I send you virtual hugs as well January 09, 2023 at 01:40AM

Yeah I did lol. January 09, 2023 at 01:40AM

I've been thinking, and the more I date, the less likely I can build a long lasting relationship. If I only had 1 girlfriend before, I'm more likely to forgive or to have more empathy towards certain behaviours (give the benefit of the doubt, have the more positive assumptions towards someone when they do something)... But now that I've dated a couple people, I always assume the worst, and it's mostly not even consciously, because I recall some things that happened in previous relationship and I think ''red flag''. I've spoken with some friends and acquaintance about this and they told me ''That just mean you know what you want now'', but I don't see it that way. Maybe the person I don't give the benefit of the doubt to didn't actually have bad intentions, maybe she just didn't know any better ... But because I've already ''sucked it up'' for someone else I'm not willing to do it anymore and ...

Oh I'm right there with you. I was always that guy in religion class, constantly debating with my teacher about the topics brought up. Though my teacher was cool & encouraged it, but every other student was sick of my shit 😂 January 09, 2023 at 12:42AM

So, I was introduced to a girl about 2 months back through a mutual friend of ours. When we met I told her I was currently studying and that I was 24. I lied, and in reality I am 25. I lied because I feel insecure with the fact that all most of my friends have graduated, and I am still here trying to finish my studies. At first I was not expecting to develop feelings for her, but over time and as we talked, she started to grow on me. I had the courage to ask her on a date, and to my surprise, she said yes! We went out on the 16th of December, and it went really really well. We clicked and talked for hours, although I still was a bit unsure whether it would actually work out once the date ended. Well, soon after the date was over she messaged me and we agreed to go out on a second date on the 6th of January (2 days ago). The date went extremely well once again, and it was at this point that I realized that this girl is actually into me, that there is chemistry, and there was a real p...

We dated on Saturday, I thought it went well. Was going to ask her on a 2nd date but I realised she updated her dating profile with a new picture. Now I'm not so sure. Submitted January 09, 2023 at 12:13AM We dated on Saturday, I thought it went well. Was going to ask her on a 2nd date but I realised she updated her dating profile with a new picture. Now I'm not so sure.