Damn, glad I opened the comments. Re the karma, people will farm it and sell the accounts sometimes. June 15, 2021 at 12:02AM

Saiki K actually. June 15, 2021 at 12:00AM

Thank you very much!! June 14, 2021 at 11:59PM

Woah, this is your fiance? I glossed right over that part. It would certainly be worse to put in all of the financial strain of marriage just to divorce. Also, I am so sorry to hear that your experience with people who are supposed to be mental health professionals was so invalidating. It sounds clear that they really are not up to speed with asexuality. Same with the other people in your life--people can try to "fix" when they don't really understand. Sex is not a need for a relationship. Your mental health might intersect, but being ace would stand regardless of your mental wellness. Your partner should never want to do something with you that you have told them makes you feel sick to even think about. I would never, ever ask that of my partner, and you should not be expected to put up with that, let alone every other day. You seem like you're trying to appease him, not consenting because you want to. That is a horrible, horrible way to live. From your other

Ace Ventura was a piece of shit June 14, 2021 at 11:54PM

Our flag is so beautiful 💜🤍🖤 Happy Pride to you too!! June 14, 2021 at 11:49PM

fun fact - salting pasta is a thing because it raises the boiling point of water which allows you to keep it hotter and thus cooks the pasta significantly faster. Other than this, there is no real benefit to salting your pasta water (aside of some mild salting to the pasta itself as a side effect, as far as im aware). June 14, 2021 at 11:48PM

Tysm for the support! I hope you have a happy pride month, too! June 14, 2021 at 11:46PM

Thank you! June 14, 2021 at 11:42PM

Thank you! I use epoxy resin to make them. June 14, 2021 at 11:42PM

(From my understanding) - they are not under the same umbrella - aros not wanting romantic relationships June 14, 2021 at 11:40PM

Thanks I’ll def check those books out. Her telling me honestly made me feel kinda relieved because it finally explains why hat she was going through and it wasn’t something I had done. I just want to support her the best I ca. June 14, 2021 at 11:39PM

aaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGDHS June 14, 2021 at 11:39PM

Nope. Honestly I really don't want to experience all those feelings. I have more time and focus for better things in my life like being a part of this amazing community June 14, 2021 at 11:37PM

I've always found sex ed classes fascinating, and it was really weird seeing my friends laughing, joking and being all embarassed. My ace ass was like "what's so funny about reproduction??" June 14, 2021 at 11:37PM

I admire people. Like I think some men are really handsome and some girls are really beautiful. Yet its just like the admiration I would have for a painting or a cake. I frequently say ooh that cake is super pretty and I don't want to have sex with it. Just because I think the same sex as I am is good looking does not mean I'm bi or gay. Here is how I understand it. In order to be an aros you need to NOT desire romance. You can still theoretically be in a romantic relationship and be an aros. In order to be an ace you need to not (always) desire sex. Here is where the ultimate question comes. Do you want to be together naked with someone or do you want sex. (That was really blunt so sorry if that seems rude.) June 14, 2021 at 11:36PM

Can I get one? /hj June 14, 2021 at 11:35PM

God I wanna write this June 14, 2021 at 11:35PM

Asensual here, building Legos is the only good thing in that list. June 14, 2021 at 11:34PM

Pockets! June 14, 2021 at 11:33PM

They look amazing! June 14, 2021 at 11:32PM

I love how Asexual was the first option and Heterosexual is the fourth option😂 June 14, 2021 at 11:30PM

I think it would be easier and more fun to meet possible dates in a group setting too. Perhaps it could include an option to play online games with other Aros and Aces like Skribbl.io or Jackbox games. That way people can make friends and see who they might be comfortable being with. June 14, 2021 at 11:30PM