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/u/64intelligentperson on Statement such as "being gay is against evolutionary, you likely just haven't met the right person of the opposite sex yet" is not ok. But saying somethibg like that about asexuality is toooootally fine >:/

I am not a troll and no, they are not messed up. I guess pople hate the truth as long as its uncomfortable. April 05, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/constantstateofagony on I wanted to get a spinner ring (I have ADHD and love fidget toys) so I decided to get a black one so it can double as an ace ring. The chain is detached from the rest of the ring so you can spin it around.

i have the same ring ! i love it so much April 05, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/PericlodGD on REMINDER THAT APRIL 6TH IS INTERNATIONAL ASEXUALITY DAY!

on april 6 all allos are obligated to paypal me money April 05, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/loqist on Not interested in sex or relationships, but can’t stop thinking about them.

I struggle with feelings of inferiority too and it sucks, sucks, sucks. I haven’t been harangued about relationships but about other appearances. For me, I feel a lot less doomer-y when I focus on resenting the expectation rather than the dread/anxiety of not meeting it. That way you don’t get sucked into an anxiety spiral—just righteous anger, which in my opinion is more healthy 😅. Individuals judging you for something like that are being shallow so, try to remember that you’re the justified, genuine one between the two of you when feeling “less than.” April 05, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/brithryze on A very confused straight guy asks some questions

From my experience as a demisexual, I'm still not feeling any sort of sexual attraction towards anyone at all. Sexual attraction sometimes happens almost immediately too. April 05, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/fshtu on What’s with the garlic bread and cake thing?

I was thinking about how DAMN good garlic bread is even before stumbling upon this meme, or asexuality. It's actually ridiculously good. IKEA has great garlic bread btw. April 05, 2021 at 12:02AM

/u/Creative-notthing on Some of my doubts and thoughts about ace community

There are plenty of reasons outside of sexual attraction to have sex. Maybe they like the way it feels physically. Maybe they are doing it for their partners, or maybe they like the intimacy and being close to someone. Honestly I think you should read up about sex positive aces and aegeosexuals, because I think you’re getting lost somewhere around aces having sex while not being sexually attracted. April 05, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/Space_Ace_8492 on What should have made you realize you're Ace way sooner?

Ha! This is kind of embarrassing but I never even tried masturbating until I was in my 20s 😂 It just never crossed my mind to do that, never even once, not even during puberty lol My friends never talk(ed) about sexual things at all April 04, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/ColonelDrax on The missing entries

tbh I’m confused about it too now, I think you’re right though. I’ve just heard other people tell me I’m sex negative because of that. April 04, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/ShadowArrow01 on The missing entries

Is it weird if I’m not attracted to anyone specifically but I have quite a strong preference for gender? April 04, 2021 at 11:55PM

/u/MessedUpVoyeur on Being ace is a superpower

Why though? I understand too many people will be judgemental towards others for any reason, especially their sexuality, I understand the fight 100%... but why be judgemental at all? Nothing is wrong with me and nothing is wrong with you! We are different, not better or worse than each other! April 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/RamenCorgi1744 on I wanted to get a spinner ring (I have ADHD and love fidget toys) so I decided to get a black one so it can double as an ace ring. The chain is detached from the rest of the ring so you can spin it around.

Exactly April 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/Bronztrooper on Garlic bread for Aang

tbf, Nickelodeon didn't want LGBT+ rep in either and LoK was only allowed to show it by having 2 female characters (not stating who for the sake of OP) hold hands at the very last scene in the final episode. The comics have much more rep, but still no ace characters April 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/lotorest on I wanted to get a spinner ring (I have ADHD and love fidget toys) so I decided to get a black one so it can double as an ace ring. The chain is detached from the rest of the ring so you can spin it around.

I NEED THIS April 04, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/fshtu on What should have made you realize you're Ace way sooner?

This is actually really interesting in a linguistic sense... April 04, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/veebery on Asexual men: Have you had any success dating non-asexual women?

best to be ready for the worst but exspect the best, good luck friend April 04, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/Shadowmothy on Being ace is a superpower

Fun fact: The dotted line around the earth on a globe is supposed to be the equator April 04, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/RavenMasked on REMINDER THAT APRIL 6TH IS INTERNATIONAL ASEXUALITY DAY!

Oh, day after my birthday too. That's nice. April 04, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/void_patissier on WE ARE ON THE COVER OF THE MOST READ NEWS SITE OF MY COUNTRY (ARGENTINA) !!!!!

Our economy is ALWAYS a disaster. April 04, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/AJay_89 on I wanted to get a spinner ring (I have ADHD and love fidget toys) so I decided to get a black one so it can double as an ace ring. The chain is detached from the rest of the ring so you can spin it around.

Omg, I have one with just a black chain. It does wonders for my ADHD lol April 04, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/Diver-Big on I wanted to get a spinner ring (I have ADHD and love fidget toys) so I decided to get a black one so it can double as an ace ring. The chain is detached from the rest of the ring so you can spin it around.

This is genius, I need to find an aro spinner ring now lol April 04, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/void_patissier on WE ARE ON THE COVER OF THE MOST READ NEWS SITE OF MY COUNTRY (ARGENTINA) !!!!!

Oh, I haven't read that article in The Guardian. I'll check it out. In this article, they added a question that they made to a local doctor! That's nice since they consulted a professional too. April 04, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/Welpmart on WE ARE ON THE COVER OF THE MOST READ NEWS SITE OF MY COUNTRY (ARGENTINA) !!!!!

¡Qué genial! Amor y solidaridad con mis compatriotas argentinos :) How wonderful! Love and solidarity with my Argentinian compatriots. April 04, 2021 at 11:41PM