What has been the last straw that occurred in your relationship causing it to end? Sometimes I feel like I tolerate a lot of things because I'm in love with this person. But I don't know if it's something everyone deals with and they don't talk about it and it's something I should just accept or just try to start over again with someone Submitted April 20, 2019 at 09:56PM What has been the last straw that occurred in your relationship causing it to end?Sometimes I feel like I tolerate a lot of things because I'm in love with this person. But I don't know if it's something everyone deals with and they don't talk about it and it's something I should just accept or just try to start over again with someone

I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half but only seriously for the last 2 weeks and since then I've fallen completely head over heels for him. I want to hell him I love him so much but I'm afraid it's too soon to say it Submitted April 21, 2019 at 12:31AM I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half but only seriously for the last 2 weeks and since then I've fallen completely head over heels for him. I want to hell him I love him so much but I'm afraid it's too soon to say it

Hello! I’m a little bit... too ugly to get a boyfriend/girlfriend. What exactly does love feel like? Not from a poetic stand point but a casual stand point. Thanks in advance! Submitted April 21, 2019 at 01:20AM Hello! I’m a little bit... too ugly to get a boyfriend/girlfriend. What exactly does love feel like? Not from a poetic stand point but a casual stand point. Thanks in advance!

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Would you get back with someone who cheated on you? Why? Why not? What are some circumstances as to why you would get back with someone who cheated? Submitted April 21, 2019 at 04:41AM Would you get back with someone who cheated on you? Why? Why not? What are some circumstances as to why you would get back with someone who cheated?

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I don't even know if it's possible to fall in love with a stranger, but I think I have. ​ Okay, so, I use an app to write poetry and there's this girl on there who I have become friends with. I don't even know what she looks or sounds like and she doesn't know what I look or sound like. For the last couple of nights, we have talked for hours until one of us gets tired. I have been pretty depressed for a while but she just makes me so happy. We always compliment each other's poems and talk about how jealous of each other's talent we are. ​ I have learnt so much about her and she has learnt a lot about me too like how she's only a year older than me. We have so much in common: Our favourite musical is the same Our favourite colour is the same We both love cats and dogs We both love writing and poetry We both love reading and we recommended books to each other We share a love for Oreos We are both a part of the lgbt+ community We both love draw...

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PSA I didn’t tell her I bought the necklace nor did I plan on telling her. I might’ve liked her a lot but I’m not completely unaware of how that would’ve been perceived. Also it wasn’t expensive it was literally a little fake chain that had a pendant that was an inside joke between the two of us. But yunno thanks for all the constructive comments 😂😂😂 Submitted April 21, 2019 at 10:18AM PSA I didn’t tell her I bought the necklace nor did I plan on telling her. I might’ve liked her a lot but I’m not completely unaware of how that would’ve been perceived. Also it wasn’t expensive it was literally a little fake chain that had a pendant that was an inside joke between the two of us. But yunno thanks for all the constructive comments 😂😂😂

I apologize for my English, it's not my first language. The problem is this: I met a guy on a date site. We started chatting on Facebook, we got similar personalities and ideas, we are mentally connected. There's just one thing: he's... not that attractive. Before you think I'm a random selfish person that only look for good looks in people, let me tell you this: I already tried to have a relationship with someone I was mentally attracted but not physically and it didn't work. Every time I had even to kiss him, I had to pretend he had another face and body in order not to feel disgusted. After a while, I just left him: it wasn't right for me and for him to pretend I liked him in every way. Well, now I'm in the same situation, yet this time I try hard not to fall in love. Yet I feel so sad, am I stupid for not letting myself fall in love just because I'm not physically attracted to him? Submitted April 21, 2019 at 12:41PM I apologize for my Engli...

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I burped into my girlfriend's mouth and she didn't leave me. Now she's claiming that by staying with me she proved that she loves me even if I kept on doing that. Do you agree ? Submitted April 21, 2019 at 04:28PM I burped into my girlfriend's mouth and she didn't leave me. Now she's claiming that by staying with me she proved that she loves me even if I kept on doing that. Do you agree ?

A strong feeling towards someone is what they call love.I believe it's difficult to fully understand the feelings sometimes.Is it possible to truly love?By love I mean being prepared to do the same for one and other in a relationship.If in a relationship only one of them is willing to do everything for the sake of that love,what's the point of being together then? I can say that I had doubts about that whole love thing,but I was wrong about everything I thought it was bad.I've experienced one heartbreak and I thought I couldn't survive another one,so I distanced myself from other people because I believed everyone would be the same as the one I loved before. Things changed when I noticed a boy that made me smile everyday.He was there when I thought I was a worthless good for nothing girl,a mistake brought to this world by complete accident.That boy was there for me all this time.When I cried,he felt sorry and wanted to help in every way he could,and he did just by sh...

I’ve had two long term relationships and am on my third one but this one feels different. My first love I think I loved very deeply we were together for 4 years and I still will say to this day he was my first love but it was so long ago. I just ended my second relationship 6 months ago and in retrospect don’t think I loved him at all even though we said we loved each other every day but it was completely different than my first. And now I’m in this new relationship and I feel like he’s the one and the feeling I have is something I’ve never felt before but I also can’t remember if this is how I felt with my first boyfriend because that relationship was so long ago. And I would like to know what everyone’s experience with love is and how they knew that they loved that person and if they felt the other person loved them back and what were the signs that they did? Submitted April 21, 2019 at 06:47PM I’ve had two long term relationships and am on my third one but this one feels diff...

I love this girl so much but I don’t think she likes me I can’t get over her and am really struggling with it I just want to be able to talk to her without it being awkward (because I told her how I felt) I never asked her out tho but now I never talk to her and I feel horrible Submitted April 21, 2019 at 07:45PM I love this girl so much but I don’t think she likes me I can’t get over her and am really struggling with it I just want to be able to talk to her without it being awkward (because I told her how I felt) I never asked her out tho but now I never talk to her and I feel horrible

Love has always been a weird theme and experience for me. When I think about it, I don't know if I ever experienced real love before. There was one boy who I'm doubting over to. I felt my heart beating faster and butterflies rapidly flying in my stomach but I'm still not sure. It was something more than outside, the mystery around his beautiful eyes and behavior drove me crazy. He became popular and he completely changed himself which made me lose interest. Nothing special was about him. Just a bland eyes with even blander personality. But I like remembering us giving each others confused looks and now that I think about it, he may loved me back but he was, just as me, scared to start something. Now when I finished this, let's get over to my opinions on love. I was so pumped about it before, I thought a real guy will come but I just gave up. I don't think I like love now. I mostly realised this when my close friends started dating. This girl sent their cute pict...

Head over heels for this one guy! We used to talk but we drifted away for a year. We are finally talking but he moved far away from me and is talking to me about girl problems. This makes me feel so mf sad but I know I cant tell him my feelings....again. its going to hurt me to act like a "friend" and not be able to be with him becuase I know he moved on. It hurts Submitted April 21, 2019 at 08:29PM Head over heels for this one guy! We used to talk but we drifted away for a year. We are finally talking but he moved far away from me and is talking to me about girl problems. This makes me feel so mf sad but I know I cant tell him my feelings....again. its going to hurt me to act like a "friend" and not be able to be with him becuase I know he moved on. It hurts

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so gran ma was standing in line, just talking to my grand pa - Gran pa"Wanna go to the movies with me?" - Gran ma * without thinking "..Sure". LATER gran ma * a day before the movie* "oh shoot, i don't want people to this i'm dating him". so she calls some friends "wanna go to the movies at - time of night - Friends - "Sure" "thay go to the movies" and she thinks hes kindof dorky - 10 years later - he messages her about somthing, then she realized its him -Her- "mabe he does not recognize me " - thay get back in toush- -gran pa- "hey i'm having a concert in your town" -gran ma- " wanna come over when you get here?" -gran pa-" sure" -gran ma to her BF - "please give back my dorm key" -BF-"wth?? why?" gran ma-" i'm braking up with you, theres this guy.." -BF-"..are you dating him?" -gran ma - "no." -BF- "fin...

dear person i love, crush, nearly best friend, i understand you could never like me back. but do you have to make me feel so special even though i'm just a best friend to you? do you have to stare back at me in class when i'm sad and make me laugh? do you have to ask me if i'm okay? do you have to message me every few hours and make me fall harder for you? my heart felt like it dropped when i learned that i wouldn't be able to talk to you for the first time. when you couldn't talk to me either unless we were in school. all the lyrics i post about falling in love aren't for anyone else except you. cotton candy skies, just friends, a thousand years, i only relate to them because of... you. i try so hard not to cry for you because i know you're worried about me and i don't want you to worry. i want you to be happy and i want to be the reason you want to live. but those are fantasies that i have in my head that i know will never come true but i hope w...

Does the first date sweep me off of my feet? What are the steps to finding love or get into a relationship? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 12:24AM Does the first date sweep me off of my feet? What are the steps to finding love or get into a relationship?

Fuck love. Fuck it. People have them, I try to fill them up and now I'm alone. Date ended up with another guy on my date tofay. Best friend ended up with another guy, lying about the fact that he was gay. Everything is fucking crumbling and nobody wants to be with me. I can't even bear to go to work today... I finally understand why people kill themselves. Sometimes the despair is too much. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 12:50AM Fuck love. Fuck it. People have them, I try to fill them up and now I'm alone. Date ended up with another guy on my date tofay. Best friend ended up with another guy, lying about the fact that he was gay. Everything is fucking crumbling and nobody wants to be with me. I can't even bear to go to work today...I finally understand why people kill themselves. Sometimes the despair is too much.

I’ve had some type of dating site for five (5) years. I went on over 20+ dates. I only had a second date once, and after I thought everything went so well, he told me he was no longer interested. I've dealt with depression and anxiety since I was 15, and dating was already difficult enough. After that last date, I didn’t feel comfortable going on any after that. I was so sure that I was destined to be alone (I’m only 22, so yeah, that was naive). I was tired of men. I’d been on dates where the men had insulted my work, my appearance, I experienced a sexual assault on one, and I was just genuinely downtrodden. So I vowed that I’d stop looking. I deleted all of my dating apps, cleared my mind, and started focusing more on myself and my work/schooling. And then, right as I’d given up: I was talking to my female coworker (kind of like a second mother to me) about how cute our other coworker was in his work pants, haha. Of course, she told him. I didn't think much of it until m...

Ok so there’s this girl i really really like, i feel like im inlove with her. When i see her at work i get a nice vibe of her but she has a bf and im tired of holding everything in and i just feel like telling everything of how i feel about her she’s always on my mind i don’t really know what to do anymore 😒 Submitted April 22, 2019 at 01:26AM Ok so there’s this girl i really really like, i feel like im inlove with her. When i see her at work i get a nice vibe of her but she has a bf and im tired of holding everything in and i just feel like telling everything of how i feel about her she’s always on my mind i don’t really know what to do anymore 😒

I don’t really know what the definition of romantic love is, to me anyway. I think I put much too many expectations on the word. There’s a difference between having love for someone, and being in love with them. I still don’t know how to differentiate between those two ideas. I have love towards my ex, even after I crushed him by saying I wanted to break up. I wanted better for him, for us both really. I was in love with how much he loved me- the dependency, the adoration I felt I didn’t deserve, the security. I still don’t know how exactly he defined the idea of being in love, but I do know the way we clung together and sated ourselves with the delusional idealism and idolization for each other couldn’t possibly be healthy love. We selfishly loved each other because we both craved to have someone, anyone, that thought they needed us. Need can’t be love. Real love should be selfless, right? Insecurity can not be the foundation of love. Real love should be confidence, two people equa...

What does it mean when youre effectively going crazy for a girl that doesn't match your type. My type is small, such as, short, small breasts, tiny booty, things of that sort. But im massively crushing on a girl that doesn't really meet any of that, good sized butt, larger breasts, but she is fairly short. I'm not sure if it's me going crazy, but I feel this means that I'm definitely more in love with her personality, which could maybe lead to a much better relationship, what do you think? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 01:40AM What does it mean when youre effectively going crazy for a girl that doesn't match your type. My type is small, such as, short, small breasts, tiny booty, things of that sort. But im massively crushing on a girl that doesn't really meet any of that, good sized butt, larger breasts, but she is fairly short. I'm not sure if it's me going crazy, but I feel this means that I'm definitely more in love with her personality, ...

I’m new here A year ago I got out of a severely abusive relationship of 3 years. And I met someone last November , I never meant to make it anything more than an FWB situation but I’m just so into him now, and we’ve barely discussed what we want from this but it just sounds like neither of us know what we are doing. I just need to get it off my chest, I’m sitting here after a night with him last night trying to convince myself I don’t love him just because I’m finally receiving intimacy and appreciation . Goodnight everyone Submitted April 22, 2019 at 02:24AM I’m new here A year ago I got out of a severely abusive relationship of 3 years. And I met someone last November , I never meant to make it anything more than an FWB situation but I’m just so into him now, and we’ve barely discussed what we want from this but it just sounds like neither of us know what we are doing. I just need to get it off my chest, I’m sitting here after a night with him last night trying to convince mys...

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I’ve been friends with my SO for a few years and had some good memories in that time, but the last six months I’ve spent with her has changed my view on people. She’s kind, funny, beautiful, and all around perfect. I know six months isn’t that long but I know what I feel and I’m certain this is a thing that I’m going to do my everything to keep. All these Netflix nights wile we eat bosco sticks, all these nights we drink wine and listen to old music, all of this is what I want forever. This is heaven this is love. I love you sugar plum. With all my heart. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:11AM I’ve been friends with my SO for a few years and had some good memories in that time, but the last six months I’ve spent with her has changed my view on people. She’s kind, funny, beautiful, and all around perfect. I know six months isn’t that long but I know what I feel and I’m certain this is a thing that I’m going to do my everything to keep. All these Netflix nights wile we eat bosco stic...

I know this sound weird but do muscles makes girls horny or more attracted to a male ? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:12AM I know this sound weird but do muscles makes girls horny or more attracted to a male ?

I really like this girl and she’s just not any girl we dated for about 3 and a half months. We broke up 4 times but it wasn’t serious and now it is. She wants to be good friends but I don’t see it working out. My friend told me she doesn’t like me anymore but today we were talking and I got her in her feels by talking about my sadness without her. She called me later and I don’t know if she’s just wants to comfort or talk to me. At the end of the day all I want to do and wanted to was just to make her happy and I think me trying to make her happy kind of end our relationship. And I realize that making her happy means that we don’t have to be in a relationship. But how do I make her happy if I want to be in a relationship but it won’t make her happy. My titles off but don’t worry about it Submitted April 22, 2019 at 04:01AM I really like this girl and she’s just not any girl we dated for about 3 and a half months. We broke up 4 times but it wasn’t serious and now it is. She want...

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By this is mean what got your attention and interested in knowing more about them? Or do you only rely on pictures to get your interest? Any messages that were unique and memorable? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 01:56AM By this is mean what got your attention and interested in knowing more about them? Or do you only rely on pictures to get your interest? Any messages that were unique and memorable?

I’m a 23 year old female. I was recently using Bumble and I matched with a guy who is 29. He’s fairly well established in his career and he has his own house. He says at this point he’s looking for a relationship. I just recently had surgery so I haven’t been able to go out with him. We’ve been talking for two weeks and he’s so so patient. Next week, we have plans to do dinner. We text 24/7. I wake up to good morning texts, he checks in to ask me how my day is, If he is doing something, I know about it. We’ll talk about future plans of what we can do together.. one of his ideas is waking up early on a Saturday morning and going grocery shopping together. Just simple things. Today he sent me a picture of him and his entire family at their Easter dinner. Everything just seems too good to be true. I weirdly have found myself emotionally invested in this? How do I become emotionally invested in someone I haven’t quite met? Would you take this as he’s somewhat emotionally invested an...

He shared with me previously the closeness of his relationship with his older brother and the impact he had had on the person he was today, he also shared that he didn’t think his brother would live past this year due to health concerns. Today, he cancelled our plans letting me know his brother had been taken to the hospital because of issues with his heart murmur, a little while ago he texted me letting me know that he had passed away. Things have been going really well between us and I want to be a good friend at the very least but don’t want to come off as pushy. I can’t imagine the pain he must be feeling. What level of support is acceptable for the length of time we have been dating? Ive already offered my ear and condolences but I was thinking of dropping off some flowers and some ready made food, enough for the next couple days. Is that too much? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 02:11AM He shared with me previously the closeness of his relationship with his older brother an...

Apologies if this is the wrong sub or if this is rambly. I matched on Tinder with a beautiful girl who had a really interesting bio. After some nervous hesitation I finally messaged her, and to my surprise she fairly quickly messaged back with a thoughtful response. Since then, we have been talking back and forth for the past several weeks, but I am still having a hard time figuring her out. Our conversation patterns have changed a bit since we first matched, but here's what I notice at the moment. I will send her a message and she will usually respond very quickly (often within the minute I send it, although sometimes a couple hours later) and her response will be enthusiastic, but she will very rarely add any follow-up questions to continue the conversation. I will sometimes take literal days to come up with new responses and still, when I send it, she will chime back in with a thoughtful answer almost immediately, which makes me think she must at least have some interest in m...

I’ve seen a lady who’s 33 a couple of times over the past month. I’m 34. We seem to like each other and the dates were enjoyable. We have some similar interests in culture and education but also interests that are different. After I asked her for a third meetup because I thought the second went well, she said she thought I am a nice guy, but wanted to think about it for a bit. I let a week go by and reached out to her by text to see if she’d still be interested in meeting again. Her reply seemed to focus on “how we’d make life choices.” Here’s what she wrote in part: “What I believe I’m wondering about is if we have differing interests (not just something such as hobbies, but also life interests). I also think we might have different ways of making choices or pursuing life interests. What i really like most about you, as I said, is that you seem to genuinely be a very good person with good values. It’s just that I’m not sure that our lives would move together in the same direction. ...

So I met him thru bumble and we decided to meet up for dinner and a movie. It went ok, although it was a little awkward. The day after next, I invite him to come over and watch a movie. It went pretty good, not as awkward I think. He texts me, is all flirty and shit, invites me over to watch some movies and cuddles. Then the day we were supposed to hang out, like five hours before we are supposed to meet up, he cancels. We’ve been texting a little back and forth (except he now takes forever to respond) so now I’m wondering if he is even interested anymore? Should I ask? It’s just weird to me since he was all flirty before and he was the one who invited me for the third get together. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:04AM So I met him thru bumble and we decided to meet up for dinner and a movie. It went ok, although it was a little awkward. The day after next, I invite him to come over and watch a movie. It went pretty good, not as awkward I think. He texts me, is all flirty and shi...

hey, ive been dating this guy officially for a month (dating without labels for 3 months) and he's sweet when we re together and buys me gifts and has told his family about me But...he needs a lot of time alone, which i try to respect but is hard for me. he's happy seeing each other twice a week, he messages me online everyday but isn't a phone guy...idk i have lots of options (yes i said it), should i move on? quality time is really important to me, he says he takes time to let people in...shouldnt he be in the honeymoon stage? wanting to see me often. any input is appreciated. thanks. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:10AM hey, ive been dating this guy officially for a month (dating without labels for 3 months) and he's sweet when we re together and buys me gifts and has told his family about me But...he needs a lot of time alone, which i try to respect but is hard for me. he's happy seeing each other twice a week, he messages me online everyday but isn't ...

Beyond the obvious (make sure I’m fully over my relationship, and give myself time to grieve) what are the next steps? Do I download all of the apps? Is dating even the same animal it was six years ago? 29 F, for reference, and feeling like a lost puppy... halp me, Reddit. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:34AM Beyond the obvious (make sure I’m fully over my relationship, and give myself time to grieve) what are the next steps? Do I download all of the apps? Is dating even the same animal it was six years ago? 29 F, for reference, and feeling like a lost puppy... halp me, Reddit.

Tonight I texted my ex. I pretended like everything is all right and tried to joke and everything. It just is weird to have her being so distant towards me. It also just made me miss her. My question is how do I undo this? I am in a new relationship and I don't want an old flame harming my current relationship. How do I detach from this? I really like the person I'm with right now and do not want to ruin that. This brought up a lot of old emotions though. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:59AM Tonight I texted my ex. I pretended like everything is all right and tried to joke and everything. It just is weird to have her being so distant towards me. It also just made me miss her.My question is how do I undo this? I am in a new relationship and I don't want an old flame harming my current relationship. How do I detach from this? I really like the person I'm with right now and do not want to ruin that. This brought up a lot of old emotions though.

I met a guy about six months ago and we hit it off really well. It started off casual but led to us texting constantly and having what I felt was a real connection. We'd see each other at least every week and I made him such a big part of my life. Out of nowhere he stopped responding and it was just devastating to me. I've been ghosted before, but never after consistently seeing someone for this long. There was nothing out of the ordinary, and I've been going crazy reviewing texts with my friends trying to see where it went wrong. I don't know if there were any red flags that I missed or if he was seeing someone else, but I guess I'll never find out. Recently I've been trying to get back into dating and I'm finding it so hard not knowing if they're just going to disappear on me at any time. Has anyone else felt this way? I'm 23 already feeling jaded and ready to adopt some cats. Submitted April 22, 2019 at 04:01AM I met a guy about six month...

And then ghost them when they start falling for me? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 04:03AM And then ghost them when they start falling for me?

I really want to talk to him more, but he doesn’t seem interested and keeps the conversations and texts short or doesn’t reply back... When I talk to him, he avoids eye contact while with the other girls, he holds their gaze longer.,... Yes yes, I count the seconds cuz I’m crazy .... And what’s annoying is that I am always around him! Cuz we have similar classes and close last names in the alphabet. We’ve had A LOT of awkward moments, especially because of me who tries to find a reason to text and talk him (like replying to his story or asking him if he is coming to sport practice cuz the teacher told me to contact everyone blah blah blah) I’m “known” for being too nice and motherly and protective and I’m starting to think that maybe he sees me like that, and doesn’t want to be around me. He laughs with other girls but seems nervous around me....like a “ahhhh awkward. Idk what to do. Just look forward” I just feel like I am obsessing too much over this dude.... I keep on looking at ...

So after hanging out a few times and flirting a bunch we finally set a date. We’re both pretty busy so it’s a Monday night date. I haven’t told her what we’re doing yet, but there is a spot we drove past that she said she’s been wanting to check out. It’s a wine bar and Italian restaurant, not crazy expensive but probably 2 or 3 dollar signs on yelp (lol). My plan, because she still can’t drink in the US, was to buy a couple of those miniature bottles of wine and have a drink before we go in? Not to get drunk but to relax a bit before the night starts. Then have dinner, hope she’s a little surprised and enjoys the place. Then after dinner I was thinking of taking her to a movie. This is mainly because it is going to be a Monday night, we won’t have too many options. I guess what I’m asking is do you think the dinner is a good choice, and what might you do instead of being cliche and going to a movie after? TL;DR! Surprising her with an Italian wine bar she’s been wanting to go to, mi...

I’ve always had insecurities like any other girl. It usually has something to do with me thinking I’m too fat or just plain. (Which I am and I’m okay with that) But I have been told that I am pretty and have a great smile. Lately though? I feel stuck, I’ve never been in a real serious relationship before. I started college off pretty late and at 24 I feel like I’m in school with a bunch of babies, who don’t know what they want in life. So my main focus has just seen school nothing more. I just feel like being so inexperienced will scare guys away and make them ghost me! What should I do? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 04:47AM I’ve always had insecurities like any other girl. It usually has something to do with me thinking I’m too fat or just plain. (Which I am and I’m okay with that) But I have been told that I am pretty and have a great smile. Lately though? I feel stuck, I’ve never been in a real serious relationship before. I started college off pretty late and at 24 I feel like...

Here’s a question for the ages: My partner and I have been together, and living together, for several years. Recently, a good friend of mine moved in. We’re both glad friend is living with us overall. However, sometimes we would like to get intimate, but we’re not sure when roommate/friend is going to come home. And frankly there are few things worse than being in the middle of intimacy when a roommate unexpectedly enters the house. And its a small house. What are some ways we can communicate with our roommate any of the following in a manner that will be positively received: “Hello roommate, we want to get intimate, when are you coming home from work?” “Roommate, we want to get intimate. When are you leaving today?” “Dearest roommate, when want to get intimate, will you please leave?” Submitted April 22, 2019 at 05:35AM Here’s a question for the ages:My partner and I have been together, and living together, for several years. Recently, a good friend of mine moved in. We’re bo...

So I've been seeing this girl for the past 2-3 months in what has been a very weird situation. We're not a couple. Were both working on our lives. Her, far far more than me. I'm ready for a relationship, she's not. I thought I was ok with this for over a month while we continued to see eachother and that I could wait for her and help eachother get over our problems. I genuinely believed this at the time. Now I'm not so sure. She's become distant the past three weeks. I know for a fact part of its work. Part of it was me being sick. Part of it's her feeling bad and needing time with friends. Now though, she barely texts me back, doesn't call, doesn't bother telling me what's happening until it's happening. We had a date set for next weekend and one she wanted to setup for may 3ed.... she already told me she forgot about the latter one and she has no idea if she can even do anything that weekend due to conflicting schedules. I'm not happ...

I’m a college sophomore (20yo) measuring 6’1” 150lbs. I’m pretty fit and decent looking for what that matters. I don’t drink and find it very hard to meet girls my age and often times fantasize about being with an older, more mature woman (30-40yo). Are there women out there who also dream of being with a college guy? I know this is often common in TV and porn but I always expect women of that age to be looking for something much more serious and not a casual relationship and also don’t have the time to mess around. Is this something that we both fantasize about but do not have a common place to connect with one another?How do I attack this situation if at all? Submitted April 22, 2019 at 05:51AM I’m a college sophomore (20yo) measuring 6’1” 150lbs. I’m pretty fit and decent looking for what that matters. I don’t drink and find it very hard to meet girls my age and often times fantasize about being with an older, more mature woman (30-40yo). Are there women out there who also dr...

My girlfriend of nearly 4 years dumped me 9 days ago. It's been really hard for me. I'm 26 and she's the only girl I've slept with and loved. The thought of never finding any one has been running through my head. I lack confidence in my ability to attract women. Last night I went out for my cousins birthday and got pretty wasted. She had a pretty cute friend over and I kind of picked up a vibe from her. I suck at flirting but I could tell she was interested. I was thibking she would end up staying the night and I would sleep with her. I found out she has a 2 year old at home and I saw she was calling an Uber. At that point I asked her for her number. I could tell today when she was texting me that she is really interested so I asked her if she wants to go out and we settled on next weekend. I feel a little better about my breakup now but at the same time I'm not sure what I'm expecting. I don't think I'm fully over my ex or I'm not ready to love s...

I’m pretty content with my new relationship, despite we’ve only been dating for 7 weeks. I never had a relationship before, but I know this is what I want. We text each other anytime we want and anything we want, we both know we’d get back to each other as long as being available atm. So I don’t have anxiety when he doesn’t reply immediately, and I also don’t feel pressured to reply to his message right away either. We just have amazing texting chemistry since day one. We are ourselves when we’re together. I feel so comfortable when I’m with him, I don’t need to hide myself, I don’t need to pretend to be “perfect”. I shared silly stories with him and he shared his. We can just lie in bed and talk for hours. We’ve been consistent so far. He never showered me with gifts or attention in the first few weeks, nor did I. We progressed naturally, getting to know the other person day by day, doing more and more things together. We don’t include the other person in our future plans. I know...

So my boyfriend [20M] and I [22F] have been together for nearly 8 months. For the past couple of weeks, we’ve been arguing about the same thing nearly everyday. He practically moved into my apartment early into our relationship, so we were seeing each other nearly everyday. Anyway, a couple days ago after having the same argument for the hundredth time, he told me he thinks we need to go on a break. I told him I don’t believe in breaks (I always felt that breaks were just an excuse to find someone better and have me as a backup or an excuse to cheat thanks to Friends) so we should either break up or just try to fix our problems while staying together. He chose to break up instead. So we had been no contact the past couple of days until I needed a really big favor from him because a friend of mine backed out from helping me, plus he promised me weeks ago he’d help me. So today, he was super affectionate the whole time he was helping me out. He hugged me the second he saw me, kept call...

When did they assume this? And how were they to know what is and isn’t? They’re not omniscient. You could politely educate them without calling them transphobic. April 22, 2019 at 06:51AM

I am indeed feeling very valid right now. April 22, 2019 at 06:46AM

I think that's called being Venom. April 22, 2019 at 06:40AM

Super Entertaining Xylophones (SEX) is the sequel to Entertaining Xylophones, the classic NES title where your goal is to impress a panel of anthropomorphic xylophones through the medium of song. On release SEX was a critical and commercial failure, with commentators noting its “unfathomable directing decisions” and “uncomfortable imagery”. SEX has since acquired a cult following in the West and has appeared on multiple polls ranking it as one of the greatest video games of all time. April 22, 2019 at 06:32AM

Certainly something I've questioned myself about. So many pretty people out there who I'd love to hug and cuddle. April 22, 2019 at 06:31AM

Assumption that everything available to cis people is available to trans people April 22, 2019 at 06:30AM

How the hell are they being transphobic at all? They’re just trying to help April 22, 2019 at 06:26AM

Sex stands for Super, Entertaining Xylophones April 22, 2019 at 06:17AM

Naw me neither. Although, what's the thing called when you want to kidnap someone and absorb their life like a twisted doppelganger? April 22, 2019 at 06:12AM

It's been a while since I've seen this video. I've always liked it for how creepy it is and I agree that the main girl might be asexual. I certainly could see myself reacting that way anyway. I don't know if it's a metaphor for that intentionally, but art is more of what you make of it. April 22, 2019 at 06:08AM

A biological process that, with the invention of cloning, has been rendered obsolete April 22, 2019 at 06:03AM

Yes but only with dogs April 22, 2019 at 06:02AM

Dear god i thought my fellow aces were sane! April 22, 2019 at 06:02AM

Obviously not, but some of us like stuff like hugs or cuddling and then feel like we're somehow less ace for it because brains are dumb. April 22, 2019 at 06:01AM

Me: "I wish I had someone to cuddle with and be close to and do fun stuff with" My brain: "OPEN UP THIS IS THE ARO POLICE, WE'RE HERE TO REVOKE YOUR LICENSE" April 22, 2019 at 05:58AM

Heh, as a furry ace that makes me love it even more ;D April 22, 2019 at 05:52AM

Wait you have Bojack Horseman and/or Final Space legos. Oh it's just the sex oh I'll pass April 22, 2019 at 05:44AM

All u need is affection :3 April 22, 2019 at 05:38AM

Honestly, I’ve considered this myself. Even though my periods aren’t considered heavy, prolonged, or extremely painful, they’re annoying and I dislike having to hate the entire world once a month, and getting blood on my hand while using the bathroom is irritating. I’ve also considered getting my breasts removed because I have costochondritis that never went away after I caught some long lasting illnesses that caused me to feel like I was about to cough my lungs out. The added pressure of needing to wear a bra doesn’t help. Being young and a bit poor, though, I don’t see surgery for these things as an option. Insurance certainly wouldn’t cover it, especially considering they don’t want to cover things like physical therapy, psychiatry, or even hospital visits for my migraines. Operations such as these wouldn’t be covered mainly because they’re entirely optional. Even with my costochondritis, my insurance company would only ever consider covering it if we saw dozens of other specialist...

I'm in this photo and I don't like it. D': April 22, 2019 at 05:26AM

Im so sorry what happened to you at 15. That's sexual assault getting close to rape. Nobody should ever have to go through that and its disgusting that someone could do that to you, and "your fault/you're a freak" is just hideous. I hope so much that you're ok now and your new boyfriend sounds like a great guy.... You deserve the best relationship in the world after what happened to you... I hope you never have to deal with that level of evil again... I wish nobody had to.... I hope i can find someone like you describe your current guy :) April 22, 2019 at 05:21AM