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/u/dudderson on I thought some of you would appreciate this.

Glow-in-the-dark nail polish is also really cool for this January 29, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/NickNockOnTheClock on I am a subway kinda guy tho

I think their both not amazing. January 29, 2021 at 12:01AM

/u/-_Megumin_- on It took me a long time to understand ...

Sexual attraction is when you look at someone and want to fuck them. Aesthetic attraction is when you look at someone and think they're hot but still don't want to fuck them. January 28, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/iLissuin on My boyfriend told me he no longer thinks he’s aspec

I agree. Intimacy in a relationship is really based on trust and understanding. See if you guys can effectively communicate about both of your expectations and what you are/are not comfortable with (this should include humor; if somebody consistently tells “jokes” that make you uncomfortable, then they are not funny and are not okay). If you guys can work something out, great! If not, it’s only been three months and this can serve as a great learning experience for the future. I know from experience that some people can make it work. My bf is allosexual, and while I’m a Demi and grey-asexual as opposed to sex-repulsed, he is very understanding and patient with me when I just have zero interest (which can sometimes last months). January 28, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/LuciBaby1 on What does an ace character "look" like?

a lot of aspec characters tend to be p much purely repulsed asexuals, if not, it's very vague as to their "aceness" especially those that havent been confirmed January 28, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/Seschwanbam on Found this.

We'd get crushed January 28, 2021 at 11:51PM

/u/Thornescape on Is there a word for wanting to feel sexual attraction but not feeling it?

I think it's just exactly what you said. Some people wish that they weren't asexual. I don't think that it has its own place on the spectrum, because it's simply kind of wishing that you felt something that you don't. January 28, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/AmarokTheIceWing on This is the Way: I made a couple of Mando-themed phone backgrounds for you all, feel free to use them!

I've never watched the Mandolorian but I just like the design so thanks January 28, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Lopsided_Ad9218 on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

Yes I know women have more freedom and that's great, I am really happy that that's the case. I thought of this idea, but it's more complicated than you think : you have to introduce the parents and have both parties approve and everything. When the environment of this family gets too toxic, as I said my family are kinda protective/inposing, I get thoughts of paying someone to pretend to marry me, but that's too complicated too. Also, I know I may just go or runaway, but i feel like I am going to disappoint them and if they just think I got married, this is going to be easier and they'll leave me alone. But I really wanted to find a real person to love, but as I can imagine you can't have everything, but i wrote this post in hope to find someone here. January 28, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/MtCleverist on I thought some of you would appreciate this.

I kinda have always wanted to put those glow in the dark stars on my ceiling :-) January 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/No_Mood_4662 on Is there a word for wanting to feel sexual attraction but not feeling it?

I really hope this helps: http://blog.asexual-aces.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/2017-28-10-18-48-23.jpeg January 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/Lopsided_Ad9218 on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

Ok, thank you so much ! January 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/saggitaluminis on Found this on r/196 and thought it was funny

what do you mean premarital sex is real i thought it was a joke January 28, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/maxvandenburg on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

Ahhh okay. Well if you're happy. I suggest trying FB. There's lots of ace groups and you should be able to find someone. Discord has many as well. January 28, 2021 at 11:33PM

/u/No_Mood_4662 on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

If you don't want to be Muslim then that's okay. This is a new world where you choose your religion instead of having it forced upon you. A new world where women can go wherever they want and do whatever they like. You don't have to become a mother or a wife if you don't want to. If you want to be a Muslim then I accept that too. Maybe try finding someone Asexual by setting up an ace club in your school/university and marry someone regardless of religion and pretend they are Muslim maybe. January 28, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/Peinzensmoede on 💜🖤💚

Thanks🖤🖤✨✨ January 28, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/ultimatelynotme on Is this aegosexuality?

If watching porn and looking at nudes still turns you on, that is aegosexuality imo. January 28, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/Lopsided_Ad9218 on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

I know what you mean, but I truly believe in my religion and I do not intend to give it up, I am not forced to be muslim. Unfortunately, my religion don't allow me to get married with a non-muslim, otherwise I would've had more options and I wouldn't struggle that much :(( January 28, 2021 at 11:31PM

/u/Peinzensmoede on 💜🖤💚

Thank you so much🥰💖Same, but I had nothing to do so I just did it. You should do it too!! It tooks 10 minutes or so. January 28, 2021 at 11:31PM

/u/Sumnersetting on My boyfriend told me he no longer thinks he’s aspec

3 months, to me, is still early days where you're still just having fun and seeing where things could go, so I wouldn't be too worried about taking a step back, or several, or running in the opposite direction. But really, talk to him about your worries that he'll want sex and/or intimacy that you know you don't feel comfortable with. And if he makes more sexual comments, show your true feelings, by saying "I don't get it, how is that funny?" or "That makes me uncomfortable", rather than brushing it off as a joke or letting it go. It sounds like he's pushing boundaries to see what he can get away with and to make you more comfortable with sex. January 28, 2021 at 11:29PM

/u/maxvandenburg on Muslim asexual looking for a partner.

Do you have to be muslim? Religion is a choice. January 28, 2021 at 11:28PM

/u/EleventyTwo-- on A little drawn of me, and the importants things about me (ace flag, fox for my bipolarity, and roses for endometriosis) I'm so proud of this ;-;

That's a nice fursona January 28, 2021 at 11:26PM

/u/SensitiveOrange89 on I'm making a series of pride themed playing cards, here's the first one!

That's really amazing! January 28, 2021 at 11:23PM