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uh oh

http://bit.ly/2JELWdS Submitted May 15, 2019 at 02:26AM http://bit.ly/2JELWdS

I could post pages and pages from this guy.

http://bit.ly/2JkXZNX Submitted May 15, 2019 at 02:41AM http://bit.ly/2JkXZNX

*dms a girl in a chat with the number one rule of "don't dm anyone" and gets offended that the girl wasn't receptive to it*

http://bit.ly/2JHPGeK Submitted May 15, 2019 at 02:52AM http://bit.ly/2JHPGeK

On a comment asking who a girl in a music video is

http://bit.ly/2JkSjDw Submitted May 15, 2019 at 03:06AM http://bit.ly/2JkSjDw

Why? Just why?

http://bit.ly/2JIe6Ez Submitted May 15, 2019 at 04:03AM http://bit.ly/2JIe6Ez

Don’t skip steps

http://bit.ly/2JkXWSh Submitted May 15, 2019 at 04:08AM http://bit.ly/2JkXWSh

He's a good dude.

http://bit.ly/2JFe8gx Submitted May 15, 2019 at 04:10AM http://bit.ly/2JFe8gx

Noticed this recently

http://bit.ly/2JkXUK9 Submitted May 15, 2019 at 04:57AM http://bit.ly/2JkXUK9

What a train wreck, I just wanted to eat my cereal in peace. Pt.1

http://bit.ly/2JMd8rf Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:34AM http://bit.ly/2JMd8rf

Pt.2 he really asked me to be friends after all of this, I blocked him 😂

http://bit.ly/2JlczFe Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:36AM http://bit.ly/2JlczFe

He absolutely does not want to see me naked

http://bit.ly/2JGfQOO Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:58AM http://bit.ly/2JGfQOO

/u/HavePlushieWillTalk on Easy

That's why I need plushies ^^ So sooo much cuddles ^^ Without plushies, Plushie is... angry. May 15, 2019 at 07:20AM

Why do women feel the need to affirm a man before rejecting him?

The last four times I've been rejected by a woman they've gone something like this: - "I had a lot of fun on the date and getting to know you! I respect you so much, but I don't see this going anywhere so can't accept a second date." - "I just want to affirm you that you are so kind, you pursued me really well, you're a great man and you've done nothing wrong, but I don't want to go on another date at this time" etc. Sometimes they'll actually give me a reason when I ask, like 'I just didn't laugh enough' - which is funny ( get it? ) because every text I have from her is 'lololol :)' to my texts, and we laughed the whole time on the dates. I either feel like 1) women feel they need to build up a man before rejecting him for some unknown reason, 2) they just lie and give fake platitudes but when you push back it's totally inconsistent, 3) they demand absolute perfection. It's incredibly frustrating, a...

Girl I am dating had sex with ex a month in

Title says it all. I've been dating this girl for a month and a half and found out she had sex with her ex who she wasn't completely over. I just happen to find out by putting things together. I'm not sure how to feel as we weren't official and I'm not exactly sure what I would have done in her shoes. She tells me it only happened once and she instantly regretted it and wants to be with me. I'm so confused... Submitted May 14, 2019 at 08:39PM Title says it all. I've been dating this girl for a month and a half and found out she had sex with her ex who she wasn't completely over. I just happen to find out by putting things together. I'm not sure how to feel as we weren't official and I'm not exactly sure what I would have done in her shoes. She tells me it only happened once and she instantly regretted it and wants to be with me. I'm so confused...

What should I do?

So long story short, I went on a couple of dates with this girl but nothing happened - I didn't really feel any attraction to be honest. We've kept in touch though: a few texts here and there, and now today she just texts me that she's been in a car accident (from what I gather it's minor, she wasn't hospitalised), but she asked me to go spend the night with her, which made me feel uneasy. Am I a bad person for not going? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 08:41PM So long story short, I went on a couple of dates with this girl but nothing happened - I didn't really feel any attraction to be honest. We've kept in touch though: a few texts here and there, and now today she just texts me that she's been in a car accident (from what I gather it's minor, she wasn't hospitalised), but she asked me to go spend the night with her, which made me feel uneasy. Am I a bad person for not going?

How do I tell if a relationship is genuine?

I'm researching a plan to stay in England indefinitely, and it requires extending a work visa by having a "genuine relationship," not a "sham marriage". I intend to fully comply, after being raised by my parents' marriage, I will never tolerate a toxic marriage. This will be hard because I have hemiplegic migraines and a fearful-avoidant attachment style. Long question, answer if you dare: how do I tell if it's genuine, or if I'm just falling for my own would-be marriage sham with some woman with which I've had sex? how do I tell if I have feelings for someone, feelings like a crush instead of feelings like deceit or fear of being single? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 08:44PM I'm researching a plan to stay in England indefinitely, and it requires extending a work visa by having a "genuine relationship," not a "sham marriage". I intend to fully comply, after being raised by my parents' marriage, I will never tole...

Guy [23] I dated for 2 months ‘broke up’ with me because of distance during summer.

I’m (21F) studying abroad full time and plan to stay in this country for an undetermined time. Two months ago, I met a guy from my university (his roommate is my classmate) and we started dating. We immediately liked each other a lot and he texted me every day, we went on multiple dates a week, saw each other at uni. In this time he also slept at my place a couple of times. It basically felt like we were in a relationship. When we found out, however, that during the summer there will basically be no opportunity for us to see each other (I’m doing a full time internship in my home country and he will be going on 5 or 6 different vacations/trips), we were a bit confused on how to continue. After he took some time to think he decided it’s better if we stop seeing each other now, with these 3 or 4 months of distance ahead. He told me he had tried this before in other relationships and suffers a lot from being away from the person he loves, and (rightfully) thinks that our 2 month base mig...

Is it weird that a guy didn’t kiss me on our date but keeps hitting me up to go out again?

I (26F) don’t go on dates very often because honestly they’re just a lot of work with generally little pay off in my opinion. But anyway, I went on a date with a guy (28M) and we had really good conversation. He even dragged the date later than I expected by ordering dessert. Well when we left he didn’t try to kiss me or anything. Now he’s been texting me trying to get me to go on another date. Is this normal? Is he friend zoning me or what do you think is going on? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 09:56PM I (26F) don’t go on dates very often because honestly they’re just a lot of work with generally little pay off in my opinion. But anyway, I went on a date with a guy (28M) and we had really good conversation. He even dragged the date later than I expected by ordering dessert. Well when we left he didn’t try to kiss me or anything. Now he’s been texting me trying to get me to go on another date. Is this normal? Is he friend zoning me or what do you think is going on?

Weird questions with online dating.

I don't know if it is just my experience with online dating, but men asking me who I live with is such a weird question and I have gotten it a few times. I am an only parent and in school so I understand that guys don't want to date a 30 something who lives with her parents (I don't) but at the same time I am not comfortable with telling a stranger I live with just my kids. ​ One guy had the balls to ask how I pay my bills. I don't have an issue explaining my situation during a date or once I get to know someone better, but asking me about my bank account before you ask my name is just poor taste. ​ While I am on my soapbox, I don't understand this whole WhatsApp deal. Actually I do, I just don't want any lewd pictures and I am not downloading the app, no matter how much you beg. ​ What is the weirdest thing you have been asked? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 10:15PM I don't know if it is just my experience with online dating, but men asking me who I...

What to do when she seems scared?

So I've been involved with this girl since February (Me 30/M, her 28/F), we talk every day, we see each other often (1-2 times a week) and I continually get mixed messages from her. A lot has happened in these 2 1/2 months and I'm really confused as to what this situation is and what to do about it. Bear with me here because there's a lot. It started out with us having a casual date one day and what I expected would only be an hour or 2 long date ended up with us hanging out the whole afternoon in to the evening, we didn't kiss or hook up because it felt forced on my end, more so just making sure we're comfortable around each other. the next few dates we did kiss, nothing more than make out, she would push me away and I would push her away at times too...just didn't seem like we were very into that moment of lets get hot and hook up...so I was cool with it, in a sense I like how we had been on 4 dates and didn't have sex so it didn't distort actual fe...

Devastated.

I've[24M] been talking to this girl[23M] for the past week, she's amazing to say the least. We texted each other every single day for almost the entire day(at a reasonable pace of course), she liked everything about me, I liked everything about her. There seemed to be no qualms about each other without even having gone on a first date yet. In a way we were both too good to be true for each other. We both agreed we had such an amazing connection and were overly excited to see each other for the first time. We were finally able to set up a time to have a "first date", which was last night. She drove to my house around 7:30PM and I took her to the park to hang out. We spent 4 hours there walking around, talking, telling stories, she laughed at my jokes, we kissed each other multiple times, it felt like we connected even more, it was everything and more than I expected, it felt like that week of talking materialized into something even more amazing with her. I got her ...

Back in the game and needed some advice

Hey all! Just got back in the dating game after long time relationship ended, found this absolutely stunning girl at a party this past weekend and didn’t want to mess up the opportunity for a relationship. So I asked her out to go out hammocking later this week since the weather has been nice. Now my problem in the past with women stem from me overthinking a lot, either about how I’m looking/talking/her thoughts etc. this creates some issues because I over analyze what’s going on and end up making some dumb decisions. How could I fix this issue so I can start building a solid relationship. Submitted May 14, 2019 at 10:48PM Hey all! Just got back in the dating game after long time relationship ended, found this absolutely stunning girl at a party this past weekend and didn’t want to mess up the opportunity for a relationship. So I asked her out to go out hammocking later this week since the weather has been nice.Now my problem in the past with women stem from me overthinking a l...

4 year difference makes me feel uncomfortable

So I (m just turned22) really like this girl (f17 but nearly 18) from my scouting group we just started texting a few days back and so far so good even a little bit flirty . But there's a few things that I'd like someone to help me settle my mind on. So there's the age difference. Even though she's nice and we get along well. I have no reason to feel this way but I feel like I'm being tricked. Like there somehow she goes along with me to then just embarrass me in front of the group. She also has 2 brothers both 20, I know them well and I feel like if they and everyone else finds out and I get rejected as an older guy it would be really embarrassing. I've had bad experiences with pretty nasty people in the past so somehow I always think I'm being set up. It's really hard to trust people or to ignore those feelings. There's also the difference in life stages, she just leaves high school while I'm in my second year of uni(and should actually be i...

Girl's response to me asking her out...

So I snapped a girl an event and said "vamos" (she has a hispanic background), and she responded, "that would be fun!!!" ...is that a yes, no, maybe, or does she not think I asked her? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 11:10PM So I snapped a girl an event and said "vamos" (she has a hispanic background), and she responded, "that would be fun!!!"...is that a yes, no, maybe, or does she not think I asked her?

Does it sound like she is about to flake? Should I just tell her we should meet up another time or wait?

I met a girl about guy months ago and we clicked instantly. This was around Christmas time, and she kept texting me and showing interest. After Christmas, we kept texting but I realized I had a lot to do before committing to someone fully so we didn't hang out one on one, but continued to text and send each other memes. We bumped into each other about a few months later and started hanging out again. She mentioned at one point she "wants to date but feels like something is holding me back" I I realized after hanging out with her for about a month that I do like her. We've been hanging out a lot recently, but it's been hard to meet up because I've been going out of town for the past few weekends and she's been a bit busy too. Last week, we were supposed to meet up but she canceled and said she hopes I am not mad but that she will make it up to me and we'd be down for dinner next week. I was leaving Thursday after work, but had to postpone to Friday mo...

I (28F) am not interested in a relationship, but asked (25M) guy to be sexually exclusive after 3 months. He seemed to think that I wanted a committed relationship, freaked out, and has not contacted me since. I like him, but genuinely just want something casual right now. Is this salvageable?

I have been talking to a guy I met IRL for almost three months. We texted almost every day with him always initiating, asking lots of questions, and making plans. I wasn’t sure if I was interested in him after getting out of a bad relationship last year and I was concerned about dating someone younger due to how men and women mature differently. The first time he kissed me, I told him how my last relationship ended (we were together three years, I later found out he had cheated on me a lot and I'm still not totally over it) and that I wasn’t looking for anything serious. He said he wasn’t either since he got out of a long relationship around the same time as well (about 9 months before we met in February.) We had sex for the first time a little over a month ago and after six dates, which would have been around 2 months after we first started talking. Since then we’ve seen each other 2-3x per week, I’ve met some of his friends, and I know he talks about me to his family. We were ...

do dating sites even work

its hard to find friends or relationships, not sure if paying for a dating app is worth it or a scam and its hard enough not getting catfished and wasting time with account that im not sure are or arent fake do you have any tips or suggestions? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:20AM its hard to find friends or relationships, not sure if paying for a dating app is worth it or a scam and its hard enough not getting catfished and wasting time with account that im not sure are or arent fakedo you have any tips or suggestions?

What do you interpret from when a person tells you he/she is divorced?

Do you think this is just small talk or that he/she is telling you that they are available? My situation is that an older woman at work told me she was divorced. I sort of read that she's interested in me BUT we all know that "don't dip your pen in the company ink" blah blah. I do think she is pretty although I get the whole co-worker dynamic doesn't always end well. Either way, I want to still be nice and try to make small talk. She brings up her divorce shortly after I ask her about her Mother's Day weekend though it's been 5 years since, so not recent. She doesn't indicate that she has a new boyfriend or anything to deter someone from asking her out, if that makes sense. I am considering asking her out at least for drinks to see if anything happens but I know it might be tough if I am just misreading things and she's actually trying to be nice too. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:32AM Do you think this is just small talk or that he/she is ...

Anyone else notice long-term couples breaking up after moving in together?

Most of my friends have been/are in long term relationship (2+ years) and I’ve already seen three couples I know break up soon after moving in together. One couple was together 2 1/2 years, one couple 4 years, and the last couple were together 5 years. All parties involved are in their 20’s, and we were all sure that they were all gonna get married. But they all ended up breaking up within a few months of living together. Has anyone else noticed this? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:04AM Most of my friends have been/are in long term relationship (2+ years) and I’ve already seen three couples I know break up soon after moving in together. One couple was together 2 1/2 years, one couple 4 years, and the last couple were together 5 years. All parties involved are in their 20’s, and we were all sure that they were all gonna get married. But they all ended up breaking up within a few months of living together. Has anyone else noticed this?

About to have my first date ever. Any tips?

I'm ( 20 M ) going to ask an acquaintance (19 F) from my hometown that just transfered to my college out for my first date ever, first time I ask someone out too. Im not sure I even want to date this girl, just wanted to ask her out for a coffee after finals are done and see how it goes. If she accepts, Any tips to keep the date from getting akward and keep conversation flowing? Any tips in general would be apreciated. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:06AM I'm ( 20 M ) going to ask an acquaintance (19 F) from my hometown that just transfered to my college out for my first date ever, first time I ask someone out too. Im not sure I even want to date this girl, just wanted to ask her out for a coffee after finals are done and see how it goes. If she accepts, Any tips to keep the date from getting akward and keep conversation flowing?Any tips in general would be apreciated.

Did your partner/SO ever become pick with how you make out?

Can’t read the person I’m dating in terms of what he might like. I get mixed signals sometimes. I sort of try everything depending on the mood and I know this is about personal preference but I want to make sure he is enjoying our make out time and not over think it. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:06AM Can’t read the person I’m dating in terms of what he might like. I get mixed signals sometimes. I sort of try everything depending on the mood and I know this is about personal preference but I want to make sure he is enjoying our make out time and not over think it.

Finally asking my crush of 3-4 years out

I’m a junior, as is she. We’re both in high school. I’ve known her for a while and we use to be very close but drifted apart and are just friends now. We still talk occasionally but this year I’m just gonna go for it finally. I have high hopes but at the same time I’m realistic. If I get rejected (which would definitely suck) at least I finally have an answer and can finally move on but for real this time. I just had to say that somewhere. This’ll happen during school when I can pull her the side. I don’t think asking her out and confessing my liking of her over text would have nearly the same affect. here we goo Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:13AM I’m a junior, as is she. We’re both in high school.I’ve known her for a while and we use to be very close but drifted apart and are just friends now. We still talk occasionally but this year I’m just gonna go for it finally. I have high hopes but at the same time I’m realistic. If I get rejected (which would definitely suck) at least...

Challenging myself to be more loving to my husband

I can be pretty cold and pessimistic sometimes so I would like to compile a list of loving actions I can challenge myself to bring more warmth to the people in my life. I want to start first and foremost with my husband, but part of the idea is to start building habits that will spill out into the rest of my life as well. Will you guys help me add to my “love is a verb” list? Here’s what I have so far: Express appreciation for a certain personality trait (his love language is words of affirmation, mine is touch, and I forget to be vocal about the things that make him feel special) Research an interest of his that I am not normally interested in Give him the booth side next time we eat at a restaurant table with a booth side and chair side Burgers and beer date Learn how to play super smash Leave love notes on post-it’s for him to find in the morning Meet him at the door and kiss him before he gets all the way in Look for the things he does that makes me apprec...

Upcoming Wedding, Not Sure What To Do [34M] [32F] (Together 4.5 years)

TL;DR I get married in 4 days and I don't know what to do. I both equally want to do it and think its a bad idea at the same time. This was an email draft I was going to write to a few family members, but posted here instead. ​ Per usual, I don't know what to do. Its happened consistently throughout my life, and of course a big decision like a wedding is no exception as I've come to find out. Probably even more exacerbated by the fact that its not such an easy thing to just "change" if it doesn't work out.  Every single day, since Around mid February, I haven't been sure whether to go through with this wedding. The first time I told Jessica was in late February sometime. She talked me down that it sounded like it was more the gravity of the event than not wanting to be with her. I agreed, because the thought of breaking up or not being with her seemed like not the right choice either. In my heart I didn't want to do that, and in my head I didn...

UK couple looking for advice about Vegas wedding

My girlfriend (26F) and I (28M) have been together for 4 years this year. We have never really wanted a big wedding. We both hate being in the spotlight so we were thinking about a destination wedding combined with a holiday/honeymoon, so we were thinking about a private wedding with just the two of us in Vegas in the next year or two. We've also discussed it with both of our parents and they know what we are like so they are fine with it. My mom said she kind of expected me to do that. Haha. I know that we have to apply for a marriage license and we've found a chapel we really like, but as far as planning a wedding we are both pretty clueless. What other things to we need to keep in mind when doing this as I want to make some kind of spreadsheet for how much we need to save up and what the money will be allocated towards etc. We have seen that you can apply for a marriage license online. Is that a print and bring it with you kind of deal or do you still need to go and colle...

Secret marriage now need divorce

This post from India (New Delhi). Me(M36) and Girl (F32) (introduced on shadii.com ) started meeting in public park. We enjoyed taking to each other. After few months, we married secretly and she also came to my house for few hours (when no one was at home). Now somehow, we fight all the time. She is verbally abusing me, telling me that she wants a divorce, and simultaneously wants me to bring her to my home officially (this is called Vidaai or Ruksati). Also threatening me with suicide because she bought shame to her family by secretly marrying me. So, Now I want a divorce and from time to time, she also tells me that she wants divorce, Now:- What legal action can I take to save myself? Do I need to give any alimony? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 03:13PM This post from India (New Delhi).Me(M36) and Girl (F32) (introduced on shadii.com ) started meeting in public park. We enjoyed taking to each other. After few months, we married secretly and she also came to my house for few...

My husband (27M) and I (28F) are having some communication issues and I don't know what to do.

My husband and I have only been married for six months now. I won't lie when I say that things have been very difficult since we've been married. We probably get into some sort of argument every other week. The issue is how we handle it. I am better at just going to him immediately and saying "lets talk and work this out" or "I'm sorry about what I just said" or whatever. My husband on the other hand, shuts down for days! He will literally just not talk to me (other than the necessary "are you hungry" type questions) because he doesn't want to deal with it. We've talked before about how whoever is at fault in causing the argument needs to be the one to address it and make sure we don't get stuck in this rut. Only, he NEVER does it! I am always the one to initiate "the talk" and it's exhausting. So the options are: I give in and I keep solving his problems for us, or we don't talk for days. The last time I let it...

So, I want to get married, she's 20 and I'm 21.

We've been dating for 6 months almost, and I want to propose. Every one is telling me that it's too early, and that we need more time. So maybe it's too early. Should I talk to her parents first about proposal? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 04:58PM We've been dating for 6 months almost, and I want to propose.Every one is telling me that it's too early, and that we need more time.So maybe it's too early. Should I talk to her parents first about proposal?

I dont know what to do...what are you're thoughts

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1 year anniversary coming up!

It's mine and my Husband's 1 year anniversary coming up and I am so excited! We aren't doing anything super exciting, probably just dinner and a movie, but I am happy I will get to spend time with him. He is an ironworker so he works long hours and has a long commute. We have been through so much in the last 8 years. Our relationship is strong now because of it all. He is a redditor so if he sees this I LOVE YOU BABY! Thank you for asking me to be your wife. I look forward to the coming years with you. Submitted May 14, 2019 at 05:42PM It's mine and my Husband's 1 year anniversary coming up and I am so excited! We aren't doing anything super exciting, probably just dinner and a movie, but I am happy I will get to spend time with him. He is an ironworker so he works long hours and has a long commute. We have been through so much in the last 8 years. Our relationship is strong now because of it all. He is a redditor so if he sees this I LOVE YOU BABY! Thank...

Advice for long lasting marriages? How do you stay spontaneous?

I’ve only been married for 6 months and we have great communication and are best friends and my wife is an amazing supporter but not everyday is easy and I never want her to think I don’t love her or that she isn’t my #1 priority. How do you keep the spark alive? How do you stay spontaneous after decades of being together? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 08:10PM I’ve only been married for 6 months and we have great communication and are best friends and my wife is an amazing supporter but not everyday is easy and I never want her to think I don’t love her or that she isn’t my #1 priority. How do you keep the spark alive? How do you stay spontaneous after decades of being together?

Does anyone find this odd?

Some people I know of have been married for a number years, but came from a failed first marriage. It seems like second marriages work better than people say they do. Do you agree? Submitted May 14, 2019 at 08:27PM Some people I know of have been married for a number years, but came from a failed first marriage. It seems like second marriages work better than people say they do. Do you agree?

To Marry Or Not To Marry

Not sure if I should be going further in this relationship or not. I'm dating someone and have been for several years. Six months into it we took some time off - their choice, not mine. The reason being is because I had to work out of town M-F and wasn't home enough to make it feel like we were together. After 4-5 months we got back together and have been ever since. Gone on trips, moved in, yada yada yada. While we were not officially dating we still were together as much as possible on weekends and talked on the phone damn near every evening when I was out of town for work so there was still a lot of communication and interaction - just nothing physical. After we got back together I learned they had been hooking up with another person while we weren't dating. When I was home on the weekends I would be with the two of them just hanging out or in larger group settings not knowing that anything was going on between them. The third person was fully aware that we had been dat...

Need a quick Bday gift idea?

Bored with material gifts? You can only buy so much jewelry and clothing and roses etc.Or maybe you don’t want to spend a lot of money ? Here’s what u do I took a large piece of butcher paper Put it on the wall wrote happy birthday Mommy in really big letters with a magic marker and I had the kids paint draw ,color use chalk whatever they wanted on it and when she came home she had a nice Mural waiting for 😀 she was in tears and said it was the best gift she ever had in her life. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 12:37AM Bored with material gifts? You can only buy so much jewelry and clothing and roses etc.Or maybe you don’t want to spend a lot of money ? Here’s what u doI took a large piece of butcher paper Put it on the wall wrote happy birthday Mommy in really big letters with a magic marker and I had the kids paint draw ,color use chalk whatever they wanted on it and when she came home she had a nice Mural waiting for 😀 she was in tears and said it was the best gift she ever had ...

Getting a Divorce (Comedy Sketch)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zOop8KcJrIg Submitted May 15, 2019 at 01:00AM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zOop8KcJrIg

How do you handle your or your partner's opposite sex friendships?

Inspired by this post: AITAH or Is this normal How do set boundaries, what are your rules, how do you trust your partner, how do you not seem controlling, and how would you know they are/ they are not cheating? What can be learned for that post's story? What about grass is greener syndrome , how do you and your partner handle it? ​ EDIT: Same sex if Gay or Bi- Submitted May 15, 2019 at 03:14AM Inspired by this post: AITAH or Is this normalHow do set boundaries, what are your rules, how do you trust your partner, how do you not seem controlling, and how would you know they are/ they are not cheating? What can be learned for that post's story? What about grass is greener syndrome, how do you and your partner handle it?​EDIT: Same sex if Gay or Bi-

Ruin a summer vacation with wife, for a summer job?

My wife and I are in year 2 of marriage and I've been trying to transition into a better career. A temporary job opportunity came up for this summer. It could boost my résumé a bit, but no guarantees. It would show that I have experience as a low-tier worker in the field that I'm trying to break into. It's nothing major, when I think about it too much. But my wife and I had plans for this summer and this would require ruining them. For the purpose of building something better, longer-term. But is it worth it???? I've been trying for a year to catch a break and get a job in this field. This isn't an actual job but could be something to put on my CV. Maybe I'm too paranoid and desperate with this job hunt and need to calm down and realize that this isn't the only opportunity out there... that I should honour the vacation I planned with my wife... What do I do? PS: My wife says that I should do it but that's just wifely commitment. And even if she were ...

#marriedproblems

If my wife never feels comfortable naked around me is it bad that i start feeling the same way... Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:31AM If my wife never feels comfortable naked around me is it bad that i start feeling the same way...

I'm getting mixed signals from my "FWB"

(Excuse the formatting I am using a phone) Also this is kinda long. So I'm newly single and one of my booty calls from a few years ago, that I just happen to be good friends with for about 7 years, reached out. Well he came over to my apartment we watched some tv, we talked about some future investments we had in mind, we hardcore flirted, made out (he made a move first), had some "adult fun", and then he always took me too a nice dinner. He seems super lovely towards me, the last two times he kinda stares at me like a lot and when I ask why he is starting at me, he says, "Because I want to." And he smiles. And I asked him what the odds of this becoming more would be. He said he didn't know. Now a part of that conversation stands out he basically said "You know with my job relocating me, I'll be back in town more often." I mean he messages me first thing in the morning, we do geniuly like each other but when I bring up feelings or seeing...

Was it wrong of me to ask my wife to remove her socks during tickle fights?

My wife and I often have tickle fights to be fun and playful. During the tickle fights, we often tickle each other’s feet. I always have bare feet while she always wears socks. I do not have socks from the laundry to put on, and removing socks is less work than getting socks to put on. I asked her to remove her socks during the tickle fights to make it fair, but she did not and she got annoyed. Was it wrong of me to ask her to remove her socks during the tickle fights? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:49AM My wife and I often have tickle fights to be fun and playful. During the tickle fights, we often tickle each other’s feet. I always have bare feet while she always wears socks. I do not have socks from the laundry to put on, and removing socks is less work than getting socks to put on. I asked her to remove her socks during the tickle fights to make it fair, but she did not and she got annoyed. Was it wrong of me to ask her to remove her socks during the tickle fights?

do dating sites even work

its hard to find friends or relationships, not sure if paying for a dating app is worth it or a scam and its hard enough not getting catfished and wasting time with account that im not sure are or arent fake do you have any tips or suggestions? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:20AM its hard to find friends or relationships, not sure if paying for a dating app is worth it or a scam and its hard enough not getting catfished and wasting time with account that im not sure are or arent fakedo you have any tips or suggestions?

What do you interpret from when a person tells you he/she is divorced?

Do you think this is just small talk or that he/she is telling you that they are available? My situation is that an older woman at work told me she was divorced. I sort of read that she's interested in me BUT we all know that "don't dip your pen in the company ink" blah blah. I do think she is pretty although I get the whole co-worker dynamic doesn't always end well. Either way, I want to still be nice and try to make small talk. She brings up her divorce shortly after I ask her about her Mother's Day weekend though it's been 5 years since, so not recent. She doesn't indicate that she has a new boyfriend or anything to deter someone from asking her out, if that makes sense. I am considering asking her out at least for drinks to see if anything happens but I know it might be tough if I am just misreading things and she's actually trying to be nice too. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 05:32AM Do you think this is just small talk or that he/she is ...

Anyone else notice long-term couples breaking up after moving in together?

Most of my friends have been/are in long term relationship (2+ years) and I’ve already seen three couples I know break up soon after moving in together. One couple was together 2 1/2 years, one couple 4 years, and the last couple were together 5 years. All parties involved are in their 20’s, and we were all sure that they were all gonna get married. But they all ended up breaking up within a few months of living together. Has anyone else noticed this? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:04AM Most of my friends have been/are in long term relationship (2+ years) and I’ve already seen three couples I know break up soon after moving in together. One couple was together 2 1/2 years, one couple 4 years, and the last couple were together 5 years. All parties involved are in their 20’s, and we were all sure that they were all gonna get married. But they all ended up breaking up within a few months of living together. Has anyone else noticed this?

About to have my first date ever. Any tips?

I'm ( 20 M ) going to ask an acquaintance (19 F) from my hometown that just transfered to my college out for my first date ever, first time I ask someone out too. Im not sure I even want to date this girl, just wanted to ask her out for a coffee after finals are done and see how it goes. If she accepts, Any tips to keep the date from getting akward and keep conversation flowing? Any tips in general would be apreciated. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 06:06AM I'm ( 20 M ) going to ask an acquaintance (19 F) from my hometown that just transfered to my college out for my first date ever, first time I ask someone out too. Im not sure I even want to date this girl, just wanted to ask her out for a coffee after finals are done and see how it goes. If she accepts, Any tips to keep the date from getting akward and keep conversation flowing?Any tips in general would be apreciated.