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I (31M) want to ask out barista…Help

I go to this coffee place 1-2x per day for several years. She’s been there at least a year. We have a very friendly banter. She looks to be early to mid 20s. Over the year she’s opened up more and so have I. I see her maybe a few times per week based on her schedule. Im normally pretty good with picking up vibes a girl gives me. Pretty sure she thinks I’m cute. No idea if she’s available though. But the number one sign is lingering eyes whenever she gives me coffee. So, I don’t want to put her on the spot while she’s at work…there are two possible ways I go about this… Ask if she wants to grab dinner/drinks/whatever sometime. Maybe ask if she’s been to a specific restaurant. The problem here is if she’s busy at work I’m not sure she’d be comfortable giving out the digits?? Give her my business card (could be perceived as tool-ish) but it’s quicker and I can tell her to reach out or stay in touch. I’m starting a business so not sure I’ll be at that coffee shop too much longer as ...

/u/Redbeak27 on Has anybody else realized that us ace people have serious medieval ages vibes/aesthetic going on?

I don’t really, but I’m also only on the spectrum and not completely ace- August 08, 2022 at 11:21PM

I don't feel any sexual chemistry anymore

I've (22f) been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months and I don't feel any chemistry with him when we make out or kiss anymore. I still enjoy sex but when we do anything other than just sex I don't feel any passion or chemistry anymore. Is there a way to fix that? Submitted August 09, 2022 at 12:25AM I've (22f) been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months and I don't feel any chemistry with him when we make out or kiss anymore.I still enjoy sex but when we do anything other than just sex I don't feel any passion or chemistry anymore. Is there a way to fix that?

/u/BananaZealousideal23 on I hate the ace community

So true! August 08, 2022 at 11:16PM

/u/BananaZealousideal23 on I hate the ace community

Lmao calm down. Theyre just jokes. Also “biologically programmed to do” umm chile August 08, 2022 at 11:14PM