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/u/_flammenwerfer_ on I'm disappointed (in the community?) (rant about compulsory sexuality)

Omg that’s so sweet, I love it! January 24, 2022 at 12:42AM

/u/chemist612 on Do you like tetris?

Of course it did. Datk humor is the best! January 24, 2022 at 12:42AM

/u/ahmouikkai on At what age am I old enough to be sure of my sexual orientation?

There's none. There are people who inly realised that they were asexual in their 60's, others found out that they are trans in their 70's. In their cases, society obviously played a big role on not letting them know their true identities, but even us, younger people, can still go through this. January 24, 2022 at 12:38AM

/u/KittenMaster9 on Can I be trans and Sex-repulsed ace?

Look at me I am somewhat sex repulsed so I would say yes January 24, 2022 at 12:38AM

/u/taoimean on Do Asexuals actually watch porn videos ?

I do, but I get a few minutes in and realize I'm not enjoying it and turn it off. I have better luck with written erotica, but even then I'd say I get to a point about 40% of the time where I'm either bored or disgusted and stop. I keep giving it a chance, and it keeps letting me down. January 24, 2022 at 12:38AM

If this happened to you, how would you feel?

Imagine you had a crush on someone for 4 years. They finally start talking to you and you’re excited so you talk to them everyday. A month later they tell you they have a crush you. But you don’t say “me too”. They take it as a close rejection so they reject you first before you can actually say how you feel. They put you in the friend zone a day later. You unfollow them on Instagram because it hurts to see their face. Then a few months later they tell you that they’re sorry and they actually do still like you. They say you should hang out together but they don’t plan anything. Then they treat you like a friend and invite you out with their friends. But they realize what they did wrong by being friendly and tell you they want to have a romantic relationship, not a friendship and invite you out alone on a date. You don’t go on the date and ignore their texts. Then a few months later they send a friendly text that was obviously sent to all friends. Would you ever talk to them again

/u/Luh-Holmes on People who are sex repulsed/non-favorable, do you like naked/almost naked cuddles and caresses?

Thanks for your answer! As someone with long hair, I totally get it hahaha I tie my hair all the time bc it can tickle my wife. Also, your answer does get me to understand more of why my wife moves so much to straighten clothes when we are cuddling. As for nudity escalate to sex, yeah… it sucks. Sometimes I just feel like touching and caressing the more the skin I can get bc I wanted to show love. Which is also weird to want to touch to show love, but humans are crazy January 23, 2022 at 11:41PM