So I'm 19m, I've been kind of trying to date and whatnot for the past year or so, thing is I have very bad social anxiety so meeting people irl isn't super easy for me, meeting them on dating apps and then meeting up is a lot easier but almost everytime I've tried dating apps all I've gotten out of them are some hookups and a friend lol, not a lot of people seem to be really looking for much long term on them and I don't really like them much tbh anyways, but I have absolutely 0 clue how to meet people when I'm just out doing shit, I always feel way too awkward to approach people and I've never really gotten approached by anyway so it's a bit of a stalemate, also I don't drink for personal reasons so going to bars and stuff isn't really a thing either Submitted November 19, 2021 at 01:06AM So I'm 19m, I've been kind of trying to date and whatnot for the past year or so, thing is I have very bad social anxiety so meeting people ...

I’m 19M from England and I’m going to be spending a couple of months in Los Angeles this upcoming summer (solo). I’m not going with the sole intention of picking up girls or anything, but I was curious as to how guys under 21 go about meeting girls (aside from dating apps, of course) Obviously I can’t go in bars or nightclubs like I can in the UK, so where are good alternatives? Quick extra question: I keep hearing that American girls find British accents attractive, is that true? I know it’s a big stereotype but I can’t imagine it’d actually make that much difference lol Submitted November 19, 2021 at 01:10AM I’m 19M from England and I’m going to be spending a couple of months in Los Angeles this upcoming summer (solo).I’m not going with the sole intention of picking up girls or anything, but I was curious as to how guys under 21 go about meeting girls (aside from dating apps, of course)Obviously I can’t go in bars or nightclubs like I can in the UK, so where are good altern...

I've (24M) been interested in this girl (?F) for a couple weeks now. At first I was fine because I hadnt developed feelings, just a basic "yeah she's kinda cute" kind of thing but the more we talked the more I realised we had in common. We have all major interests in common (fitness, weed, anime) and other niche interests like having a senstive gut, having worked at the same company and both trying to quit cigarettes. So the more I got to know her the more it started to mess with me, the more nervous I became. I really don't like this feeling, like a pit in my stomach. So next time I was talking to her at my gym, I realised I didn't want to wait and just asked her for her number. Which she gave it to me with a heart and her name. Now I feel sick. Like about to puke, it's gotten worse. Even though I got her number, I feel really pathetic and like I will mess it up. Its bitter sweet but I cannot understate how horrible i feel right now Submitted Nov...

Very!!! They are just so vast and amazing that there are so many balls of powerful energy out there and they are so far away they look like specs or so far away we can't can't see them with the naked eye!! November 19, 2021 at 12:35AM

Oh yes!! I thought this, too. I never really understood why some people would act so hyped up about something and thought they were just really outgoing and/or amazing actors. But I guess I’ve been the odd one out all along, lol. November 19, 2021 at 12:35AM

As an aroace, The way I describe it is that I like the way they look and that’s pretty much it. I don’t want to fuck them or have any sort of romantic relationship with them. They just look pretty and I’m fine with that November 19, 2021 at 12:34AM

Have you ever seen a fast food ad that instantly made you want a burger? I assume it's kind of like that. November 19, 2021 at 12:33AM

Oh my god this- like I can’t even fathom wanting to do THAT with someone by just seeing them 😭 like bro I see people and think “I wanna be friends with them” like I didn’t realize how common it is for people to do that, but with sex in mind. November 19, 2021 at 12:32AM

(Tldr: I can’t cum at all - tried everything and it doesn’t work but I really want to. Any advice or tips?) Hey so this is on a throwaway account cause duh - the title says it all, I can’t cum. This is a bit of a long post I guess and trigger warning for some bits I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little while now and he keeps trying to help me finish but it never really works. I really like it when he touches me and I also really like when we do piv but I just can’t get over the edge with it I guess. I think it has something to do with my last long term relationship - I got raped a lot by the guy I was with when I was 15-17 and I’m still recovering. My boyfriend knows about all of it so he’s been really patient but I feel like I’m letting him down when I can’t finish. I get flashbacks to my ex boyfriend and I think that might be throwing me off - I can see his face and I’m reminded of the way he touched me. Yuck. I’ve tried masturbating by myself but I still don’t think I’m cumm...

Does injecting spermicide gel in the penis kill off sperm while your cumming inside of a vagina Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:41AM Does injecting spermicide gel in the penis kill off sperm while your cumming inside of a vagina

Man, it makes me so happy to please my woman. Seeing her go crazy and feeling her squirt in my mouth is so gratifying. Love my shawty. Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:47AM Man, it makes me so happy to please my woman. Seeing her go crazy and feeling her squirt in my mouth is so gratifying. Love my shawty.

This has probably been asked before, but can anyone give me advice? I (25F) am bi, and my husband (25M) is straight and less kinky than I am. I am always asking if there is something special that he likes or wants to try or if he will let me do things I want to try. He likes vanilla. He loves and is very attracted to me, and I am always left satisfied and smiling. But I feel like I need more and want it way more often. He doesn’t want music playing he doesn’t want characters and he doesn’t care to dress up. He doesn’t ask me what I want or want to try. I always feel like I am asking too much when in fact I am just offering suggestions that I am hoping he may be comfortable with. He is just indifferent and unwilling to attempt anything. He has a very large d!ck, and I always orgasm when we have sex. It’s way above the average size and easy for me to boost his confidence. I don’t want anything too extravagant, I just want to add a little Fantasy. I am a little bit of a nerd and I like ...

f 20. i honestly feel so broken. i feel out of touch with my own body. i want to enjoy masturbating but i can’t. if i try i just end up failing and feeling incredibly depressed. i barely have a sex drive. if i’m with someone physically i get aroused but otherwise alone i just don’t have any interest. but i really want to. i used to watch porn to help but i don’t want to be dependent on it like that. is there something wrong with me? im not asexual as i am aroused by sex. my libido is just nonexistent. im on birth control and i had a really bad LDR where i wasn’t allowed to masturbate unless i was filming it, but that was like 3 years ago now so idk if that’s still affecting me or not. it probably is but i wish it isn’t because i feel so stupid for letting someone control my life like that. does anyone have any tips for me on what to do or what might be wrong? i just wanna feel normal. Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:57AM f 20. i honestly feel so broken. i feel out of touch w...

We were both virgins when we got together and after half a year of being in a relationship I can announce that we're still both virgins... and not for a lack of trying. We've tried having sex, but it always ends with me frustratedly trying to fit my penis in a vagina that just cannot accomodate it and her in tears. She feels awful about this cause she wants to enjoy sex with me but her body doesn't let her. whenever I try to penetrate her, her vagina just tenses up and won't let anything enter. This happens with my penis, but it even happens with my fingers. What's worse is that it's only getting worse. Where in the past I have been able to penetrate her with up to 2 fingers, now even 1 finger just makes her scream in pain. We've tried the basics: a lot of foreplay, making sure she's aroused, enough lube to fit an elephant into a fiat 500, but to no avail. Anyone else managed to overcome something like this? Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:57AM ...

So my ex is getting married next September and I'm genuinely so happy he his happy again, wealth met when we were in a bad place and lonely and helped each other so much, but decided after a while we cared about each other and wanted to be in each other lives forever rather than being together a bit incompatible and maybe losing our friendship, was a good decision as we are now good friends, however, he is getting married next year I've only met her once briefly and she knows we are good friends but knows nothing about our romantic past Tonight my ex asked me if I would go to the wedding if invited, I was stunned and said yes, but I feel that if she found out there had been something between us she would be so hurt, I think it would be wrong of me to go to the wedding Really need other opinions on this Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:06AM So my ex is getting married next September and I'm genuinely so happy he his happy again, wealth met when we were in a bad place...

What is the purpose of it? From your experience, either guy or girl, does it work? Specifically, if a girl says she just wants to be friends, how much energy should the guy put into the friendship? Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:08AM What is the purpose of it?From your experience, either guy or girl, does it work?Specifically, if a girl says she just wants to be friends, how much energy should the guy put into the friendship?

At the beginning of the year the guy I liked had a whole bunch of people that were also interested in him. Fast forward a couple of months he chooses me and we start dating. The girls that liked are still around and hang out with him. And he still does favors for them and provides emotional support to them. This is making me kinda uncomfortable and I’ve expressed this to him multiple times. I don’t want to be that person that makes him cut off his friends though. Because that’s super toxic. Fast forward to now another girl he’s friends with confessed her feelings for him and he wouldn’t tell her that we were dating. Even after I asked him to. It seems like he’s more concerned with everyone else’s feelings rather than mine sometimes. His explanation was that “she was already super sad and didn’t want to make her sadder because something else had happened to her that night”. He shared his calendar with me a couple of months ago because we are both super busy people. And I saw that he’s...

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A month and a half ago a girl was flirting with me and then she got a boyfriend and she blocked me on snapchat. They broke up a week ago and now she is talking to me again, I’m still blocked on Snapchat but it seems like she’s flirting with me. Should I just forget about it or should I try. Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:14AM A month and a half ago a girl was flirting with me and then she got a boyfriend and she blocked me on snapchat. They broke up a week ago and now she is talking to me again, I’m still blocked on Snapchat but it seems like she’s flirting with me. Should I just forget about it or should I try.

Pandemic made it tougher to go out and meet people. help? Submitted November 19, 2021 at 12:15AM Pandemic made it tougher to go out and meet people. help?