I’m a [20M]. I dated this girl when I was in 5th grade for 3 years but as an adult, I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I’ve definitely been interested in people and went on dates but never moved past a couple dates. I drag my feet on actively pursuing a relationship because I’m a little scared that I’ll invest a lot of my time into someone and it doesn’t work out. The other part of me knows that even if a relationship doesn’t work out, you still learn things about yourself In the process, but knowing that, I still drag my feet getting into a relationship. Does anyone else go through this? Submitted June 04, 2020 at 12:15AM I’m a [20M]. I dated this girl when I was in 5th grade for 3 years but as an adult, I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I’ve definitely been interested in people and went on dates but never moved past a couple dates. I drag my feet on actively pursuing a relationship because I’m a little scared that I’ll invest a lot of my time into someone and

It’s just so gross! All the... excess things that come out of both partners during and after is just soo disgusting. How do you clean everything (sheets and body) thoroughly enough where you’re comfortable sleeping/walking/BEING where you had sex?? Not to mention when a couple tries to get pregnant, they have sex when one of the partners is on their period!! It’s nasty up there already and now you’re putting your weird little meatstick up like bruh how is that NOT gross af?? P.s. I’m comfortable with sex related words but in an asexuality chat it just feels wrong June 04, 2020 at 12:06AM

Thank you guys so much for the upvotes! I really appreciate it! June 04, 2020 at 12:04AM

I ain't gonna lie, I'm a virgin who's 20, who identifies as AroAce, who has no interest in sex and who's also disabled. Trust me, when the ADHD isn't interested in something, it isn't going to "try it out" for fun. It would rather be doing other things like playing with technology June 04, 2020 at 12:04AM

Like, everything? Not gonna lie, I have never done the deed. When I don't have any interest in it, I just don't see why I would do it. From what I get, allos have like this inner "push" that is just not present in me. June 04, 2020 at 12:00AM

Me being involved June 03, 2020 at 11:47PM

Very cute!! 💜💜 which palette/shades did you use ? June 03, 2020 at 11:45PM

If you wanna do any kind of biromantic asexual flag I'd love to see it (no pressure though). June 03, 2020 at 11:36PM

Yeah absolutely. I often just wonder how it is to actually want it... June 03, 2020 at 11:26PM

I changed mine now!! Yay representation! June 03, 2020 at 11:25PM

This really makes me draw my version too, this is soooo coool!! June 03, 2020 at 11:24PM

Thanks ✨ June 03, 2020 at 11:24PM

Everyone is drawing themselves, I have to get on this man... Also your drawing is hella fricking sick! June 03, 2020 at 11:23PM

Thank you so much. Yeah I came across it when I was also looking for one and thought this one suited the Ace colors. It’s also really pretty! June 03, 2020 at 11:19PM

Its weird. Someones body parts inside of me sounds gross. I prefer closeness and cuddling and kisses to sex. Gay sex, straight sex, sex with someone who is on the Nonbinary spectrum, all the sex, I don't like it. I feel What I can do on my own in terms of masturbation is sex enough. But even masturbation has its limits. I only do it when I want to because it feels good and even then it feels a bit dirty if I do it too much. Other times I just want to ignore my body's annoying libido and eat cake. June 03, 2020 at 11:18PM

Yeah! Same. I actually made a really great friend on the train a while back, and she's literally the same age as my parents. We share a mutual love of good diners, delis, and gardening and a mutual hatred of North Jersey corruption. :D Just goes to show you how far good conversation can go. Last time I tried being a mod was when a couple kids at school made a message board, then decided they wanted to destroy it and started trolling all the forums. I deleted their crap on my forum, and that's when they turned against me in real life. :( Not that it'd necessarily happen here, but I could easily see trolls going on when I'm asleep/at work/etc. As far as I know, anyone can make a subreddit, but it's kinda like a club in college - to be successful, you need the right amount of promotion and engagement. I used to help run a few different cultural orgs, ranging from really popular (Japanese culture) to... not even slightly popular (Russian culture). Was not easy! :P

Almost every day, I love it. June 03, 2020 at 11:10PM

Tungsten Carbide. Honestly it has a little more heft to it than what I was expecting. June 03, 2020 at 11:10PM

Non-aces don't necessarily feel sexual attraction to people constantly and this sounds like a common non-ace experience. Sexual attraction comes and goes depending on a lot of internal and external factors. I wouldn't identify myself as asexual during times of not feeling sexual attraction (which happens as you describe) but you can label yourself however you feel best represents your experiences. June 03, 2020 at 11:08PM

Congrats! What kind of material did you go for? June 03, 2020 at 11:08PM

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