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/u/Livvx95 on Am I missing something or is everything sexualised too much?

Eat donuts and pet cats, the dream October 13, 2020 at 12:36AM

I [26F] am confused on how to move forward with him [26M]

I [26F] have been hanging out with a guy [26M] for about 6 weeks. We're really compatible. We're both fresh out of relationships but his is more recent, I broke up late 2019 and he broke up just 5 or 6 months ago. It's been a lot of fun and I haven't thought too much about the future. He mentioned to me early on that he wanted to move away but he hadn't brought it up since. I never cared because I was getting to know him and figured anything could happen (I could not like him, he could decide not to leave or leave later) etc. etc. Throughout the weeks, he told me he wanted to see where this goes, told me how much he likes me, invited me on a trip (I didn't go - thought it was too soon / was also tired) and a wedding in December. This past weekend, I overheard him tell my brother that he was for sure moving. I know he told me this on our first date but I thought it was so insensitive that he was telling this to my brother right next to me. I ended up bringing ...

Foreskin skin still connected to glands

Hello. I am 15 and recently learned you are supposed to be able to pull your foreskin to about under your head. So I tried slowly stretching but I noticed that there’s a part of skin(frelum) still connected to the head glands. Is this normal? I am not able to stretch it past without breaking my frelum. Submitted October 13, 2020 at 12:33AM Hello. I am 15 and recently learned you are supposed to be able to pull your foreskin to about under your head. So I tried slowly stretching but I noticed that there’s a part of skin(frelum) still connected to the head glands. Is this normal? I am not able to stretch it past without breaking my frelum.

Ladies, at age 18 how old was the oldest man you slept with?

Did you enjoy it, or do you look back and feel regret or that you were taken advantage of? Submitted October 13, 2020 at 12:37AM Did you enjoy it, or do you look back and feel regret or that you were taken advantage of?

So many twist and turns

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Spittin' facts.

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2009-2020. Marriage, two kids and she’s almost done with college. Coming up on 11 years together and 7 years married.

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Imagine being told to try harder to date women because you are at a disadvantage?

So I don't online date because I struggle on those apps. I post quality pictures. Good bio but never any luck. I'm not an ugly guy I'm just short. I'm a realist and I know I'm at a huge disadvantage because of my height. Recently I was told by a girl you need to try a thousand times harder to get a girl. She didn't mean it with mal intent. She was trying to be inspirational I guess. In my head, I was like f**k that bs. Not worth it. I'm not going to go above and beyond because people don't like the way I look in regards to something I can't change about myself. Clearly, I don't have a chance online and in-person it seems like you only meet people at bars. I don't like going to bars and clubs. I'm in my mid-twenties and going out like that isn't exciting anymore. What I do is I Box and do Kyokushin Karate. So I go to two different gyms multiple times a week. No one my age that's a girl so it's frustrating. I live in America a...

She broke up with me, but for reasons you wouldn’t expect and I don’t know what to think of it...

So my girlfriend of 3 months just broke up with me yesterday after we had just hung out. Keep in mind, we are both 16, but neither of us have cars so we get rides. We really do love each other a great deal, we get through everything together and just felt as if we were actually soulmates. She said her parents are forcing her to break up with me because her grades are slipping and because her schedule is so tight with her volleyball, baton, job, and her honor classes + normal classes that are all online. I know she’s not lying about how busy she is, or about what her parents said, because her parents also told me themselves. She’s now telling me she needs to rethink things and is barely talking to me. How does all of this happen all within the course of a day? I’ve been crying my eyes out because I truly love this girl and I don’t understand why she doesn’t seem to want to talk about how she feels about the whole situation. Hell, just a day or 2 before this she was telling me about how...

To guys, how do you feel about a girl grabbing your ass at a party to initiate conversation with you?

Is it always a no-go or does it depend on how attractive you find her? (assuming you are single) I'm asking because this happened to me once and my reaction was dependent on how attractive I found her, but I'm not sure if this mentality is popular among other people. Submitted October 12, 2020 at 11:53PM Is it always a no-go or does it depend on how attractive you find her? (assuming you are single)I'm asking because this happened to me once and my reaction was dependent on how attractive I found her, but I'm not sure if this mentality is popular among other people.

25f not sure how to start dating

hi i'm 25f, never dated anyone, never kissed anyone... literally nothing. i always used to make the excuse that "i don't have time" because i was always VERY focused on school and wanted to get into a field that's really competitive. i'm in it now and am still really busy and need to focus in order to get to the next step in my education, but i've realized that i'll never really have time. i will have to make time in order to find a relationship. and there are tons of people i go to school with who have dated in the past, are in relationships now and have lives. i feel like i've not done anything with my life except panic about school and i'm ready for a change. i also used to feel like no one could ever love me because i'm ugly and boring but i've been working really hard to overcome those limiting beliefs and my low self-esteem. i still have some work to do on this so i don't want to start dating right away, but just some gener...

/u/plague5467 on i don’t know if this has been cross posted already but i’ll give it a shot anyways :)

He’s literally just saying these things to get more votes that’s how it works October 12, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/ZanyDragons on I’m confused about my asexuality

I’m very ace when it comes to real life but I enjoy romance novels and erotica. I even write a bit of smut from time to time but can’t connect to it on a personal level, it’s like writing... a fight scene? I wouldn’t actually want to experience it? The thought of actually participating is like... no thanks really. But I’ve got no real issue writing about it and take cues from what I’ve read to inform how I go about it. I’m not aromantic so I’ve had crushes before too. Being ace doesn’t mean you don’t / can’t have a libido or sex drive once in a while, and sometimes there can be a bit of bitterness or confusion over not being “normal”, if that makes sense. But it’s fine and good to take pride in being ace and it’s normal to have complicated feelings about it as you figure things out. October 12, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/Lizard182 on This is what an asexual looks like. I came out yesterday after nearly a decade of keeping my sexuality a secret--letting people assume I was gay or bi. Yesterday I had no shortage of incredible support expressed over social media. (more in comments)

😂 October 12, 2020 at 11:27PM