - Kinda hard to keep imagination at bay when younger cute chicks wanna hang out. Submitted May 20, 2019 at 04:47PM rhetorical question- Staying committed to one person physically, how do you do it? A few times a month I notice random attractive girls I meet in normal everyday life with aggressive intentions, ‘let’s hang out’, ‘want to watch the game with me?’, with chicks that Ve had friendly conversations at the gym and coffee shop, how do you feel about blowjobs? We should wor...

I have a relationship issue ive been trying to discuss with my husband. I never seem to have the right example of what I mean. When I try to explain, how he talks to me is really rude, he asks for an example and I dont have one. Yesterday though, it happened. Hes laid up with an injury and we had a freak windstorm and it blew over our patio table & umbrella. I didn't even know it got blown over until that morning and it was early evening & I was just ticking things off my to do list, didn't think that issue was super pressing. I mean, it was already tipped over, it wasn't going to get even more tipped over. He hobbles into the kitchen while im making dinner and says, "We just gonna leave the table & umbrella tipped over forever now? I only spent days fixing the bent umbrella before. Who cares right?"... I was dumbfounded by his attitude and wanted to lay into him about it, but instead I looked him straight in the eyes and said in my most serious ...

My husband got badly hurt and is off work and home for the next 8 weeks. I was trying to see the silver lining of my husband getting injured. I thought, we will have time to spend together, maybe strengthen our family bond. He will have nothing to do but talk with me & our son. Might be good. I mean, hard on me, with my full time job, parenting, housekeeping, summer activities and now im a nurse for my husband. But, lets focus on that silver lining I was excited about. I couldn't have been more wrong. Before his injury, if he was distracted, or ignored me I blamed it on him being foggy from work, just exhausted. I made excuses for his bad behavior with me. But I always have let him know when he upsets me. I dont believe in letting details get fuzzy, people should be called on their shit immediately. But now, now he is home, in bed, well rested & just healing. He acts the same with me. Makes me more sad, because he has even less of an excuse now. I am literally his nurse,...

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Hi everyone. Long term reader, first time poster. I'm not sure what I'm really looking for, but I hope someone out there has some useful advice, or at the very least it'll be helpful to get this off my chest and parse some of my feelings. I'll start with the basics: 35M, 30F, we've been married a touch over two years and together for about six. We're both very accomplished professionals and live on the East Coast. No obvious red flags: no infidelity, no abuse, no hidden families or anything crazy like that. To put it in her words, we're simply growing apart. We're different people in a lot of ways (different hobbies, different sets of friends, and things like that) but I've always found that to be secondary to the important aspects of compatibility that we're aligned on: finances, what we want out of life, children, politics, religion, that sort of thing. It hasn't been easy, but I don't doubt for a second that she loves me (and the re...