My boyfriend(29) and I (23) have been having the most mind blowing sex lately and I feel like our bodies are finally synced up with each other after more than 3 years. We can finally cum at the same time after years of trying!! The past 3 times he’s made me cry from continuous orgasms (in a good way) and it’s really exciting. Does anyone else cum at the same time as their partner? What are your experiences? Submitted November 26, 2019 at 12:07AM My boyfriend(29) and I (23) have been having the most mind blowing sex lately and I feel like our bodies are finally synced up with each other after more than 3 years. We can finally cum at the same time after years of trying!! The past 3 times he’s made me cry from continuous orgasms (in a good way) and it’s really exciting. Does anyone else cum at the same time as their partner? What are your experiences?

I just got a trick shot with my ejaculation from across the room, landed right in her eye. i thought I would share that real quick. Submitted November 26, 2019 at 12:09AM I just got a trick shot with my ejaculation from across the room, landed right in her eye. i thought I would share that real quick.

I have an extremely high prescription and I wouldn't be able to see my partner's face at all without glasses. I want to keep them on at least for the early part so I can see him while we're having sex specially since this would be my first time ever. Unfortunately, my partner's vision is also terrible (though not quite as bad as mine) so he may want to keep his glasses on too. Would that complicate things? We're both very inexperienced and quite large so I doubt we're going to try anything crazy. Just a few standard positions that work with our size. Submitted November 26, 2019 at 12:09AM I have an extremely high prescription and I wouldn't be able to see my partner's face at all without glasses. I want to keep them on at least for the early part so I can see him while we're having sex specially since this would be my first time ever.Unfortunately, my partner's vision is also terrible (though not quite as bad as mine) so he may want to k

We had broken up amicably, with the possibility of taking some time to heal and potentially get back together, or so I thought. Out of no where she blocked me on most social media. I reached out through the only medium left unblocked, to try and connect and she asked me to not attempt communication anymore. So I complied, although I was super hurt. I've recently found out that she believes I cheated on her, but its not true, I never did. Not sure how to handle it. I want to defend myself, but I can't. How do I proceed? tl:dr - ive been dumped because my ex thought I cheated, but I didn't. She never told me why and now that I know its killing me. Submitted November 25, 2019 at 10:42PM We had broken up amicably, with the possibility of taking some time to heal and potentially get back together, or so I thought. Out of no where she blocked me on most social media. I reached out through the only medium left unblocked, to try and connect and she asked me to not attempt c

​ Hi all, not really sure if this is the right place to post or even what I wish to achieve from posting on here but I guess I need to get some stuff out and see if anyone else has ever felt the same. I am a 32 year old man who some four years ago experienced a fairly cutting break up at Christmas time. Myself and my ex where together for some 3 years. I could go into the particulars of why and how it ended but that would have to be a post in and of itself. Maybe I should. Needless to say, the split seemed a bit enforced from her end; I don't think she really wanted the relationship to end, but in the end felt she had no choice. I will be man enough to admit here, the split crushed me. She was my first proper GF. I loved her very much. I adored her. Perhaps that explains a lot. Life since she went away has been shit. Just total soul destroying shit. I have tried to break into a job and career and it totally failed. I have lost contact with my father (who disliked my Ex). Law

TL;DR: when i met this girl, she told me that her friends are wild, that they dress up slutty and find “daddy’s” to get free stuff, they pay for everything. Her friends get hammered every night and are completely wreckless. They have sex with anyone that pays attention to them. She’s not like that, she a really good girl, but i think the friends have a lot of influence over her. We dated for 6 months, things were great and she was happy. I remember one time her best friend called her on FaceTime while we were sleeping and this person didn’t even know her name, my gf asked if someone had drugged her. The friend was slurring and barely making any sense. The next morning, the best friend calls her again, she puts the girl on speaker and her friend is laughing about “holy fuck what a night, you should’ve come out”. And just like that, it became a common occurrence. Another time, that same best friend calls her to tell her about her date and how nice the guy was but she didn’t know if

My friends and I have all been super close the last few years, with none of us gavjng serious relationships. I have never had a serious boyfriend. However, two of my closest friends recently have gotten boyfriends. I moved two hours awaysince then So I haven’t been around them much. But I am worried that they are going into MIA boyfriend mode. For example, I planned a Friendsgiving and invited my one friend S. I planned this like a month ago and she had been saying she missed me and was excited for this dinner. However, the day of the event came and she ended up not coming because her bf came to town to visit and they wanted to watch a fight. I was pretty upset, I haven’t seen her in a month. She said she was sorry, but I never responded to her text. She doesn’t seem to care much cause she hasn’t reached back out since. We rarely talk since she got her new boyfriend. My one friend A also has similar habits. This was someone I called my best friend for years, but then she started da

We've been together for only 4 months now but have known each other for 6 years and got together while i was dealing with a very serious situation which is why i think we moved pretty quickly into being in a serious relationship and have talked pretty seriously about our future together. I felt so lucky, like i had it all figured out but the second half of our relationship has been so down hill... we talk on the phone sometimes and when we do its great but to get him on the phone is like a week long battle so we talk maybe once a week or every two weeks now and granted they are over an hour long conversation but still. We used to talk and text all the time and while i totally get the new relationship energy thing, i feel like it shouldn't have gone this far down hill. Last friday we didnt talk at all, not a single text and this isn't the first time that happened. i don't think im a clingy person but i feel like if you're in a long distance situation the least you

TL;DR Was very nervous on the first date, so I gave off the wrong vibes that I’m not interested, are my chances ruined? I (19F) went on my first date ever with a guy (21M) on Saturday. We had dinner, which was probably the first mistake because it’s not a very casual setting which made me very nervous. Basically because I was nervous, I didn’t talk very much and he was pretty much just asking me questions the whole time. He paid for both of us but I didn’t eat very much because I was nervous and I didn’t take the leftovers... and to top it all off, at the end he went in for a hug and I gave him the buddy pat on the back type of hug... not on purpose I don’t know why I did that. So I haven’t heard from him since then and I’m not surprised. Should I try to reach out this week to see if he wants to try to meet again or did I completely annihilate my chances? Submitted November 25, 2019 at 11:04PM TL;DR Was very nervous on the first date, so I gave off the wrong vibes that I’m not

My bf and I have been together only about ten months. It’s both of our first relationship. He’s 23 and I’m 21(female). We’ve had a great relationship with great chemistry, lots of fun, and a lot in common. This weekend I failed to trust him. It got us into an argument. I have a lot of stuff from childhood pent up and I took it out on him. It was unfair. It was wrong. I am so sorry for it. He never gave me any reason to believe I couldn’t trust him. Hurting him was the worst thing I’ve ever felt. Obviously we need to talk in person, we haven’t yet since he was out of town with his friends this weekend. I thought we were moving on but out of the blue today he said he wasn’t sure if we could get past it. He won’t be back in for another four hours. I’m not hounding his phone with texts but I think he could tell I was panicking. I don’t want to lose something I thought was so great. I really love this guy. I wasn’t hearing wedding bells or anything but I saw a good future. If he really

I’m white while my boyfriend is mexican (born here but his whole family is from mexico). My dad is racist and hates immigrants and any latino people and african americans. I’ve been with my bf for a year and when it came to introducing him to my family, I only introduced him to my mom and she absolutely loves him. My boyfriend is smart, a good person, and a really hars worker and I at least got my mom’s approval of him. His family is very accepting of me and they treat me real nice and I hate that I can’t do the same for my bf because of my dad. So, the holidays are coming up and I want my boyfriend to come over, but he says it isn’t a good idea since he doesn’t want to upset my dad. I also want to go with his family after being with mine for a little, but I still want other family members to meet him. What do you guys siggest that I do? Tldr: my dad is racist while my boyfriend is latino, how do I deal with tha and the holidays coming up? Submitted November 25, 2019 at 11:07PM

I made this throw away account for obvious reasons, but I write this with an extremely heavy heart. Some backstory if you want, or you can skip ahead to current events.... My father has always been my hero. He raised both me (27F) and my older sister (35F) as our Mom lost custody of us during their divorce (after 22 years of marriage) when I was ten. He is a very outgoing, friendly guy, and anyone who meets him likes him. He would give his shirt off his back to help a stranger out. My sister and I are very close with our father and visit him regularly; however, this year has been harder to visit with my sister having a baby and me starting college. After the divorce, he found a new girlfriend through a mutual friend, and they were together for 17 years until she broke up with him just after new years this year. He had given her $60,000 or more to renovate her house (they did not live together), and he gave her daughter $20,000 to go towards a down payment on a house. She promised t

Backstory: my sister and I are both newly married. My husband makes good money as a physical therapist but I only work part time and make minimal money. My sister is a teacher and her husband works as a chef at various part time jobs. They just bought a house, we are saving for a house but our current savings along with his debt and our budget just don’t support buying a house right now. My sister invited us to Thanksgiving and asked if we could make two dishes to bring, I am making roasted vegetables and stuffing. She plans on making a turkey mashed potatoes pumpkin pie cranberry sauce and green beans. Today I get a text if we are willing to split the cost of their grocery shopping for Thanksgiving because they have had a lot of costs recently with their move and life etc. “Hey so with our recent expenses would you guys mind paying for half of the thanksgiving groceries?” As I am not the primary person who brings money to the household being asked makes me uncomfortable anyway as

I [16F] just recently got into my first relationship with my now boyfriend [16M]. I come from a town where fast and intimate relationships are SO common at my age, even younger. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 weeks now, and honestly things are going great between us so far. HOWEVER, he’s already asked to do some more intimate stuff that I’m not used to at all, like touch my chest and bottom and make out (he’s never had a proper relationship before this, so I think he’s also trying to explore this to the fullest). I know he doesn’t mean ill-will towards me, especially since I brought up my concerns of us going to fast since we’ve already kissed and said our “I love you”s. I’m worried I might lose the actual feeling aspect of the relationship and end up accidentally using him just to say “Oh look at me, I have a boyfriend!” which he does not deserve. I’m also afraid of, since he’s asked to do such intimate stuff only two weeks into our relationship, that he might be

I am not a gifted writer, so please excuse grammatical errors and spelling mistakes. I have also changed some information for anonymity. I know this is a long post, so I thank anyone who will read this. I really need help. For some background information, I am a widow. My youngest son and husband died in an awful accident that I do not want to go into. It was four years ago. My oldest son used to be extremely extroverted and loved to be the centre of attention. After the accident, he has grown increasingly withdrawn and even expressed the fact that he wishes he had died instead. He started having panic attacks and was depressed to the point of suicide ideation. I helped him through this, and he and I grew closer. A year ago, he came out as gay and I grossly over-reacted. I said and did some very hurtful things and it put a lot of friction in our close relationship. We come from a very conservative area, and where I grew up was even more so. Around that time, he had a severely abusive

Talked to guy online. I’m 29f, he’s 34m and a police officer. We are planning on meeting up and I talked to him on the phone today for the first time which went well! He texted me asking me if I had any pets and asking me what my birthday is. Idk why he would ask me about my birthday. My starsign is in my profile. Thoughts? I am wondering why he is asking me for my birthday and whether there is anything weird about this question. He since messaged me back and said it’s because he was wondering my star sign TLDR guy online asked me for my birthday, and I am wondering why. Submitted November 25, 2019 at 11:35PM Talked to guy online. I’m 29f, he’s 34m and a police officer. We are planning on meeting up and I talked to him on the phone today for the first time which went well! He texted me asking me if I had any pets and asking me what my birthday is. Idk why he would ask me about my birthday. My starsign is in my profile. Thoughts? I am wondering why he is asking me for my birthd

I don't know where to start. I am so lost. Long, complicated story short: everything in my relationship is really, really good except that the one thing that isn't working is ruining us. My bf (33) has a small child with his ex girlfriend. He sees her every other weekend for a few hours. I am not allowed to join so says his ex. I have asked all these years to meet his daughter and have a relationship with her. I got to meet her once (a year ago). My bf has been telling me all this time that he's "planning on talking to an attorney" about figuring out a proper custody schedule. Longer story short, it turns out that he's basically just been telling me that to shut me up, I guess. Last night I brought it up for the 80th time and demanded that he tell me why he hasn't talked to an attorney yet and he basically said "I'm hoping that everything will just work itself out soon." By that he meant he hopes that his daughter (who is 5) will be able t

I recently gained 30 pounds due to having a baby and also a medical issue that caused weight gain. I'm on medication now and have already lost 5 pounds but that still means I'm 25 pounds overweight. Before the baby I was a size 2 so that's how my husband is used to seeing me. He was talking to his friend on the phone in our bedroom and I had the baby in the living room. I needed to change the baby so I had to walk past the bedroom to the nursery and that's when I heard him say he was disappointed that he has a fat wife now. Should I talk to him about this? I don't want him to think I was eavesdropping but he was talking loud enough that I could hear. Honestly I would love if he would watch the baby so I could go to the gym because I don't like being fat either. TLDR; husband said he doesn't want a fat wife but never said it to my face, is a discussion needed? Submitted November 25, 2019 at 11:47PM I recently gained 30 pounds due to having a baby an

My situation: I was supposed to graduate bachelor's in July but due to the fact I got a full-time, permanent job, I decided to delay my graduation and take only one class in the fall semester to complete my degree. On Nov/15, I got laid off from the full-time job so I'm penniless and would have to pick up a minimum wage job to pay for rent + food (Montreal). I had already booked a flight from Montreal to Vancouver to visit parents during December holidays but since I got laid off, I can just cancel the return ticket and remain in Vancouver, pick up a job, stay with parents, eat with parents, and save money, and look for other opportunities. My relationship: I met her in mid July, we're so in love and we're so compatible; she's a local Montrealer, and we both have planned a future together (potential marriage). However, she's a bit worried that I might go to another city and just decide to drop this relationship and start a new one. I've said some things

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and in the 3 years I've known her sister she has never overstepped any boundaries. However in the last couple of months she has been more sexual and flirtatious around me. She'll try to touch me in ways that I'm not comfortable with or in ways that you wouldn't do with platonic friends. Every time this happens I let my gf know immediately and I explicitly tell her sister that it's I'm not comfortable. I get that some people are naturally more touchy, but she is not one of those people. For refference, up until recently she has always been more reserved. Now she's more touchy with me and will try to descreatly flirt with me. She'll also dress differently around me. My gf has also noticed this only happens with me. My gf has spoken to her, but she continues to overstep boundaries. My question is how do I much should I be involved in this issue. I also don't want to hinder a relationship between two

Thank you Reddit for all your different perspectives. For those who responded and for those who are interested: Original Post I sealed the note and left it with his items. To lift my spirits, I baked my coworker 2 lemon meringue pies. A few months ago, I decided to make my manager one after he shared a story about his mother's amazing lemon meringue pie. So I'm happy I kept to my goal and tried a new recipe. My manager's excitement was extremely rewarding along with other coworker's joy. I came home sad after work to find all his items gone. However, personally, the note gave me a lot of closure. I'm glad I left it. He texted me and thanked me for the note. He said it meant a lot and he was so sorry to have caused me hurt. He added that he hopes we can still be friends. I suggested to him that if he wanted to, we can reconnect in the spring - as it hopefully will be enough time. He said he will keep in touch. I been watching TedX talks to keep a positive perspe

We were together for a year and a few months. In some ways, he seemed so invested in the relationship. He introduced me to his family and friends in his hometown after 2/3 months, we would have silly daydreams about what kind of dog we'd get, he told me he loved me all the time. But there was also a moment when we were facing long distance and he told me that even though he loved me he wanted to break up, rather than it happening while we were apart. He was so hesitant about meeting my parents even though I'd met his months before. Or even after he decided to try the long distance, and we somehow survived it, we started arguing when the distance ended. I was willing to change and work on myself and the problems but he wasn't. So even though our breakup was mutual, I was always the one saying 'we don't have to do this if we try'. But he wouldn't, so we broke up. In summary, I was always the one trying, not having emotional needs met. I felt like his therap

I want to preface this with the fact that we are committed and very happy together. She has never cheated and I don't think she will. We have extremely open communication. I have been not much of someone to fool around in my life. I've dated a bit, didn't really enjoy it in the past so I haven't been with many people. I tried tinder, went on dates but I never wanted to go on a second. It felt like it really wasn't worth the effort as I didn't feel attracted to the people around me. Then in my final year of university I met her in a society at school and we started dating. For the first time I could honestly say I'm very happy to be with someone and am content in life. Here's the thing, the first day we met, we were drunk at an event, and before we were together she was in a drunken stupor touting her ex's penis size and how great the sex was. It was a one time thing and it didn't bother me much, everyone has exes and some were better than othe