have fun hehe January 20, 2021 at 12:05AM

thanks <3 January 20, 2021 at 12:04AM

Well, the obvious suggestion is that she should go to therapy. Though it feels disingenuous for me to suggest this as someone who personally refuses to go to therapy lol. The other suggestion would be to make sure you are validating her in other ways. Like, "I really love spending time with you" or "You are a great girlfriend because..." January 20, 2021 at 12:04AM

I have bony skinny hands. Hitting my knuckle is the worst! January 20, 2021 at 12:02AM

This may be weird but you have nice hands January 20, 2021 at 12:01AM

I have never made a big deal out of my own asexuality, either. Nobody's ever given me a hard time for being ace and seeing sex in media doesn't bother me. I've had the same feeling: why is it such a big deal for some people? Reading about other ace people's experiences - a lot of which are covered by the rest of the comments here - has shown me that being ace isn't as easy and straightforward for some folks. January 20, 2021 at 12:01AM

Thanks for the heads up, I do not mind that very much, and I also always take my rings of while taking a shower :) January 20, 2021 at 12:00AM

You're adorable and i love the hair color January 20, 2021 at 12:00AM

Got it from amazon. Just search black ring January 19, 2021 at 11:59PM

Aww man that pastel purple looks amazing in your hair! Your tattoos look cool to January 19, 2021 at 11:58PM

Thank you so much! I didn’t like a lot of black rings I would find made of dyed titanium, plastic, or tinted silver, and there weren’t a lot of neutral but simple and unique designs to chose from. Be cautious if you are someone that doesn’t like the metallic smell, it gets pretty strong if you get the ring wet! January 19, 2021 at 11:56PM

I dig nail polish on dudes. Very nice work. May I ask where you got the ring? I like that style. January 19, 2021 at 11:56PM

Cute!!! January 19, 2021 at 11:56PM

Why can't I tick all of them :( January 19, 2021 at 11:51PM

Wtf... I'm so sorry this happened to you, that is an awful person. January 19, 2021 at 11:50PM

That's the thing that surprised me the most about the LGBTQ+ community. Oddly humanizing in a sense tough. January 19, 2021 at 11:50PM

No idea about any of that, I’m not bi. January 19, 2021 at 11:47PM

Nice descendants shirt. Milo would be proud! January 19, 2021 at 11:44PM

That sounds too close to all the people that would say bi people didn't belong if they weren't in a homo relationship. January 19, 2021 at 11:44PM

There are exclusionist in every group, and people get excluded from every group in the LGBT community. The people doing the excluding are in the minority from my experience, but hateful people like to be loud. Some people will try to gatekeep in each community, and media/society has had a role in promoting those voices, even those the majority of members from each group do not support the gatekeeping. January 19, 2021 at 11:42PM

Thanks, I was unsure what kind of ring I should get and this one would be very nice for me. It looks amazing on you! January 19, 2021 at 11:41PM

It’s from an Etsy store called Lufolk, here’s the link: https://etsy.me/36hkD0T There are a bunch of options if you look up rings made from iron if their designs aren’t exactly what you want! January 19, 2021 at 11:39PM

"Blah blah blah, no boyfriend blah blah blah" "Eh, I don't need that to be happy. I've actually discovered that I'm asexual which means I don't feel sexual attraction. I do feel aesthetic/sensual/platonic/romantic attraction and enjoy close friendships, but I do not need or want any sexual contact. This isn't a well known or well represented sexuality, so I understand if you have questions." January 19, 2021 at 11:38PM