Have you stopped talking to any of your dating app matches during the pandemic and do you plan on messaging them again when things go back to normality? Have you been talking to someone you’re really interested in on a dating app and maybe even texting off the app but you don’t want it to fizzle out so you’ve stopped messaging. Have you ghosted anyone but plan to recontact at a later date? Submitted June 11, 2020 at 11:58PM Have you stopped talking to any of your dating app matches during the pandemic and do you plan on messaging them again when things go back to normality?Have you been talking to someone you’re really interested in on a dating app and maybe even texting off the app but you don’t want it to fizzle out so you’ve stopped messaging. Have you ghosted anyone but plan to recontact at a later date?

We [24M and 23F] are both introverts. And last night we just talked on the phone for the first time. Ive known her for years but we werent pretty close until sometime in late 2019 and this 2020. We talked on the phone, then next thing I knw we were talking for almost 6 hours, until 3am. And idk, is that a good sign or Im an idiot for not picking up hints ? Submitted June 12, 2020 at 12:01AM We [24M and 23F] are both introverts. And last night we just talked on the phone for the first time. Ive known her for years but we werent pretty close until sometime in late 2019 and this 2020.We talked on the phone, then next thing I knw we were talking for almost 6 hours, until 3am. And idk, is that a good sign or Im an idiot for not picking up hints ?

Not long, probably just about a year or so. And what you went through was absolutely horrible, especially since when you were a teen, I feel like Asexuality was never really a thing that a lot of people knew about, so that’s what led to everything that happened. It doesn’t excuse how you felt about it though. For bringing awareness, I don’t think I’ve really tried to bring a lot of awareness, but when people don’t know what it means, if it’s irl I just explain it to them but if it’s on the internet then I tell them to search things up about it. That’s all I can say on that situation, sorry. And about the people in my school, I really have no idea why they act extremely stupid. Aside from making people feel uncomfortable, they make a lot of racist and homophobic jokes, some even saying the n word with a hard r. I don’t know if it’s because they’re uneducated, or if they actually think that way, or if they’re just doing it to look “edgy”. It’s probably the latter. Anyway, thanks for ...

OMG ALWAYS!! Sometimes I'm talking with my friend and suddenly remember he has a pp Aah- June 11, 2020 at 11:59PM

Dennis Leary wrote a song about this guy. He's an asshole... June 11, 2020 at 11:57PM

I do it for stress relief, always felt clinical and I always knew it was my hand. Bought a fleshlight and I can now actually enjoy it and that actually increases the stress relief too. It's also helped me cut down on how often I needed to do it. June 11, 2020 at 11:56PM

It's also a great feeling when you know that someone else knows and accepts it, even though you've never met them. June 11, 2020 at 11:54PM

Honestly masturbation makes me feel so unproductive. I have a hormone disorder so it helps stabilize the mood but I hate it ffs June 11, 2020 at 11:51PM

What a fucking loser June 11, 2020 at 11:50PM

Warning: mention weird sex stuff I am the product teenage pregnancy and possibly the worst marriage to have ever existed. So at a very young age, I promised that I wouldn't make the mistakes my parents did. No drugs, no alcohol, and no sex (at least until I turned 18). That was the promise I made to myself. Growing up, I never even thought about the fact that I was even slightly intrested in sex. I'd have friends who were always ooen about masturbating and stuff. Meanwhile, I always just thought that Ivwas just keeping my promise to myself. Thankfully I dated really awsone guys that were more than happy to wait till I was 18. Of course we would mess around, but never went too far. It was around highschool that I started to notice that disconnect. It was during this time that I was having a lot of confusing thoughts over my sexuality. As you can imagine, it's hard to figure out what you like when the idea of sex makes a pit grow in your stomache. It wasn't until juni...

There is a surprising amount of sexual porn that could become thing by just cutting it when they go to lose their clothes. June 11, 2020 at 11:49PM

Any plans for a Kindle version? June 11, 2020 at 11:49PM

What a jerk. I’m so sorry he said that to you, that’s not okay. June 11, 2020 at 11:38PM

I don't June 11, 2020 at 11:33PM

Good luck deleting it from your brain though June 11, 2020 at 11:21PM

Whether your asexuality has always been there, or if it was caused by trauma or some other outside reason you're welcome here. As long as you feel the label is correct you're free to use it. If in the future you feel you've outgrown it, then find a new label at that point. We're happy to have you whether you're here for 6 months or the next 60 years. If you're worried about this being just the trauma, I'd suggest speaking to a therapist. They can help you come to terms with it or move past it. June 11, 2020 at 11:21PM

Your parents even had sex... at lease once. June 11, 2020 at 11:18PM

Oh, thanks :) June 11, 2020 at 11:13PM

Huh If I do watch porn it does tend to be women on women I never realised I was trying to take myself out or fictionalised it. June 11, 2020 at 11:11PM

Whelp I guess my 17 year old marriage is a failure, better tell my husband~ June 11, 2020 at 11:10PM

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Okay so I have been talking to a girl for a couple weeks now, it was going great. Cute morning texts, some good conversations and fun dates. I really thought this was a blossoming relationship. Well I have two children, she was only aware of the one who is my oldest, because the second one is only 5 months old, he is very new. I dont think a lot of people know him yet. Lol. She also has a child, which I thought since we were both parents it wouldn't be a big deal, I didn't hide it from her! anyone can scroll my posts and see my children. I did end up telling her about the second child a couple days ago, she freaked out to say the least. Not to the extent, of a melt down; she ghosted me for a day or two. Finally talked to her today, she told me she just wanted to be friends and couldn't get involved with my children. Her reasons are "I cant afford to take care of two other children, if we get seriously involved. Please look at it from my perspective". I dont need ...