ADHD and OCD over here. Though sometimes I still question if I'm on the spectrum... April 21, 2023 at 12:23AM

I stopped using dating apps bc I only got crickets. I also don't drink so I don't go to bars or clubs. I've got plenty of outdoors/social hobbies and have a job, but both are almost entirely male dominated. I've never approached a girl before or asked any girl out, so ig I'm 0 for 0. I hoped a girl would ask me out instead since I've got approach anxiety, but that isn't going too well. I have no idea if I'm attractive or ugly, as I've never been called either. Never flirted before or have any idea how dating works tbh. TLDR: So what should I do to get a gf? Assuming a girl would even want to date a guy who's never been in a relationship b4 And pls don't tell me to work on myself, I've already been doing that. Submitted April 21, 2023 at 01:16AM I stopped using dating apps bc I only got crickets. I also don't drink so I don't go to bars or clubs. I've got plenty of outdoors/social hobbies and have a job, but both are...

I’ve been talking to someone since October, but every time I try to plan something they make some excuse. It’s very discouraging and I don’t think I can keep talking to them. How should I notify them? Submitted April 21, 2023 at 12:13AM I’ve been talking to someone since October, but every time I try to plan something they make some excuse. It’s very discouraging and I don’t think I can keep talking to them. How should I notify them?

Idk I feel like most allos would react that way too. The whole joke of denji's motives is he assigns the same level of grandiose importance to them as other anime protagonists do to more "nobel" goals. So when it seems like he's about to go on a speech about whats worth living for, the other characters are expecting some generic philosophical perspective about life, or some promise to a dead friend, or some bloodthirsty vow of revenge. But he then just comes out with shit like wanting to cop a feel, or get a girlfriend, or as above, have sex. So it's entirely possible the reaction could've been more of an "eww. Pervert" rather than an "eww. Sex". Maybe I'm wrong though, & it is ace rep. April 20, 2023 at 11:24PM

Autistic here and I was diagnosed as a kid! April 20, 2023 at 11:22PM