My profile pictures (i'm a 31yo man): https://imgur.com/a/RixkeKx My bio (translated from french): Climbing, badminton, working out, mountain hiking and much more. As you can see, i'm a very active guy. And I also cook a delicious spaghetti sauce! Submitted December 05, 2021 at 01:14AM My profile pictures (i'm a 31yo man):https://ift.tt/3ool0CX bio (translated from french):Climbing, badminton, working out, mountain hiking and much more. As you can see, i'm a very active guy. And I also cook a delicious spaghetti sauce!

We’ve talked to each other for a while. He asked me if i like him then i honestly told him that i really like him. Then he told me that maybe he likes me a little bit. Then he asked me out for the first date. Him saying that maybe he likes me a little bit, i think that he’s not that into me, right? And he asked me out bc i showed my interest in him first, right? I really like him so i’m thinking what’s he thinking about me. So what i should expect from him is that at least he’s open for me but doesn’t like me much as i like him, right? Submitted December 05, 2021 at 01:14AM We’ve talked to each other for a while. He asked me if i like him then i honestly told him that i really like him. Then he told me that maybe he likes me a little bit. Then he asked me out for the first date. Him saying that maybe he likes me a little bit, i think that he’s not that into me, right? And he asked me out bc i showed my interest in him first, right? I really like him so i’m thinking what’s he thi...

I was friends with this guy for 4 years. He chased me for a year and a half to go out with him and when I gave him a chance it was horrible. The good times were great but the bad times were the worst. He has a history of cheating and using girls. But me being naive thinking he chased me for so long must have meant he really wanted me. I didn’t sleep with him so he slept with a co worker whose way younger than him who used to third wheel on dates of his with another co worker. And the only times he hits me up r to ask for nudes send nudes or ask to hook up. I hate this so much. The friendship is gone and destroyed all bc of him and he doesn’t seem to care. I’m having a really hard time moving on bc he was my first for everything. Meanwhile he’s happily cheating on his gf behind her back and making me seem like I’m a horrible person. I just hate this so much and I feel like it isn’t getting any easier. It also is weird not speaking to him like before like I feel as though something is m...

There’s a girl i met at school a few weeks ago and we see each other and talk at school everyday. We also text everyday playing game pigeon or on snapchat and i’m wondering if this is a mistake. I’ve heard that it’s bad to become texting buddies with girls but we get along super well so idk. We flirt and that stuff and I’m gonna ask her out soon so was wondering what u guys think. Submitted December 05, 2021 at 01:16AM There’s a girl i met at school a few weeks ago and we see each other and talk at school everyday. We also text everyday playing game pigeon or on snapchat and i’m wondering if this is a mistake. I’ve heard that it’s bad to become texting buddies with girls but we get along super well so idk. We flirt and that stuff and I’m gonna ask her out soon so was wondering what u guys think.

I am very sorry for your brother and what he had to endure. I very much sympathize with him as someone who grew up around my fair share of homophobia that even caused me to repress who I am as a gay man. Those are examples of why we need asexual acceptance that isn’t tainted with a homophobic bias. I also completely understand where you are coming from with “straight ace” being an aphobic dogwhistle that targets and excludes het asexuals. I have met many an aphobic gay person in the gay and queer spaces I have occupied that use it in that way. And it was usually the same people who were aphobic to me as well. I definitely misunderstood your use of “heteronormative”. I agree that cis het ace people can benefit from it similarly to how many bi people can in terms of straight-passing relationships and attractions. I would say however that bi people do not have straight privilege in the way het aces do as well. There are experiences and situations in which whether or not you have an at...

Im thinking the same as well because I do want to have a strong connection with them, but when i think of possibly having a relationship i do want them to like me back and find me attractive but thats as far as it goes. I don't want a touchy relationship but something like "friends forever" lmaoooooo December 04, 2021 at 11:27PM

This is exactlly what im feeling! When i think about it the person its always faceless and no features having features just turns me off and weirds me out haha December 04, 2021 at 11:22PM

This is so nice to hear! December 04, 2021 at 11:19PM

Okay so what you did is you went ahead and you COMPLETELY mischaracterized my stance on het asexual people as well as this community as a whole. And not only that, you claim that we all need to be in this together while completely belittling the experiences I am talking about. This isn’t the god damn trauma Olympics. I am not trying to say I am more traumatized than het asexuals. I am saying that, by and large, gay asexual people go through additional crap for being gay. I lack LEGAL RIGHTS that het asexuals have on top of most of the struggles I share with them and you are over here talking about “trauma Olympics” as if anyone gives a damn about that. I am talking intersectionality. traumatized individuals are not obligated to go out of their way to stand up for you I am not “obligating” anyone. Het asexuals can call me a slur if they wish to, I sure as hell cannot stop them from doing it. But I thought the idea is that we stick together as a community and help those who are ...

I get where you are coming from, but consider many straight (especially men) regardless of being ace or not are asked if they are (or are presumed to be) gay if they don't outwardly express sexual attraction to women. My brother is an excellent example of this. My dad wanted to take him to a "titty bar" when he was old enough, and when my brother refused because it made him uncomfortable, he was asked "I mean if you like guys I'm sure we could find one with guys." My dad would tell all his buddies at work about it because they thought it was funny. They started calling my brother "his gay son". My brother is straight as a board, he just simply didn't like the idea of being around a bunch of topless women while ogling them. This obviously isn't as bad as being hated for something you are, but it still hurt him to be mocked and teased for simply not being interested in something. Secondly, (mild correction but I am a bit of a semantics nazi...

So first of all let me be pretty clear that I do intend to talk to her about this. But in the meantime help me navigate my thoughts mainly as they're my main issue. So a year ago we moved countries but things didn't go well, amidst the crisis that took over the world and everything else, we were unable to find a job. With our savings shortening every day, she suggested setting up an onlyfans. She mentioned this twice and I immediately shove it under the rug. I don't even understand if she was serious or not. I know she is the kind of girl who hates cheating, because she went out with a couple friends and this one guy kissed her, she immediately told me and she has been feeling disgusting and guilty ever since. To be honest with you guys though, and this is something I kinda hate about myself but I have a bit of a cuckold fetish or something. I had always been curious about threesomes, wether it be FFM or MFM, but when this happened I got hurt a bit, I mean she hid it fo...

Hi, I don't know if this is the best place to ask this but what are your guys' thoughts on older women hooking up with younger guys? I'm a 39-year-old single mom and my main problem is that my son is 20. I'm saying this because I had a one-night stand with a 22-year-old guy last week; it was amazing, like nothing else, it made me feel like a real woman again, but I feel bad about it. My son knows I'm sexually active and is fully supportive but idk what he'd think about me having sex with guys in his age group. Submitted December 05, 2021 at 12:40AM Hi, I don't know if this is the best place to ask this but what are your guys' thoughts on older women hooking up with younger guys? I'm a 39-year-old single mom and my main problem is that my son is 20. I'm saying this because I had a one-night stand with a 22-year-old guy last week; it was amazing, like nothing else, it made me feel like a real woman again, but I feel bad about it. My son know...

So, a customer at work today sexually harassed me and I feel absolutely grossed out. Normally I'm pretty sexual and kinky, but I feel so turned of to anything sexual. The guy was clearly a pedophile and I just want that feeling to go away and I never want to even think about sex rn. Gross. Submitted December 05, 2021 at 12:42AM So, a customer at work today sexually harassed me and I feel absolutely grossed out. Normally I'm pretty sexual and kinky, but I feel so turned of to anything sexual. The guy was clearly a pedophile and I just want that feeling to go away and I never want to even think about sex rn. Gross.

Usually and always since the beginning of our relationship, I (F19) have been very dominant with my bf (M18). He calls me mommy, he's my good boy, I stroke him off while he just holds my hand and nuzzles between my breasts or I press him to the wall while I bite his neck and dirty talk to him. But lately we've also been trying other things out. I really liked it when he was rough and made me take him all the way when sucking him off or "railing" me, showing no mercy, pounding me until I couldn't think anymore. And even now just remembering that makes me super horny and wet. But I still want to pin him down to the bed and ride him until he screams with pleasure while I call him my good boy. I'd probably actually prefer dominating him but I also like being dominated now. I guess I'm a switch but I just prefer being dominant. Or could this be just a phase? Anyone have any experience with that? Submitted December 05, 2021 at 12:46AM Usually and always s...

I've been having a fling with this girl for about 6 weeks now. It started off as a hookup, but its become more, I want something even more serious, and I'm about 99 percent sure she does too based on how she acts around me. Just one thing is in the back of my head and I want to make sure I'm not missing something incredibly obvious. She's not super experienced with casual sex. I was her first Tinder hookup (I didn't believe her, she actually showed me her tinder), and either the second or third person that she's ever had sex with outside of a relationship. I think she sees me as a bit of a fuckboy. We've discussed body counts and mine was higher than hers. I'm a good guy, and the vast majority of the time let a girl stay the night/cuddle with her even if it's nothing serious. The first time we were together after we were cuddling, she said something along the lines of "it's annoying that most other guys don't like to cuddle after sex,...

I don't know if this post belongs here or not because it's technically not about dating but here I go. M in late teens here. I know a girl who likes me a lot. She's expressed her feelings for me multiple times and I think I like her too. She is quite smart and good looking too but what I'm confused about how she behaves sometimes. I think she's kind of childish. To a level that she would start crying if I don't text her after a friendly argument and she even gets stuck up or upset about a few things that might not matter that much (atleast from my perspective). I don't think I can manage all that as of now. I'm also scared to confess that to her too because I don't how she'd react and how much it would effect her. I really don't know if I should bring that up. Can you guys give me some tips? Should I even bring that up to her? Thanks. Have a nice day. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 11:55PM I don't know if this post belongs here or ...

I'm very similar to my dad, in the way that I'm not lovey dovey. So I have no idea, how to be flirtatious, or how to make a date "romantic" Submitted December 04, 2021 at 11:55PM I'm very similar to my dad, in the way that I'm not lovey dovey.So I have no idea, how to be flirtatious, or how to make a date "romantic"

I’m sure it’s been asked about a million times, but ladies, what do you look for when it comes to online dating profiles? Is it all pictures, the bios, prompts, a mixture of all? I feel like every other guy is getting tons of matches now, and I couldn’t tell you the last time a girl even liked my profile, which is pretty discouraging. I guess I just want some honest opinions on what I should focus on to help get more matches. Some context: I’m definitely introverted, so meeting people in real life is difficult. Some of my hobbies include reading, watching TV/movies, playing video games, and other nerdy things. I also live in the southern US, so most people talk about how much they love sports and the outdoors and other things that I tend to avoid. Submitted December 04, 2021 at 11:59PM I’m sure it’s been asked about a million times, but ladies, what do you look for when it comes to online dating profiles? Is it all pictures, the bios, prompts, a mixture of all? I feel like ever...

I (24F) have a (27M) boyfriend and we have been dating for maybe 6 months. Everything is really good between us. We see each other fairly regularly (at least a few minutes everyday at work). I honestly feel like I am being dependent and clingy. He texts me regularly and calls me randomly throughout the day which I adore. There is no sense of being ignored or not being wanted. But the time that we do not spend together (days off of work/he’s got other things going on) I consistently find myself in a pretty major depressive slump. It hurts my feelings that he doesn’t want to spend every waking moment with me. For instance, this weekend he slept most of Friday and the day today. His back was hurting him so he took his medication which usually knocks him out pretty good. I could not help but stay up all night wishing he was talking to me. When he got up around 2pm, he played video games with me for 3 hours which was really fun and I enjoyed talking to him. Then he told me that he was leav...

Girlfriend left her apartment key and AirPods in my car last time I saw her. Driving them over to her tonight. She is stressed and taking finals this week. Any ideas for small thoughtful gift? Got her chocolate a bit ago so if food, other ideas besides that haha. Submitted December 05, 2021 at 12:10AM Girlfriend left her apartment key and AirPods in my car last time I saw her. Driving them over to her tonight.She is stressed and taking finals this week. Any ideas for small thoughtful gift? Got her chocolate a bit ago so if food, other ideas besides that haha.