I'm a girl. Literally anything going up in me seems like it hurts. Including tampons (which is why I use pads instead) November 15, 2021 at 12:50AM

Oh wow, someone adexromantic is actually real, thank you for validating this! November 15, 2021 at 12:47AM

I wanna see some too! November 15, 2021 at 12:45AM

I understand "It looks gross" as a reason to avoid sex but "It looks like it hurts" doesn't make sense. November 15, 2021 at 12:44AM

(Virgin) I was with my girlfriend and made her cum twice with my hands and again with oral but I couldn't get hard. She gave me a gentle handjob and it had a semi but I couldn't get fully hard for sex on our first night. She didn't shame me or anything, she just said I love you and its fine. That we will have sex when it's ready. I can make her cum and squirt like five times in a night before but I just can't be sex with her. I love her and am attracted to her but don't know how to proceed with this! I ordered viagra on prescription but was rejected due to stuff I misclicked. I've stopped masturbating for five days ago to see if It helps and I'm not anxious with her that much. Neither of us is shy during sex with each other. I came twice today because I needed some relief because she gave me a 30 minute handjob and it didn't do much for me. I'm M20 and no I don't have preexisting conditions but I've gone soft by myself before but I c...

hey reddit, going to keep this one very short and sweet. i’ll have leave a lot of things out, but suffice to say i love my boyfriend very, very much — the only issues are in the bedroom. my boyfriend has a lot of difficulty initiating sex. he will often start touching me, like running his hands over my legs and torso, but it never progresses past there. even if i position myself so his hand is between my legs, even if i’m receptive and arch my body towards him — he’ll keep touching for a few minutes but nothing ever happens after that. it’s begun to feel like if i want sex to happen i have to be the one to get on top/suck his dick/take all the control basically. if i don’t, nothing happens. so many nights have passed where we just kiss and touch over the clothes until i literally get so bored i’m turned off, and frustrated. to be clear, the first months of our relationship i really put in effort to initiate and get sex started. i would almost always go down to get him hard and then ...

Hi guys, I’m f(25) engaged to a very nice man. I always thought that I am straight and never even considered to think I may be into women too. My fiancé and I got together 7 years ago, he was my first so I didn’t get to explore much but before him I never really felt any attraction towards anyone. But these last years I started noticing and feeling different when I saw other guys half naked, it’s not that I wanted them because I love my fiancé but it felt different. But the main issue is that I’m starting to feel like that when I look at other women too. When I watch porn I’d watch mostly lesbian porn, but after I finish I get nothing from it. Like right now I can imagine being intimate to some point with a woman but there are times where it disgusts me. It’s making my head hurt because even though I’m in a happy relationship I’d still want to know what my sexuality is. Submitted November 15, 2021 at 12:55AM Hi guys, I’m f(25) engaged to a very nice man. I always thought that I ...

I've been on my period this week. Last night before I went to sleep I masturbated with my dildo and all was well except for the fact that it triggered for truly awful cramps but that's normal and I anticipated it. Then early this morning while I was in the shower I went for round 2. Everything seemed fine until, as the title suggests, I felt like I was going to pass out. My whole body became weak (I had already put the dildo away at this point) and like I was going to fall over. I had to sit down in the shower for a good while to catch my breath. I felt like I just ran a marathon. I started hearing ringing in my ears. I didn't cum especially hard but I feel like it's related to masturbating. A LOT of blood was coming out of me, both last night and this morning. After this I went back to sleep for a while and woke up feeling better. But now it's nearly 8 PM and I'm feeling bad again even though I ate and took an iron supplement about 2 hours ago. I'm layin...

I got my first Pap smear a few days ago and I felt fine at first. So I decided to go ahead and have sex with my boyfriend that night, nothing rough, just the usual. He noticed afterwards that his penis was covered in a light brown liquid, which is not my normal discharge color. Ever since then, I’ve noticed dark blood and cramps. I googled about it and I heard it normal to have light bleeding, but right now I’m at the point of wearing a pad! I’m bleeding quiet a bit and I’m not on my period (ended last week). Is this normal? Submitted November 15, 2021 at 12:58AM I got my first Pap smear a few days ago and I felt fine at first. So I decided to go ahead and have sex with my boyfriend that night, nothing rough, just the usual. He noticed afterwards that his penis was covered in a light brown liquid, which is not my normal discharge color. Ever since then, I’ve noticed dark blood and cramps. I googled about it and I heard it normal to have light bleeding, but right now I’m at the p...

I want to go for girls that fit my niche but am also open to other types. How can I appeal to my niche group while not pushing away the mainstream? Submitted November 15, 2021 at 12:02AM I want to go for girls that fit my niche but am also open to other types. How can I appeal to my niche group while not pushing away the mainstream?

I’m a 22F that has been in 3 serious relationships and each one very different from the last. My first two weren’t exactly in classic terms of toxic but there was a lot of secrets kept and when starting the relationships we were friends first so it was an easy transition into dating. My third relationship was the definition of toxic, after our first week of dating I spent the night at his house every single night for months. He would always accuse me of cheating, always make make me feel like I was in trouble for my past, so I tried to become someone I wasn’t to please him. After that relationship ended, I was single for going in two years to heal myself and make sure that I was ready for a relationship when the time would arise. Well I’ve dated that past few months but it was always “situationships”, the guy didn’t want a real relationship and I called it off before I allowed my feelings to become too involved for the sake of my mental health and heart. Now I’ve met this man who is f...

Let me tell you. Dating long distance is hard. I, a 30+ male and her, 30 female are dating about 2400 miles apart. Our relationship was just starting the flourish before I took a new job in a new state and she went away for business in another. We were considering the option of her moving here, but a better job opportunity arose for her in California, where she was away on business. She was hesitant to tell me, because she wanted to consider my feelings in this matter, but I’m not selfish. It’s important that she takes a good opportunity, right? Well why does it feel like I’m losing her? We talk all the time, be it text, calls or FaceTime, but with all her stress I’m starting to see her more withdrawn. It can’t e easy living in a one bedroom house with her family member. I often find myself creating these ideas that she’ll meet some other man there. Her family member is a party person, which is her normal character, however she has been going out dancing with them more recently and ...

Okay so basically I (19m) work in a warehouse with a newer co worker (18f) who seems like a very nice person! I have exchanged numbers and talked about music and work. She doesn’t drive and gets rides from family. I was wondering how I would go about asking them. Please let me know down below! Submitted November 15, 2021 at 12:11AM Okay so basically I (19m) work in a warehouse with a newer co worker (18f) who seems like a very nice person! I have exchanged numbers and talked about music and work. She doesn’t drive and gets rides from family. I was wondering how I would go about asking them. Please let me know down below!

I (19f) have rejected a guy (20m) 3 times in the past week now. Two were through text and the last one was in person. All times I have clearly stated I am not interested in him. He has acknowledged this all three times. After the first rejection, I stopped responding to his messages to avoid leading him on. He asked me very earnestly to continue talking to him because he still wanted to be friends. With that in mind, I began responding again, but never initiating convos. Our last conversation, I clearly told him no, he said he understood, and 5 minutes later started very explicitly flirting/complimenting again. Not only that, but he also tries to pry into my personal problems, as if he gets off to knowing about things I struggle with. He also very regularly gives me those “friendly punches” you give when you’re laughing really hard about something. He aims directly at my chest tho… It’s all extremely uncomfortable. It seems as though he is telling people around me we have something ...

Hi I [21M] am here to post about something that confuses me about my girlfriend [F42] She is my first partner and to be honest I'm a complete newbie to relationships. I've been with her for almost a year now. I originally thought we'd progress to sex, but it seems to have never got that far. She really enjoys my company. Often she tells me how much she is thankful to have me in her life. We go out together and have a lot of common interests. She is my best friend. We kiss and cuddle, we support each other emotionally. There is one thing that isn't great though... Sex. Throughout our relationship she has NEVER taken her clothes off with me. She has always been into wearing clothing that completely covers up her body. Long trousers, long sleeve tops / blouses. She dresses incredibly sexy though. Satin shirts, long black trousers. She has an amazing body and the way she dresses always complements that. I always give her compliments on how beautiful her body is and tell...

Hi , I known a friends for few years, his wife, is looking after herself, and she is in good shape and she is in her 40s, I wasn’t attracted earlier, when she start to wear good clothing, and a make up, she looks more stunning, my wife is also very beautiful and my wife and her are good friends, my wife also noticed, change in her and she said maybe she likes you, my wife is very possessive, when she is around, mind games start to playing more in our friendship, I don’t know , what to do I have sexual urges towards her, even on dinners and other social gathers, we both look at each other, but I don’t how to handle this situation, sometimes I think it’s bad in friendship, sometimes I think stuff everything and just go for it, I can feel the vibes, but I have no clue about it, sometimes I really dreams about her…. Submitted November 14, 2021 at 11:43PM Hi , I known a friends for few years, his wife, is looking after herself, and she is in good shape and she is in her 40s, I wasn’t...

So I was in this 18 and older hookup group and you have to be 18 and older to join and post.This guy messaged me cause I posted a picture of myself and he asked me if I’m really 18 I said yea.He said he was 16 and I look on his page and he’s saying he’s 18.I felt really weird even tho it’s a 2 year age difference and told him to fuck off and blocked him.Wat more could I do about this.I would only do stuff with a guy who’s 18 and older Submitted November 14, 2021 at 11:43PM So I was in this 18 and older hookup group and you have to be 18 and older to join and post.This guy messaged me cause I posted a picture of myself and he asked me if I’m really 18 I said yea.He said he was 16 and I look on his page and he’s saying he’s 18.I felt really weird even tho it’s a 2 year age difference and told him to fuck off and blocked him.Wat more could I do about this.I would only do stuff with a guy who’s 18 and older

Hey, im 30f married to my husband and want to explore different positions, any suggestions? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 11:44PM Hey, im 30f married to my husband and want to explore different positions, any suggestions?

I’m a 17m and I was recently about to lose my virginity to my girlfriend. I’ve dreamt about this moment for years, but the moment I was offered it I couldn’t get hard. Why didn’t I get hard to my girlfriend? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 11:56PM I’m a 17m and I was recently about to lose my virginity to my girlfriend. I’ve dreamt about this moment for years, but the moment I was offered it I couldn’t get hard. Why didn’t I get hard to my girlfriend?

I’m a 28M trying to find a causal FWB situation. For those of you who have had these relationships where did you find your FWB? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 11:59PM I’m a 28M trying to find a causal FWB situation. For those of you who have had these relationships where did you find your FWB?