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Should I be worried about having loud sex in an apartment?

My boyfriend (20m) and I (20f) have pretty frequent sex. And needless to say, it gets very loud between the two of us. We are currently looking for an apartment to rent, but I’m afraid it’ll affect our sex life if we need to be quieter. We really enjoy being loud and hearing each other’s enjoyment, but I don’t know how we can keep that same energy and enjoyment if we need to stay quiet for the neighbor’s sake. I don’t want to be rude, but I also want to keep our sex loud and proud too. Submitted December 20, 2021 at 01:20AM My boyfriend (20m) and I (20f) have pretty frequent sex. And needless to say, it gets very loud between the two of us. We are currently looking for an apartment to rent, but I’m afraid it’ll affect our sex life if we need to be quieter. We really enjoy being loud and hearing each other’s enjoyment, but I don’t know how we can keep that same energy and enjoyment if we need to stay quiet for the neighbor’s sake. I don’t want to be rude, but I also want to keep ...

My boyfriend just stopped wanting to have sex. Help.

My boyfriend (23m) and I (20f) have known each other for 3 years and have been dating for 1 year. During the first two years that we knew each other. We dated on and off. And we fucked a lot. It was crazy and fun. Super passionate and sometimes a little weird. We had a good time with each other. He’d always get hard ons for me. He’d wake me up in the mornings for sex. I loved sucking his dick and trying my best to make sure he felt good too.. Sometimes it was very loving and sometimes it was very rough (which we both like) But come last year, I found out I was pregnant with our son. When we got back together last December, I noticed how he barely touched me. Or wanted to have sex. It’s been a year now and we maybe only have sex 4-5 times a month. We used to do it all the time. Yes my body changed, but I didn’t get fat. I was really skinny when I got pregnant. I was barely eating due to anxiety and depression. (It wasn’t diagnosed but I definitely also had an eating disorder) But after...

I feel sick when having sex with her

So I’m 21m she’s 22f and the only time we’ve had sex was when I lost my virginity 4 months ago when I lost my virginity to her. I was very reluctant to lose it to her because she wasn’t a virgin and I wanted it to be special for her. I wanted to have our first time together and have the experience every guy values of taking a girls virginity. When we were having sex that one time I couldn’t stop think of her fucking another dude that another dudes dick was in her reminding me some dudes cum was where I am and it made me feel like throwing up. I couldn’t even look at her and I was really struggling and my gf obviously noticed and she’s been hurt since I quit it short. We haven’t had sex since and I felt so gross and took the longest shower. I feel dirty like I had those guys dicks on mine it was weird lol. I feel dirty and i feel like no other girl will love me after I did this. I wish I just found a virgin but luck wasn’t on my side in falling in love with a virgin I should have star...

How do you guys moisturize the glans?

The glans just one side right nex to my urethra is pretty dry and is noticebly dark. I think I have dried it out from masturbating a bit rough lately. What are some tips to remedy this? Submitted December 20, 2021 at 01:56AM The glans just one side right nex to my urethra is pretty dry and is noticebly dark. I think I have dried it out from masturbating a bit rough lately.What are some tips to remedy this?

Why can’t I cum

So I(F18) used to be able to make myself cum in less than 5 minutes, since my boyfriend and I started having sex I haven’t been able to come whether it’s during sex of masturbation Submitted December 20, 2021 at 01:56AM So I(F18) used to be able to make myself cum in less than 5 minutes, since my boyfriend and I started having sex I haven’t been able to come whether it’s during sex of masturbation

Does he like me?? (18 F 19 M from Guatemala)

I go to a suburban school in Philly and he goes to a school downtown and we met at a party and hit it off. He approached me and asked me to dance (he gave his friend his drink and said “let me lead you” when I looked confused). We hung out the rest of the night with our friends walking around downtown. When we left at 2:30am, he took a picture with us and asked for my number and gave me a hug around the waist and said to say hi to my parents over thanksgiving break because he couldn’t go home to Guatemala to see his. Fast forward and I DM him on insta cause I hadn’t heard from him cause he thought I had WhatsApp but I didn’t. He invited me to go rock climbing with him and his friend the next day, but I couldn’t since I was leaving to go home. I then asked for his snap (which he rarely uses) and he sent me a video asking how I was doing cause “he wants to know”. We talked for about a week before he left me on open. I then double snapped him and he responded normally with a video and w...

/u/ImperialFisterAceAro on Not an ace but this made me laugh. S i thought i would share it here

Ironically, my dad is a geologist December 20, 2021 at 12:27AM

/u/doublepistols on Not an ace but this made me laugh. S i thought i would share it here

So, looking through your post history youre literally just a troll who thinks its funny to pretend to be asexual and shut down other people. Very very sad. I hope you find some fulfilling, healthy hobbies soon friend. :) December 20, 2021 at 12:25AM

/u/Taco-Lizard on Any ace rep song recommendations?

A Fine Romance (especially the version with Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong) has strong ace vibes December 20, 2021 at 12:23AM

/u/naivenb1305 on It’s so weird how Allos think any physical compliment is sexual. My dad thought I might’ve been a lesbian because I once said that the actor who played Clara in Doctor Who looked really pretty in a Victorian dress. He believes me that I’m ace now though.

I noticed that too. Every time I compliment a guy's appearance, I'm called gay. December 20, 2021 at 12:18AM

/u/legendwolfA on Not an ace but this made me laugh. S i thought i would share it here

It's about drive December 20, 2021 at 12:16AM

Fellas/Ladies, Does this happen to your Guy?

Married for a little over 8 years currently. Me, 47 and Her, 41. Steady sex life. My issue is that my drive(lust)for sex has dropped off. No testosterone issues. Above average on that. Work out regularly. Still wake up with morning wood daily. I find my wife very sexy. We use to have morning sex all the time and most of our sex happens then still, but when we do it takes me some time to climax, so the quicky is not so quick. She actually starts asking if I’m gonna cum because we have to get ready for work. She will climax 3 to 4 times and then taps out. Is this normal? You fellas dealing with this? Ladies are you experiencing the same issues with your guy? Thanks for your feedback. Submitted December 20, 2021 at 12:58AM Married for a little over 8 years currently. Me, 47 and Her, 41. Steady sex life. My issue is that my drive(lust)for sex has dropped off. No testosterone issues. Above average on that. Work out regularly. Still wake up with morning wood daily. I find my wife very...

As a non-drug user, would you date someone who is a user?

I’m not talking drug addiction but someone who recreationally uses? What issues would it cause? Submitted December 20, 2021 at 12:16AM I’m not talking drug addiction but someone who recreationally uses? What issues would it cause?

/u/cheesemachine2 on does anyone else ever feel like they’re faking being ace?

this is so helpful! December 19, 2021 at 11:28PM