I 28(m) am a generally good looking guy with a decent job, I'm in good shape, dress well and I'm good at playful teasing/ making people laugh. All my life however I've struggled with dating/flirting with girls. I never hooked up with anyone until college and never had a relationship until afterwards. My last relationship ended a year ago and I've been trying to navigate single life but again I'm having trouble. Some of my issues I know how to fix (not approaching enough women, confidence etc.) But one that I feel completely lost on is flirting. Twice now I've been told by girls, both of whom slept with me, that prior to being psychical they were thrown off by how I don't flirt or how there wasn't much of any tension built up. I know it's always been a problem for me and I've done a ton of looking for help online even buying a $70 course once but after being told this again just the other day I realized that none of it helped. The most recent t...

I don't think I get this one. What's this a reference to? May 30, 2023 at 12:23AM

ah i see May 30, 2023 at 12:07AM

I'm 21 and only date men in my age range. I'm noticing a pattern when I date that has happened across men of all kinds of backgrounds, races and looks. It's just one small thing. The ones who ended up having red flags do it and the ones who seemed really compassionate and caring do it, and it always makes me want to end things because it's usually a precursor to weirder behaviour. The worst case was with my first boyfriend. I was watching a movie with him and a really hot woman came on-screen. He goes "she's so hot." And I agreed. Unbeknownst to the men I date, I am bisexual. But it got weird because he kept gushing over her. He was like "ughhh I loveee thick latinas" because she was latina (They are beautiful, but that's weird considering I am not thick or a latina). Like five minutes later, a man comes on-screen, and I said he was hot because I assumed he'd agree. He said nothing and acted really cold the rest of the night. Looking ba...

Sometimes I go on online dating sites for companionship (but mostly just seeing the questions they have for people to put on their page or answer to boost their odds ar matching), ofc that’s not to say it works. May 29, 2023 at 10:34PM