I (21f) am on the constant hunt for the freakiness, most rough sex. If it isn’t rough or the guy won’t do what I ask, I’m not into it and don’t want to have sex with him anymore. It sucks because I’ll really like a person but if the sex isn’t what I want or they aren’t kinky or freaky, I can’t do it. Like I want a guy to throw me around, hit me, choke me, pull my hair, spit in my mouth, call me names. I want that all the time or I don’t want it at all, there is no in between. I don’t know what is wrong with me. I have a really high sex drive and I’m wondering if I have something wrong where that’s why I crave that kind of sex. I’m wondering if it’s an issue. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:18PM I (21f) am on the constant hunt for the freakiness, most rough sex. If it isn’t rough or the guy won’t do what I ask, I’m not into it and don’t want to have sex with him anymore. It sucks because I’ll really like a person but if the sex isn’t what I want or they aren’t kinky or freaky, I c...

This is my greatest fetish. Getting sucked off in the dressing room was one of the biggest nuts of my life. I also LOVE overloading my partner with any and all stimulation. Any tips on how to make these two things happen together (ie specific toys, methods on avoiding authority) is really appreciated. If not, tell me your public sex experiences and/or any non-spesific tips on this topic. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:20PM This is my greatest fetish. Getting sucked off in the dressing room was one of the biggest nuts of my life. I also LOVE overloading my partner with any and all stimulation. Any tips on how to make these two things happen together (ie specific toys, methods on avoiding authority) is really appreciated.If not, tell me your public sex experiences and/or any non-spesific tips on this topic.

This has been a fantasy of mine for a while now and I am hoping to finally make this come true. I'll start from the beginning I guess so I can get the best advice... I'm 31, I'm kind of insecure-ish but I completely trust my fiance to fully respect me when it comes to this adventure. If anyone who has had one could tell me their experience (nothing explicit just, troubles, was it awkward, is it better to have someone you know vs someone you dont, things like that) Just so I can plan and hopefully surprise my fiance. We have both discussed it and both are on board, it will be MFF (again my fantasy), it would be my first time with a girl so definitely a little nervous about that. I would like to surprise him after work one day with this fun and exciting thing, again, has been discussed and agreed this would be an okay scenario. So please, any advice for me? TL;DR: looking to plan/have my first 3 some, need some advice, what to expect, anything you wish you had known your f...

Hi everyone, I’d love to add some girth to my penis during sex, so I tried using a pump and cock ring (both alone and together). The pump was a mechanical/automatic one from amazon, though even at the lowest setting it really hurt, like my dick was going to pop. I immediately stopped. I then moved on to the cock ring. It made my dick really veiny (kind of gross tbh), and the head swelled up, but other than that zero additional girth. Am I doing something wrong? I’ve heard of so many people having great results with these toys, so this is pretty disappointing. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:28PM Hi everyone,I’d love to add some girth to my penis during sex, so I tried using a pump and cock ring (both alone and together). The pump was a mechanical/automatic one from amazon, though even at the lowest setting it really hurt, like my dick was going to pop. I immediately stopped.I then moved on to the cock ring. It made my dick really veiny (kind of gross tbh), and the head swelled ...

Hey Reddit! So over the weekend I was with my girlfriend and we ended up with some oral play towards the end. We both like things a bit tougher so we did. After, a canker sore formed on the underside of my tongue. I’ve heard this can be common if you just do it in a bad position, but I wanna know if anyone of you have experienced this before or what. And to note: this isn’t herpes. We both tested negative for any STDs and STIs recently. And cold sores usually aren’t on the inside of the mouth from what I know. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:32PM Hey Reddit! So over the weekend I was with my girlfriend and we ended up with some oral play towards the end. We both like things a bit tougher so we did. After, a canker sore formed on the underside of my tongue. I’ve heard this can be common if you just do it in a bad position, but I wanna know if anyone of you have experienced this before or what. And to note: this isn’t herpes. We both tested negative for any STDs and STIs recently. ...

I (25M) am in a great relationship with my boyfriend (28M), and I love him. Been together 6 months now, he’s moving in. We’ve known one another for 7 years so it’s getting pretty serious. He told me going in that he has a low sex drive, so we’d probably only have sex about once a week. I’m fine with this, especially because when I’m horny otherwise he usually is pretty accommodating of everything I want but penetration. Thing is, he’s very religious (Buddhist from China). He’s waiting to see about a couple of jobs, and told me he needs to “fast” from sex, porn and masturbation until he gets hired. I’m going on week three of no sex at all of any kind. This is honestly okay because he’s worth it to me, however it’s also frustrating because this is my first relationship, and having someone to sleep with regularly is still pretty novel for me. I have considered asking if we can open it up when he needs to spend weeks sexless, but then I remember how into monogamy he is (I am usually as...

I (20 M) had couple of times sex with different girls and relationships but (not outside relationships and didn’t have like those dudes 2-3 girls at the same time) i never cheated and never lied to any of them when they asked me about something (not saying im angel but i don’t like to lie) 2 years ago i had an 1y relationship with a girl i loved her and i told her when time comes i want to live with you marriage etc. lets move on.. but she broke up with me because she thought im cheating and im lying her but i really was loyal to her but she had trust issues because i teached her to not believe nobody in life except your family and this was my biggest mistake because she mixed things and didn’t want to understand why im saying that, after some time i realized she went out with a dude and they kissed each other but after this i don’t want to have relationships neither sex with someone because im not fuckboy, i don’t give a shit about sex if there is no respect and loyalty, im true to m...

Ever since I was in preschool I remember us having some sort of “water sport” day and the female teachers were barefoot and for some reason I keep staring at their feet and wanted to touch them. Ever since then that’s my go to when looking at a woman. I’ve gotten feet rubbed on genitals before and it was nice and all, but all I really want to do is give foot massages. I also love butts and boobs, it’s just that feet are my thing. As I got older I (I’m currently a 21M) started masturbating when I was almost 18 (no one ever told me how to do it so I just never tried until then) and although I rarely use it, I did get a little bit into porn, and figured out that I have a thing for shrinking stuff, like me being shrunk and women being shrunk. No one knows that I’m into this stuff but I just really like it. And I’m so ashamed. I feel like a freak. I’m pretty good looking and 6’4 and I get looks from girls quite a bit, but I feel so bad because every time I get a look or something I imagin...

my gf and i (both girls) had our first time about a week ago and long story short- it was spectacular. my only issue was i didn't orgasm. i ate my girl out for a reasonable amount of time, she got there, great. when it was my turn i felt really bad, was constantly asking her if she's tired or wants to take a break. did it feel great? abso-fuckin-lutely. and i was extremely close too but it still didn't happen which makes me very insecure. we had sex again a few days ago and the same thing happened. we were rushing because my parents were about to come home and i made her orgasm in 8 minutes. then it was my turn- and again, i was very close but still didn't come. felt very sorry for my gf and lied that i came twice. im diagnosed with bipolar ii and anxiety, i take zoloft but im able to make myself orgasm through masturbation. interestingly enough, only with a water stream and riding a pillow for example. what could be the issue here? Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:5...

Ladies could you date or marry a guy that isn’t big down there? Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:54PM Ladies could you date or marry a guy that isn’t big down there?

We’re both 33, and have had 8 great dates since February 1st. We haven’t seen each other in 8 days since she was on vacation with friends from work and didn’t communicate much in that time span. I asked Monday night what night would work to see each other and invited her to come to my place(we live 45 minutes apart). She texted me back early the next morning and said Thursday “might” be good and a smiley emoji. I replied Thursday sounds great. Should I text her soon to confirm that’s the plan or let her? My biggest fear is appearing needy. The “might” in her response has really thrown me off Submitted March 04, 2020 at 10:09PM We’re both 33, and have had 8 great dates since February 1st. We haven’t seen each other in 8 days since she was on vacation with friends from work and didn’t communicate much in that time span. I asked Monday night what night would work to see each other and invited her to come to my place(we live 45 minutes apart). She texted me back early the next morni...

met this girl got along, exchanged info hung out the first week of new years got busy, never talked made plans a week ago to meet this week wants crush to be my first kiss should I tell her that I'd like my first kiss from her or should I just go for it without asking? I understand that the opportunity has to be in the right moment, eye contact, environment, etc. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 10:10PM met this girlgot along, exchanged infohung out the first week of new yearsgot busy, never talkedmade plans a week ago to meet this weekwants crush to be my first kissshould I tell her that I'd like my first kiss from her or should I just go for it without asking?I understand that the opportunity has to be in the right moment, eye contact, environment, etc.

Hello, so there is this girl and we have been talking for around 3 months and she is my friends sister. Im new to the place so people dont know me well yet and i started liking her after a month of being friends with her, i asked her out a week ago, she rejected me but i saw she was hesitant. I was reading body language but it really seemed like she wanted something more with me too. Perhaps i didnt talk to her enough or didnt give her enough space? Forgot to mention she has never been in a relationship before so is there a possibility its something else? I've read its because of something social or about her brother not letting her date other guys, even tho he helped me to ask her out etc. I'm not totally sure what is it but anyways just wanted to say i still feel way too attracted to her and im planning on somehow dating her, i just dont know how yet. Tell me ur opinion here. Have a nice day! Edit: i am 16 and she is 15 Submitted March 04, 2020 at 10:11PM Hello, so th...

There was this girl in one of my classes last year who I didn’t really talk too, i saw her again after a year in the gym and decided to take a ballsy move and approach her randomly We started talking and started joking around, she saw me in the gym a few days later and same thing we talked for ages I told her let’s train together this Friday and she said yes! But I don’t know where to go from there as I want to ask her on a proper date? What should I do, should I ask after the workout or maybe through text a few days later? Submitted March 04, 2020 at 10:12PM There was this girl in one of my classes last year who I didn’t really talk too, i saw her again after a year in the gym and decided to take a ballsy move and approach her randomlyWe started talking and started joking around, she saw me in the gym a few days later and same thing we talked for agesI told her let’s train together this Friday and she said yes! But I don’t know where to go from there as I want to ask her on a...

I'm a 23 y/o guy and I've been hanging out with a 22 y/o girl pretty frequently. I met her at school so we kinda just became friends through study groups, so that dynamic already existed prior to me having other intentions with her. I hang out with her sometimes one on one but it's usually pretty basic stuff like going to the gym or something. We've gone to parties together but as part of a larger group, not specifically with her. Anyway I've been having a lot of fun hanging out with her and now have a interest in her romantically, but I'm not sure how to proceed. She definitely finds me attractive and enjoys my presence, but it seems that she wants to remain just friends. I'm not really sure if I should ask her to more of a date-type activity or if I should just let things flow and see how they end up. Side note: I've been rather socially awkward for most of my life and only recently resolved this so I basically have no idea what I'm doing due to ...

I'm a little ashamed of even posting this but hey, here goes nothing. So, I [19M] am not really "new" to dating per se, but I've never been good at it or felt comfortable doing it online. It has also been a long time since I did it regularly. So firstly, which dating app is the best for serious releationahips, I absolutely despise tinder and have heard that it is mainly good for hookups, then there's badoo, which I use sometimes, and bumble, which is fine, but not very used in my area. My main problems however, are 1. Creating an interesting profile, I am super insecure and nervous about my looks (take a look at my post history in r/toastme for example and you should see why) so I have never felt good about taking selfies, nor am I good at it The text part, the thing is that I don't think I am all that interesting, I have trouble to think what to put there to get people's attention I don't even know what kind of advice I need, I guess my main ...

As silly as it sounds, yes, I got emotionally attached to someone whom I've only met once in person. For some context, I'm a 23F who have not been in any long term serious relationship before. I've been actively looking for someone whom I can be in a long term serious relationship with, but things hadn't been working out very well, probably because I've been seeking these people on dating apps (?). In fact, I've only been on one date before this guy. Other times it's either I've been ghosted or I just couldn't vibe with them. Perhaps due to my over eagerness in finding 'the one' , I've noticed one pattern in myself when it comes to dating, which is getting too invested and emotionally attached too fast. This always happens even before I meet the other person in person. And of course, this often ends in heartbreaks, which is, I think, really silly but I just couldn't help it. Anyway, as times go by I decided to stop insisting on see...

I am a 15 year old male. I met this girl at school and i really want to ask her out but i dont know when the right timing is. She is shy but is a kind person and she is 14. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:08PM I am a 15 year old male. I met this girl at school and i really want to ask her out but i dont know when the right timing is. She is shy but is a kind person and she is 14.

I (26F) met a guy (31M) last month and it became intense and passionate very quickly. He told me that he likes me “in a weird way” last night. Can someone please elaborate on what this means? Personally, I’d say this to gain trust without committing to anything. I’d say it to basically string someone along but I’m unsure if I’m just. Never said this to anyone myself (or had this said to me before). Neither have any friends I’ve asked. Currently, very confused. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:14PM I (26F) met a guy (31M) last month and it became intense and passionate very quickly. He told me that he likes me “in a weird way” last night. Can someone please elaborate on what this means?Personally, I’d say this to gain trust without committing to anything. I’d say it to basically string someone along but I’m unsure if I’m just.Never said this to anyone myself (or had this said to me before). Neither have any friends I’ve asked. Currently, very confused.

So I have made some interesting insight into dating from my (female) perspective. It works well and ONLY if the guy, only the makes effort. It's terrible how I have very less to do here, well I am sure a lot of people will disagree and bring the whole "it's the 21st century and equality"; some people like me have ALREADY done that part and shot down and I have sworn I won't be the only initiating interest in a man. Oh so coming back to my theory; so a man shows interest, but I as the female should just go about with life, not let my guard down and not develop feelings for the guy UNTIL he has made it clear he really likes me. Let's say a guy is being friendly, you both hit it off well and the girl starts acting different because now she has feelings for this guy; outcome - the boy is uncomfortable, runs away, ghosts, suddenly vanishes in thin air. Even in my past experiences I have noticed how the guy had enough interest in me till when i was going about li...

I'm pretty unattractive (M23), like 1/10 on a good day, with a bunch of nerdy hobbies (dnd, plastic models, video games, etc). I've had nothing but complete and total failure in my efforts at dating so far, my best result was rejection and mockery, and my worst result was turning the girl gay (i know thats not how it works, but me just asking her out was what made her realize she's a lesbian). Online dating is basically my last hope of actually finding love, outside of some kinda beauty and the beast scenario, but fairy tales aren't real so thats unlikely. Submitted March 04, 2020 at 11:22PM I'm pretty unattractive (M23), like 1/10 on a good day, with a bunch of nerdy hobbies (dnd, plastic models, video games, etc). I've had nothing but complete and total failure in my efforts at dating so far, my best result was rejection and mockery, and my worst result was turning the girl gay (i know thats not how it works, but me just asking her out was what made her...

To put this in perspective first... I am a 26-year-old male who is decently attractive. I have sorta put dating off until I finished grad school, so I've only ever been on one date in my entire life. My date at the time told me that I was someone who was ready for commitment. I've been using tinder for 2+ years and have only had about 10 matches (5 of which turned into conversations, 0 of which have resulted in a date). So I (26M) matched with a girl (26F) on tinder at the beginning last month, and we have been talking almost every day since then. This is the first time that I've ever hit it off with someone so quickly and the most I have ever talked with someone on tinder. She even complimented me on my looks (which was a first) and I returned the favor of course because she is very pretty. The only off-putting thing at first was that she was discouraged about how far away we live from one another (like 75 minutes distance). We exchanged numbers after a few hours of cha...