No, not saying that every ace or aro is like that, just that the post asked every ace person personally about what they experience as an ace person. December 27, 2021 at 01:42AM

How do I date? I haven't been in a relationship since highschool and I'm not entirely sure how to do it outside of school. I like chillin at home and I don't go out much. I've tried some dating apps but they either don't work or I'm to impatient idk 🤷. Any advice? Submitted December 27, 2021 at 01:14AM How do I date? I haven't been in a relationship since highschool and I'm not entirely sure how to do it outside of school. I like chillin at home and I don't go out much. I've tried some dating apps but they either don't work or I'm to impatient idk 🤷. Any advice?

Hey guys so my guy is feeling under the weather. He’s not in town for me to comfort him. I texted today to see how he was feeling & he said “I’m feeling blah”. I don’t know how to reply lol. I know I’m overthinking but can you help a girl out ? Thanks! Submitted December 27, 2021 at 01:15AM Hey guys so my guy is feeling under the weather. He’s not in town for me to comfort him. I texted today to see how he was feeling & he said “I’m feeling blah”. I don’t know how to reply lol. I know I’m overthinking but can you help a girl out ? Thanks!

oh gosh, I think you're maybe getting a bit ahead of yourself! Step one: ask them directly about their comfort level with sex. Aces aren't a monolith and maybe your ace ex was touch/sex averse but that doesn't mean this new person is! Could be you two are perfectly compatible. If not, have a conversation about both of your boundaries and then determine whether or not you can sustain a relationship while maintaining both of your needs. There is a lot of communication that needs to happen in any relationship in regards to intimacy, but you have to start the conversation :) December 26, 2021 at 11:44PM

Was watching a YouTube video about an ace guy talking about his experiences, not expecting to get anything from it except a better understanding of ace people, and to my surprise it was like he was describing me. Even looking back, we're very similar on the ace spectrum. December 26, 2021 at 11:44PM

I’ve had this same question for the same reasons. I know that in terms of privilege I have a lot. I only romantically date men so the stigma of how I present in public is basically non-existent. I wouldn’t want to take up safe spaces meant for those whose sexual and/or gender identity has caused them actual harm. Mostly I don’t even talk about it. People just assume I’m a run of the mill spinster. December 26, 2021 at 11:44PM

Heh, when I wrote this, I was the only person who chose "I'm OK with having sex and kissing". Actually, I didn't have neither of this, but I would like to try. I'm just lazy and not horny enough. Just like that. Also I'm OK with masturbation, especially with masturbator. As for just cuddling, it wouldn't be enough for me. December 26, 2021 at 11:44PM

logging in on an alt here lol, but yes I do. Literally kept me from thinking I was ace for years. I thought I was just fucked because it was all that turned me on and sex didn't even cross my mind. maybe tmi but this is an alt so dgaf but I'm into omorashi, so I don't think your foot fetish is all that embarrassing in comparison lol December 26, 2021 at 11:40PM

I (M25) use hinge to meet women in my area, and I'm beginning to feel bored of it. I want to branch out to other apps, but I'm not sure which one to try. I've used tinder and bumble in the past. What's your favorite dating app? Submitted December 27, 2021 at 12:10AM I (M25) use hinge to meet women in my area, and I'm beginning to feel bored of it. I want to branch out to other apps, but I'm not sure which one to try. I've used tinder and bumble in the past. What's your favorite dating app?

LOL'd! Thanks man! TIL December 26, 2021 at 11:40PM