I feel exactly the same way! September 26, 2020 at 11:50PM

Wow I didn't notice you in my head, how long have you been able to read my thoughts? September 26, 2020 at 11:50PM

What does not masturbating have to do with anything. September 26, 2020 at 11:50PM

I'm sorry did you not read his post where he said he was horny, and wanted to have sex? September 26, 2020 at 11:49PM

Was it the part where they said they hadnt had a relationship for 5 years or the part where they said they literally wouldnt care if they lost all sexual function that made you think they were allo? 🤔 September 26, 2020 at 11:46PM

correct. the term ARCsexual is to describe allosexuals who are averse/repulsed. September 26, 2020 at 11:41PM

Why do you say that? OP did say they hardly ever even masturbate September 26, 2020 at 11:35PM

how do you know that person isnt ace? i dont like checking profiles but their most recent post implies they are asexual 🤔 September 26, 2020 at 11:33PM

It is kind of confusing to figure everything out. I realized I am grey in that I am only about 99% not interested in having sex but that 1% is still there if the right person came along. September 26, 2020 at 11:31PM

Congrats on figuring yourself out! September 26, 2020 at 11:31PM

Bruh the fuck? September 26, 2020 at 11:28PM

I'm gray, I like the idea of sex and viewing sex but I don't have a motivating desire to have sex the vast majority of the time. It would take someone really special for me to want to have sex. September 26, 2020 at 11:28PM

Time is your friend. Time will give you more experiences that will help you figure out who you are. Time will introduce you to new possibilities. Time will give you the confidence to ignore what other people say. And time will show the people in your life that you really are who you say you are. I didn't "discover girls" until I was 20 and in college. (My college friends found it very amusing, let me tell you.) I thought that meant I was "normal" and started trying to do "what I was supposed to do." I was even married for 5 years, which was a total disaster. This was back in the 80s and 90s, before asexuality was a thing people talked about or identified as, so I had to figure things out on my own. Looking back with what I know now, it's apparent to me that I never experienced this mysterious "sexual attraction" that people are supposed to feel. At age 36, I decided to reject "what I was supposed to do" and just be on my own.

I would say you're allo, and you just haven't had the need to feel anything until now. September 26, 2020 at 11:26PM

Haha this is great. Yea for me its like a faint signal that I never want to act on so its pretty much not interested 99% of the time. September 26, 2020 at 11:26PM

I find that I am graysexual. I don't really feel sexual attraction that often but it happens time from time. It's never been strong enough that I want to act on it though. September 26, 2020 at 11:25PM

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Hello everyone, I got married on Valentine's Day 2020. It's my first marriage. When I was 22 I got pregnant by my college boyfriend. He died in an accident when I was five months pregnant. I was devastated and I'm still not completely over his death. I had my daughter, focused on finishing college and starting my nursing career. For a long time I didn't date. I started dating five years ago and eventually met my husband. He doesn't have kids. He loves my daughter and my daughter loves him. There's been adjusting to different things for all of us. My daughter and I are very close and she has a best friend who she she has known since pre-school. I sort of consider her best friend like a daughter. I've taken them on trips for several years now. My husband and I decided to started planning a possible trip to Disney World next year in the spring depending on how things go with covid. Two years ago, I took my daughter's best friend with us and on a Disney

I tell her that I care about her health and she says, oh don't worry about me and then proceeds to talk about something the kids need. I want to tell her that she should stop telling me not to care about her, or one day, I just won't anyone. Spoiler alert: I feel like that day has already come. Submitted September 26, 2020 at 11:56PM I tell her that I care about her health and she says, oh don't worry about me and then proceeds to talk about something the kids need. I want to tell her that she should stop telling me not to care about her, or one day, I just won't anyone. Spoiler alert: I feel like that day has already come.

First time posting, not sure where else to then to. My wife (F33) and I (M27) have been married for 2 years and together for 6. I apologize for the length of this but I'm trying my best to explain how I feel we got to this point. My wife made it clear early on that she wanted to settle down quick and start a family because she has endometriosis and was approaching her 30s, I was very apprehensive at the time because I was in my early 20s and we had low paying jobs and no college degrees. I loved her more than anything in this world and told her we would be married soon. Well soon came and went and she watched me blow 500$ i recieved from family on everything but an engagement ring. If I loved her as much as I said at the time I should have made it a priority. Eventually I did save up again for a ring and we got engaged and married the year following. We started trying for a baby right after due to her having endo and her clock ticking so to speak. At the time she had quit her job