So I was thinking the other day how make up sex has probably been some of the best sex of my life. However, I DO NOT want to go back to what caused the make up sex just for the rush. So I wondered how do you get that energy without the fight? I guess my closest thing that I can think of is when we go on vacation. When I am not in my element and away from everything, everyone and no stress it's like I'm a new person. I so look forward to it because I know that we will A LOT of really great sex. For example, I'm usually more flexible, I dress a bit sexier and I drink way more alcohol than I usually do. LOL. One time we were going to dinner and I have this jacket that I wear a tank top under. My hubby asked me to skip the tank and just wear the jacket. So I did. The jacket was zipped a bit at the bottom but unzipped down to my navel. This is the way he wanted and waaaaaayyyyy sexier than I would ever dress but I went with it because why not? I didn't know anyone there. He...

My wife and I are in our mid 30s with a 2.5 year old. I am a shift worker (meaning I work days and nights alternating) and she is a stay at home mom. Tonight, as I was laying down with her to help her sleep and I would stay up doing laundry and cleaning, she got upset that it has been exactly 1 week since we last had sex and this is unacceptable. 1 week is our average but sometimes up to 2 weeks. I'm on nights now so it just makes it a bit more difficult. She suddenly thinks I'm talking to someone else while I'm on nights just cause we haven't had sex in a week. What can I do? Submitted July 07, 2021 at 01:23AM My wife and I are in our mid 30s with a 2.5 year old. I am a shift worker (meaning I work days and nights alternating) and she is a stay at home mom. Tonight, as I was laying down with her to help her sleep and I would stay up doing laundry and cleaning, she got upset that it has been exactly 1 week since we last had sex and this is unacceptable. 1 week is...

Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3/4.25 inches in girth Obviously girth matters more to women so yeah i have a small penis Submitted July 07, 2021 at 01:25AM Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3/4.25 inches in girthObviously girth matters more to women so yeah i have a small penis

I mean I don't have much in the way of personal experience, as I'm in a polyamorous relationship with just ace people, but honestly the best advice I can give is that the two of you know each other and yourselves best. If she's comfortable with certain sexual things and you're satisfied with it, that's enough. Otherwise, you'll need to talk with one another to figure out exactly what your needs and boundaries are. Other people will probably have better advice then me because they may have addressed this problem themselves. Regardless, I hope you guys can figure something out, and remember that communication is always key. July 06, 2021 at 11:56PM

No, you were smart July 06, 2021 at 11:38PM

I mean, "demi" litterally means half, and there's basically two halves to being asexual. I think maybe there is a more specific term for what you're describing, but technically speaking, that is also "half" asexual. Just the other half that isn't normally associated with being demi... lol It's probably like how, pansexual people (like myself) are technically bisexual, but pansexual is a more specific, and thus better word to describe how we feel. July 06, 2021 at 11:35PM

Thank you so much!! July 06, 2021 at 11:30PM

If you're both polyamorous, you can ask to have an open relationship. During a conversation I brought up what I found other people in similar relationships do to make things work and open relationship was on that list. She didn't even acknowledge it so I get the feeling she ain't down with it. I'm really scratching my brain as to what other things we could try outside of oral sex and hand stuff to help meet my needs, I might just not be creative enough and need to think outside the box more. If you have any suggestions of things we could try that would be great. I'm not really worried about it being unorthodox July 06, 2021 at 11:27PM

This is true but we go to take out as many as possible! July 06, 2021 at 11:26PM

as everyone's saying, i think you're demiromantic asexual! and this is the perfect place to be, welcome! July 06, 2021 at 11:22PM

What about Luxembourg tho they aren't even close to a million, and they don't even have a military 😂😂 July 06, 2021 at 11:20PM

It's a question that there's no simple answer to, and ultimately, just like anything in a relationship, you'll have to communicate with one another and figure out a way. Not all asexual people are sex-averse, she may be among them. If you're both polyamorous, you can ask to have an open relationship. Otherwise, you'll have to figure something out among yourselves. Communication and willingness for both parties to accommodate the needs of the others are always key in a relationship, and this is no exception. July 06, 2021 at 11:20PM

I liked r/strugglefucking but it’s disappeared. If it’s private now can anyone help me get in? I’d also like to find similar subreddits in the meantime Submitted July 06, 2021 at 11:48PM I liked r/strugglefucking but it’s disappeared. If it’s private now can anyone help me get in? I’d also like to find similar subreddits in the meantime

You always hear the benefits of cialis over viagra. Are there any benefits that viagra has over cialis? Submitted July 06, 2021 at 11:54PM You always hear the benefits of cialis over viagra. Are there any benefits that viagra has over cialis?

My gf (25) has a hard time cuming from me (28M) finger her clit. She has no issues on herself but when it’s me it’s different. Lately the struggle had been right when she starts getting really close she basically says her clit gets way too sensitive and she can no long continue. She can’t even orgasm from touching herself after this happens. It’s like some limit has been breeches from which there’s no return. Any other girls experience this? How have you or your partner been able overcome it? TL;DR: GF’s clit gets too sensitive to enjoy any pleasure when close to orgasming when I finger her. Submitted July 06, 2021 at 11:59PM My gf (25) has a hard time cuming from me (28M) finger her clit. She has no issues on herself but when it’s me it’s different. Lately the struggle had been right when she starts getting really close she basically says her clit gets way too sensitive and she can no long continue. She can’t even orgasm from touching herself after this happens. It’s like som...

i will try my best to not make this so long. 2 nights ago i was sexting this girl laying down. i was wearing slimmer chino pants with zipper up and button closed. my dick was sorta for some reason like a hook at flacid i should have just pushed it down :( i’m what they call a “ grower “ so it’s pretty small at flaccid but it’s 7 when it’s fully erect. i can get hard in like a second so basically it was growing n there was no where for it to go and the zipped pants was pushing it down and instead of undoing my button i try to just put my hand in my pants to push it down the side of my leg but idk man it didn’t work because the pants were tight and my dick was in a position of a hook and idk it just hurt somewhat. i truthfully can’t tell if it hurts or it’s just extremely sore i still jacked off a few minutes later and it felt like any other session. i pee just fine wit no blood. i get hard with no problems and there doesn’t seem to be any swelling, redness or anything different about m...

Trying to get into self pleasuring and am not sure which one might be best. Ladies( or gentlemen) please help! Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:05AM Trying to get into self pleasuring and am not sure which one might be best. Ladies( or gentlemen) please help!

When I'm getting a blowjob or anything that focuses on the tip of the penis, my stomach becomes very tense and I feel like I need to piss, which makes me need to stop the activity cos I get scared I'm gonna piss haha. Not only does my stomach waist feel pain when my tips played with, so does my bellend it's self. I can't finish to blowjob it hurts too much. Is there a problem here? Or is this normal? Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:05AM When I'm getting a blowjob or anything that focuses on the tip of the penis, my stomach becomes very tense and I feel like I need to piss, which makes me need to stop the activity cos I get scared I'm gonna piss haha.Not only does my stomach waist feel pain when my tips played with, so does my bellend it's self.I can't finish to blowjob it hurts too much.Is there a problem here? Or is this normal?

I (19F) have recently been finding myself feeling like I haven’t had a release even though i orgasm clitorally. I have never squirted but I do feel like I have to pee whenever i masturbate and I think that’s the release I need. That or a g spot orgasm which I have never achieved by myself or with a partner. How do I release all of this buildup and either squirt or have a g spot orgasm? Please no weird comments. I actually want advice. Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:18AM I (19F) have recently been finding myself feeling like I haven’t had a release even though i orgasm clitorally. I have never squirted but I do feel like I have to pee whenever i masturbate and I think that’s the release I need. That or a g spot orgasm which I have never achieved by myself or with a partner. How do I release all of this buildup and either squirt or have a g spot orgasm? Please no weird comments. I actually want advice.

Hi everyone, I have been hooking up with this guy for about 6 months now and the sex is absolutely horrible. It is so freakin boring. He makes me ride him most of the time and barely gets on top. I get little to no pleasure out of it either. I go down on him every single time but he refuses to finger or eat me out. It’s so weird! He seems to be so selfish in bed. He tells me I gave him the best sex he has ever had but I CANNOT say the same about him. It is seriously so boring and I told him that - I don’t really think he cares because it’s always the same and nothing ever changes.. any ideas of what to do? Not sure if he is just selfish in bed or is insecure.. I think he could have potential but this kid has a LONG way to go.. He claims to have a lot of experience with past woman but I find this extremely hard to believe as he won’t even finger me. Anyone have any ideas? I don’t know if I can stay with him any longer if things don’t turn around. Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:21AM ...

I was in a situation where I ran in without thinking about the consequences because the girl I liked was gonna get with another guy and I keep replaying the situation every time I get horny or try to date Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:25AM I was in a situation where I ran in without thinking about the consequences because the girl I liked was gonna get with another guy and I keep replaying the situation every time I get horny or try to date

Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3 (thickest) and 4.2 (the thinest area) inches in girth. Will women actually be satisfied with my size? Submitted July 07, 2021 at 12:28AM Im 6.5 inches long and 4.3 (thickest) and 4.2 (the thinest area) inches in girth.Will women actually be satisfied with my size?