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/u/The_Rocketsmith on Surprised and happy to see demisexuality mentioned (in an ad) on the tube today

my condolences for living in *ngland October 28, 2022 at 12:15AM

/u/austenaaaaa on Angela Chen's 'Ace' is an amazing book -especially about culture

I just read some preview pages and immediately ordered a copy. I'd somehow missed this book, so thanks for bringing it to my attention! October 28, 2022 at 12:13AM

Should I do this..?

This is all over the place, I deeply apologize. I’m just spewing :) I (F21) want to do something nice for this guy (M20) that I’ve been talking to. Either our 1st or 2nd time hanging out, he mentioned, I think generally, he would like it if a girl (I can’t remember if he explicitly said one he was dating or not) brought him food. If we’re talking specifics, his words were “if you got off work early and brought/surprised me [with] food, I would love that” or something along the lines of that. I’m not sure if he’s speaking in general or specific to me? He knows when I get off of work, which is 2 in the afternoon and I know he starts work which is at around 4/5 in the evening. I love to cook and give people food so I’m just wondering if this would be weird? I know I’m probably just overthinking it but should I ask if I can bring him lunch during work today (Thursday) or food before work tomorrow (Friday)? I would of course ask him first if this would be okay. We’ve only hung out twi...

Getting beyond superficial discussion

So I figure I know what this will lead to, but I'm curious to potentially get a different way of looking at things that might trigger something good. My extremely quick background: Male, late 20s, work for myself, am healthy/workout, honestly I look decent outside of things I consider glaring flaws others will likely not notice - at least at first. We all have these I guess. Moved a couple months ago. Live in very young-population city with good mix of city/nature. Always walking my dog, out and about. Know nobody here outside friendly hello's in my apartment and small talk. Growing up I had these odd/minor medical and physical issues to fix that were nothing major, but when put all together and over the years of dealing with it & procedures to correct, it resulted in my stunted social skills. Rather, my self-esteem to be honest. Was always in my shell and suppose I still am. I do consider myself to be witty and acceptably social - once I get to know you. Getting to t...

I just gave my crush my number!!! How do I ask her out?

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/u/onemoreswallow on Does anybody else dread Halloween due to all of the unnecessary sexualization of stuff?

Love how you truly believe that I actually care whether it changes anything or not October 27, 2022 at 11:05PM

/u/Lemon-Over-Ice on So, I thought I was completely asexual due to my SA. Turns out that I only have a sex drive for my current boyfriend. Never felt this before, it’s so weird. I can’t express how weird it is.

"I can't express how weird it is" haha that's funny. Is it a good weird or a bad weird? October 27, 2022 at 11:05PM