Make up sex without the fight??

So I was thinking the other day how make up sex has probably been some of the best sex of my life. However, I DO NOT want to go back to what caused the make up sex just for the rush. So I wondered how do you get that energy without the fight? I guess my closest thing that I can think of is when we go on vacation. When I am not in my element and away from everything, everyone and no stress it's like I'm a new person. I so look forward to it because I know that we will A LOT of really great sex. For example, I'm usually more flexible, I dress a bit sexier and I drink way more alcohol than I usually do. LOL. One time we were going to dinner and I have this jacket that I wear a tank top under. My hubby asked me to skip the tank and just wear the jacket. So I did. The jacket was zipped a bit at the bottom but unzipped down to my navel. This is the way he wanted and waaaaaayyyyy sexier than I would ever dress but I went with it because why not? I didn't know anyone there. He kept saying he could see my nipples through the jacket. I was so turned on by it and so was he that we could hardly wait to finish eating and get back to the room! So, I'm wondering what kinds of things have you done in your everyday life that realllllllyyyyy gets your motor running.



Submitted July 07, 2021 at 01:17AM

So I was thinking the other day how make up sex has probably been some of the best sex of my life. However, I DO NOT want to go back to what caused the make up sex just for the rush. So I wondered how do you get that energy without the fight? I guess my closest thing that I can think of is when we go on vacation. When I am not in my element and away from everything, everyone and no stress it's like I'm a new person. I so look forward to it because I know that we will A LOT of really great sex. For example, I'm usually more flexible, I dress a bit sexier and I drink way more alcohol than I usually do. LOL. One time we were going to dinner and I have this jacket that I wear a tank top under. My hubby asked me to skip the tank and just wear the jacket. So I did. The jacket was zipped a bit at the bottom but unzipped down to my navel. This is the way he wanted and waaaaaayyyyy sexier than I would ever dress but I went with it because why not? I didn't know anyone there. He kept saying he could see my nipples through the jacket. I was so turned on by it and so was he that we could hardly wait to finish eating and get back to the room! So, I'm wondering what kinds of things have you done in your everyday life that realllllllyyyyy gets your motor running.
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