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/u/xtemporal on Just wanted to say that i love being ace/demi (not sure which)

I know that feeling! In addition to that stuff....as a dude, sometimes I also get really nervous when small children are around, like people might see me looking/smiling at them and thinking I'm a paedo. I can be like, no! I'm honestly attracted to nothing! January 25, 2023 at 01:44AM

Are you good at relationships do you have the skills for it?

I hung out yes hung out with one girl outside of school. That was a year ago now I’m in university 2nd half of first semester if that makes since. I haven’t met anyone I’m interested in to focused on school. I’m better and more comfortable alone. Some people are good at some things some people are bad at somethings. Are you good at socializing? Communicating? Do you go out a lot with your friends? If the answer is no to any of these ask yourself do you really want a relationship? What would you and your partner do? Also if your answer is no to any of these then it seems your better at keeping yourself company. If after doing some reflection and you want a relationship. What does that relationship look like? Is it realistic? Are you acting drastically different with your partner then with yourself and friends? I don’t think 1 person can convert an introvert to an extrovert especially if a whole friend group and family can’t do it. Last question are you interested in outgoing people tha...

Fuckboy

we have known each other for two years, we spoke a couple of times and that was it. For the last half year, he has been calling me to go out and see each other. after a couple of refusals, I agreed to meet. we went for a drive in the car, and he kissed me. after a few days we spoke again, I live alone and he said to come to my place, I didn't let him. he called for three months, we didn't hear from each other all the time but occasionally, where he said that I was attracted to him because I kept rejecting him and that he would like to come to my place and he knows that I am a virgin. I told him that he can fuck the girls he wants, why does he want me, he said that I am interesting to him. only after three months I gave in and we met again in the car, we kissed and everything was without sex. we live in a city where we know a lot of the same people and we agreed not to tell anyone about this, I told him when we meet somewhere we don't know each other, he got angry after ...

/u/catplaysviolin on Incels on twitter are now sexualizing asexuality:(

Why tf are we still infantilisibg ace & nd folks & using the term "aspie" in the year of our lord 2023? January 25, 2023 at 12:45AM

/u/ReaperInTraining on Incels on twitter are now sexualizing asexuality:(

Jesus, that’s disgusting. January 25, 2023 at 12:45AM

I think I fucked up

So me (M15) her (F14) started talking a while ago and I really really like her but a year ago before I started talking to her I may have asked out a couple of her friends.. now this was probably the teenage mindset of “I need a gf” and to clarify they both rejected me so now I’m scared if I ask her out it won’t seem serious to her. Ps. I really like her, I draw her in class I blush everytime we talk face to face smiling too. I feel stunned when she begins talking to me.. she’s just incredible. I just want to cuddle her and love her - URGH HELP Submitted January 25, 2023 at 12:06AM So me (M15) her (F14) started talking a while ago and I really really like her but a year ago before I started talking to her I may have asked out a couple of her friends.. now this was probably the teenage mindset of “I need a gf” and to clarify they both rejected me so now I’m scared if I ask her out it won’t seem serious to her.Ps. I really like her, I draw her in class I blush everytime we talk fa...