I (31M) want to ask out barista…Help
I go to this coffee place 1-2x per day for several years. She’s been there at least a year. We have a very friendly banter. She looks to be early to mid 20s. Over the year she’s opened up more and so have I. I see her maybe a few times per week based on her schedule. Im normally pretty good with picking up vibes a girl gives me. Pretty sure she thinks I’m cute. No idea if she’s available though. But the number one sign is lingering eyes whenever she gives me coffee. So, I don’t want to put her on the spot while she’s at work…there are two possible ways I go about this… Ask if she wants to grab dinner/drinks/whatever sometime. Maybe ask if she’s been to a specific restaurant. The problem here is if she’s busy at work I’m not sure she’d be comfortable giving out the digits?? Give her my business card (could be perceived as tool-ish) but it’s quicker and I can tell her to reach out or stay in touch. I’m starting a business so not sure I’ll be at that coffee shop too much longer as ...