My confusion is here. your gender identity, can make a difference in how you choose to express your sexuality. If you are Non-Binary, meaning that you possible don't identify with a gender then regardless of what gender you like you wouldn't have a label to put on your sexuality, unless you chose one. This isn't true for all non binary people of course but for some it is. In the comments I read when I asked this question, there were people who said things like I am non binary but I consider myself a lesbian... They chose that label for their sexuality. Sexualities tend to have labels like women who date women are lesbians but if a Non-Binary who identifies with Neither gender dates a woman then what? Why wouldn't they get to choose their sexual orientation. Or would you like me to assume what they are? They don't get to choose who they are attracted to, but they do get to choose how they label it seeing as how no one would know how to define their sexuality but the...

sex positive and indifferent June 15, 2022 at 01:37AM

No worries, we all make mistakes. Most labels are pretty flexible, and I shouldn't have jumped to the conclusion of "it's only this definition and no others", because I only know so much about specific labels. Again, I'm really sorry for invalidating you! June 15, 2022 at 01:37AM

Title is self explanatory. All that bs about personality, compatibility, nature is gonna amount to shit if you aren't at least one of the above. And this isn't just for short term dating. Submitted June 15, 2022 at 01:13AM Title is self explanatory. All that bs about personality, compatibility, nature is gonna amount to shit if you aren't at least one of the above. And this isn't just for short term dating.

Lmao you're good! It's late here too, hope you sleep well! June 15, 2022 at 12:42AM

This was back in January. he asked me out both times (we are both between our late20s/ early 30s). First was a coffee date, second was a brunch date. At the end of the brunch date, we chatted and we were saying that next time we should do XYZ/hang out next week! etc, and then after the date, we texted a bit about random stuff.. and then no one texted again. Not sure what happened there... but I will be doing some work in his dept this summer, for a couple of weeks, in which the chance of running into him is high. He seems like a nice person, wondering if it's ok to just randomly text and say hey, how are you? ... or is that weird? He is on the introverted, quiet side... sort of awkward, works in science. Im more outgoing Submitted June 15, 2022 at 12:14AM This was back in January. he asked me out both times (we are both between our late20s/ early 30s). First was a coffee date, second was a brunch date.At the end of the brunch date, we chatted and we were saying that nex...