I have been friend with him for 3 years and he lost his mother last year around this time. He spent last Christmas alone and this year he has nobody again. We share the same social circle and one of the girls there tends to talk a lot about him because he didn’t want to date her and she decided she hates him because of that. He’s a great person and he keeps to himself now after what happened last year. I like him and I know he’s somewhat into me and I have tried to be there for him because I have feelings for him and feel bad for him. Well, we were at a party a few days ago and I was with the girl he rejected and another friend of ours. We didn’t know he was there yet and he had been a few feet away behind us sitting alone. The 2 other girls were talking bad about him and making fun of him by saying really cruel things. I know he heard because another friend came over and told us that he had just got there and left after he heard what they were saying. He thinks I was also saying th...

Title pretty much sums it up! Over the last year a lot of my friends fathers have passed away, and it's made me (26f) appreciate and love my dad (55m) a lot. I decided to get a tattoo for him, but I'm really struggling trying to think of how to tell him why I'm getting it and what it means (it's a abstract tattoo of the ursa major/minor constellations, his nickname for me has been "baby bear" since I was very young). We're very close but we're both pretty emotionally constipated and struggle a lot with speaking openly and emotionally with each other, and I'm very embarrassed just by the concept of telling him how much he means to me. Any help and advice would be much appreciated! Tl;dr - I want to get a tattoo for my dad but I'm embarrassed to actually say I love him and let him know how much he means to me Submitted December 24, 2019 at 12:20AM Title pretty much sums it up! Over the last year a lot of my friends fathers have passed awa...

The girl I love for like 6 years doesn't know what love is, she believes that she can get married or get into relationship with someone and it's okay for both of them to cheat on each other if they tell each other. We decided to be friends, but last night we kissed, I told her if she wants to be with me, she told me :"u won't be okay if I cheated on u". The point is I love her, but Idk if she loves me or not, at least I'm pretty sure she has feelings for me. Should I stay away from her? Or should I just enjoy the moment with her and not waiting for something to happen? TL;DR The girl I love believes that it's okay if she cheats while she is in a relationship or even married. Submitted December 24, 2019 at 12:23AM The girl I love for like 6 years doesn't know what love is, she believes that she can get married or get into relationship with someone and it's okay for both of them to cheat on each other if they tell each other.We decided to ...

I have known this girl for 2 years from school and at the start we were friends and slowly became close friends (imo). After the first year in school, she went to another school while I stayed. I’ll say we spent quite some time with each other and only a few occasions alone (unfortunately). At that point in time, I only thought of her as a friend, like a bro. But time passed and I felt something about her but was too afraid to act on it as I didn’t want to jeopardize the friendship. Another reason is because she’s relatively more well-off than me and have a more luxurious lifestyle, and it’s something that I won’t be able to give her if she is with me. Even if she accepts me, I’ll still feel bad and shitty that I can’t compare to her more expensive lifestyle. She isn’t arrogant but a really considerate and nice person. It’s just that she has a slightly more expensive taste (I’m totally cool with it as a friend but if we’re together, I’ll feel inferior to her and feel like I can’t me...

TL;DR I'M GONNA DIE ALONE.....NO WOMAN LOVES ME.... 26M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No attractive women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. I'm 26 I'm fat ugly amd short. never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin and no attractive women like me. I have a horrible life because hot women don't want me. All my friends have attractive girlfriends and wives i want their lives. My life sucks. Every girl i liked has rejected me and friendzoned me and everybody tells me my league is fat ugly girls even my dad told me date ugly fat girls or to get a hooker so my life sucks. Ria Ciuffo Alexandra Cooper Sofia Franklyn Kayce Smith i want to attract women at that level but everyone tells me "never gonna happen" Where I grew up in Colorado all the girls thought I was a loser and when I hung out with my friends my friends girlfriends thi...

I don't really think there are, but ace men face a lot more discrimination and erasure than ace women, from what I've seen. Men get picked on for not having a ravenous sexual appetite and being labeled as a virgin is usually seen as the ultimate in de-masculinization. So, I think it's more intimidating for men to self-identify and then would be even harder to come out openly. I may be wrong on this, but those are just my thoughts. December 24, 2019 at 12:23AM

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What is demisexual? What are your triggers for that if you don’t mind me asking? It’s rare for me to be very sexual, so when things were back to normal I think he got confused lol. For me to even want to have sex is rare. I still view it as a chore sadly. Like ugh I guess whatever. I do enjoy it but I never want to if that makes sense. I just do it more for emotional connection or if it makes my partner happy. December 24, 2019 at 12:00AM

Hey, I'm like this too, it's a struggle. I identify as demisexual but it's a bit more complicated than that. If you're not comfortable with him talking about your sex life to other people it's completely reasonable to ask him not to. If you can talk to a sex positive therapist about it they might be able to suggest something if it's linked to your bpd. For me I just know most of the things that can start my sex repulsion and try to avoid them and make any partners aware that my sex drive varies a lot. December 23, 2019 at 11:57PM

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So I've been coming here lately to get advice on what to do with the girl that I was seeing. Needless to say it didn't work out in the end mainly because she lost interest. I just want to share my experience with you all so you can get a sense of what you might want to do when in something similar. First off we hit it off well went on dates every week and hung out a ton. So it was a shock to me when she said she wasn't interested anymore but that's alright. Guys and Gals this happens to everyone even the hottest sexiest people in the world. Yes your feelings will get hurt as did mine but you'll eventually get over it. It'll take some time but for all that is good do not try to keeping hitting them up. Its not only going to piss them off but its also going to prevent you from moving on quicker. Just remember the fond times and leave it at that. Also take a break from dating and just let yourself get reset before hitting it up again. Also, if latter down the roa...

So after a rough day of thinking and years of depression over it, I've decided that for my own mental health and ability to stay alive i need to accept that I'll probably not end up in a relationship for the foreseeable future and i need to distance myself away from the women in my life. Dating and chasing people just causes me loneliness and pain and i cant take it anymore for my own life sake. I'm deleting all the apps and removing myself from anything dating orientated. I don't think there is anyone out there who could fall in love with me and i accept that because i don't even love myself. My entire adult life has been dedicated to finding someone and I'm only realising now that it's not the only thing in life and some people just don't have what it takes. I think I'm going to dedicate myself to earning money and trying to find some friends who are going to stick. I already feel relief just thinking that i don't have to do this anymore and i...

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So, I am a student and I love a girl in our class, but she kinda hates me and I am nice to her and trying to have better relationship with her but she thinks I am a retard, what should I do?? Submitted December 23, 2019 at 11:32PM So, I am a student and I love a girl in our class, but she kinda hates me and I am nice to her and trying to have better relationship with her but she thinks I am a retard, what should I do??