Aww so sorry to hear that! Hope your doing ok now. December 25, 2022 at 12:22AM

Seems like every single woman I talk to also has another 10 guys talking to her at the same time. What do I need to do to make myself a better option than those other guys? They seem just as qualified as I am, but clearly they are doing something which is getting women interested, that I am not. Submitted December 25, 2022 at 01:14AM Seems like every single woman I talk to also has another 10 guys talking to her at the same time. What do I need to do to make myself a better option than those other guys? They seem just as qualified as I am, but clearly they are doing something which is getting women interested, that I am not.

I (she/her 20) have been best friends with this guy (he/him 20) for over 8 years. At the start, I had a childhood crush on him but then it just grew into a friendship. We've been a constant in each other's lives: watching each other get in and out of relationships, going to college and helping each other through rough patches. Since the pandemic, we've been hanging out a lot more with different groups of friends. It's been fun! But the more I spend time with him, the more I'm developing deeper feelings. It's a feeling I have never felt with anyone else. Every moment with him just makes me feel content. I adore listening to his passions, thoughts on life and laughing at the stupidest shit. Needless to say, I have fell for him. Hard. (I could ramble about this but I'd like to keep this post short haha) I can't tell if he likes me that way or not. Our friend group has a lot of girls, so I cant tell if he is just being friendly. He has drunkenly said ...

Maybe dying during sex is a kink. Wouldn't be surprised lmao December 24, 2022 at 10:25PM

Sexual attraction is an influence, seeking sex is an action. You can seek sex because you feel sexual attraction, because you want to become or cause pregnancy, because it soothes your libido, or any other number of reasons. However, it doesn’t work the other way around. You can’t feel sexual attraction because you’re seeking sex. If they were the same thing, this wouldn’t be the case. Hope this helps 😊 December 24, 2022 at 10:25PM

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