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/u/pmintea on Feedback on my new fairytale? Need help from aroace people!

I deleted my previous comment because I added some stuff you can look at it on imgur.com/user/theplantorwhatever6 Your feedback is very much appreciated!! February 21, 2023 at 01:33AM

Is she a red flag ?

Been on a first date with a girl a few weeks ago. Red flags I noted: Mentioned some guy wants to be intimate with her again, but she isn’t allowing it because he’s been acting funny. Kept mentioning hobbies that relates to the above guy. mentioned she does bareback Asked me the last time I had sex. Asked if I had any friends which were girls and if we get together I’d have to cut them off. mentioned she wants me to message her atleast once per day if we get together or she’d cut me off Submitted February 21, 2023 at 01:12AM Been on a first date with a girl a few weeks ago. Red flags I noted:Mentioned some guy wants to be intimate with her again, but she isn’t allowing it because he’s been acting funny.Kept mentioning hobbies that relates to the above guy.mentioned she does barebackAsked me the last time I had sex.Asked if I had any friends which were girls and if we get together I’d have to cut them off.mentioned she wants me to message her atleast once per d

Am I losing my best friend?

This is relationship related, I promise. Long story short, my best friend (19m) and I (19f) have been on and off dating/being intimate for about a year now through various circumstances and have known each other for 2. He's one of those people I really felt like that cared about me (and I care so much about him too), and we were extremely close friends. About half a year ago, he moved to a different state for school and so have I. At the time, he basically decided that any romantic relationship, long distance, is not possible due to the lack of physical intimacy he needed and that if we want to stay friends, we'd have to move on from each other. I listened and agreed, and tried moving on as fast as possible, through healthy methods such as confronting my feelings and hanging out with friends and meeting new people. A few months after that, I basically met a guy, and my best friend has been looking around for a S.O. too. At first, I was definitely uncomfortable, but I really t

I feel little hurt

I feel a little hurt when my girlfriend jokes to me about sucking someone elses dick or having sex with someone else. There was one joke she told me that i commented ln a movie where people had crashed an airplane, i asked her what she would do if she was in that situation, then i jokingly said if she would start dating, then she said she wouldnt suck dick because she would get dehydrated. For me that joke implied that she would be sucking dick if she wouldnt get dehydrated. Am i wrong for reacting a little to this? I didnt make a big deal out of it, i said in a calmly manner that i dont like it so much when she jokes in that manner, but she got very defensive and started laughing at me and said that crazy that i falt that Submitted February 21, 2023 at 12:13AM I feel a little hurt when my girlfriend jokes to me about sucking someone elses dick or having sex with someone else.There was one joke she told me that i commented ln a movie where people had crashed an airplane, i as

/u/CaughttheDarkness on I am Inlove with my ex and he's asexual

Do not listen to this person. They are giving you bad advice. February 20, 2023 at 11:17PM

/u/Trojari on How do you deal with a problem that is unique to just you?

What an awful take. February 20, 2023 at 11:15PM