As the title says...I (26F) am absolutely and wholeheartedly in love with my best friend (28M), but here’s the kicker...I have a boyfriend. Now hear me out. I already know I need to break up with my boyfriend, and I do have plans of doing so really soon. But here’s the backstory and current situation... My friend and I met a few years ago. We somewhat “dated” and there weren’t sparks, so that thought kind of fizzled quickly. We kept in touch here and there, and then out of the blue we started talking again all the time, but this time without the pressure of dating. He’s now usually the first and last person I text every day, and what I look forward to the most. Rarely is it ever flirtatious (continue reading for the only conversation exception), but it’s usually genuine concern for each other’s wellbeing (i.e. “I hope you’re doing well”, “I’m here to talk”, etc...you know, things you’d expect any friend to say to another). As the communication between us got stronger, so did my feel...

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Obligatory warning that I typed this on mobile. ​ TL;DR : My coworker snitches on everyone for everything, and I can't take it anymore. He refuses to confront me instead of running to my manager. He also believes that if he can't do something no one else can. Finally told him to fuck off after clocking out today. ​ So a bit of backstory. I'm a college student who's been working from job to job. Right now I work two jobs. In the summer I work on a farm, it pays well but they don't really need me during the winter since a lot of the work we do in the summer revolves around mowing, weeding, etc. Because of this I always take a second job during the other 1/2 or 2/3 of the year since I'm not needed as much. I used to work at Starbucks, but recently changed to McDonald's which was paying a bit more for me. I pretty much keep myself on good terms with all my co-workers and respect boundaries. But recently one co-worker of mine has become a problem for me. ...

I'm to ugly to fucking date anyone. When I grow old, I will die alone because of not finding anyone to live life with me. I will always be a fucking virgin. I don't know what the hell to do with life anymore. Everyone gets 1 life, and I have to get this life where I'm ugly, and can never date anyone. No one will never like me. ​ I need help. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:25AM I'm to ugly to fucking date anyone. When I grow old, I will die alone because of not finding anyone to live life with me. I will always be a fucking virgin. I don't know what the hell to do with life anymore. Everyone gets 1 life, and I have to get this life where I'm ugly, and can never date anyone. No one will never like me.​I need help.

So there's this girl i got close to with work but i don't work with her anymore. I met her again through a mutual friend event about 6 months ago and asked her on a date to see some jazz band and she agreed. Unfortunately it hasn't happened yet. I asked her about 3 times when she would be free but kept getting a day before cancellations or an excuse. I believed her and just told her to tell me when she would be free. Just to be safe if i was bothering her and left it at that. Fast forward to my birthday which was about 3 months ago, she messages me saying happy birthday and stuff and how we should catch up. So we got lunch during her work break and it went really well. But afterwards i asked her to tell me when she would be free next because she told me once again, was busy for a 2nd date. So now i just stop messaging her but to be honest idk if its something i should pursue further or just call it quits. I do really like her, she's a sweet and funny girl but i run ...

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Lately I’ve[18M] been wanting to get my ears pierced, also kinda interested in a tattoo but that’ll probably be later. My gf is more on the conservative side of things and isn’t a fan of that stuff. I bought some fake piercings to prank my parents and was going to prank her but I decided to just let her in on the prank. I told her I was thinking about pranking her and she said she would have slapped me (obviously exaggerating she’d never hit me she’s a sweetheart lol) but that however gives her opinion on that. So idk just wanna hear some opinions. Thank you! Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:56AM Lately I’ve[18M] been wanting to get my ears pierced, also kinda interested in a tattoo but that’ll probably be later. My gf is more on the conservative side of things and isn’t a fan of that stuff. I bought some fake piercings to prank my parents and was going to prank her but I decided to just let her in on the prank. I told her I was thinking about pranking her and she said she would ...

I'm a big commuter, spend every day 3-4h in trains. Naturally, I come across a lot of cute girls during my commute. Also fresh out of a breakup, so confidence isn't really on a high level. I'm just really bad at finding the confidence and power to approach a stranger in public. Never had to do it much in my past because girls usually approached me but I feel like this isn't the case any more (age I guess?). During a commute, people usually don't want to get disturbed and personal bubble of space is kinda important in my culture. So how the fuck do you approach someone during a commute? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:59AM I'm a big commuter, spend every day 3-4h in trains. Naturally, I come across a lot of cute girls during my commute. Also fresh out of a breakup, so confidence isn't really on a high level.I'm just really bad at finding the confidence and power to approach a stranger in public. Never had to do it much in my past because girls usu...

I think I’m scared to show my romantic feelings for any girl. I’ve suppressed them a lot and feel like I’m unable to flirt with a girl. What are some things you do to flirt with someone? (This can be during a date or at any time) Submitted April 06, 2019 at 08:01AM I think I’m scared to show my romantic feelings for any girl. I’ve suppressed them a lot and feel like I’m unable to flirt with a girl. What are some things you do to flirt with someone? (This can be during a date or at any time)

I was wondering what everyone thinks about people taking misleading pictures and only using those to advertise themselves. I mean, we all know what we look like and what makes us look flattering or not. Specifically I see alot of bigger girls do this, and then they will even say "hey im not that skinny" leading you to think ok they are a bit thicker - then nope they are completley at an unhealthy weight. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 08:13AM I was wondering what everyone thinks about people taking misleading pictures and only using those to advertise themselves. I mean, we all know what we look like and what makes us look flattering or not. Specifically I see alot of bigger girls do this, and then they will even say "hey im not that skinny" leading you to think ok they are a bit thicker - then nope they are completley at an unhealthy weight.

I would have asked her right away or the next day if we would have met naturally. We’ve been a group together for about 3 weeks now and I’ve been telling myself as well as advice from friends to wait until the project is over before asking her out as it could make things awkward and we won’t be able to complete the project. This sounded really dandy at first and my initial plan was to just be flirty with her through our meetings, but my group is always coming up with excuses as to why they cannot meet so I have barely been able to interact with her. I wanted to see if we actually had some chemistry together and if that was the case by the end of the project then I’d ask her out knowing we clique. Well, I’ve barely been able to interact with this girl and so far I’ve done literally everything for the project so I doubt it would make our project any worse as they don’t contribute to anything. Assuming this pattern keeps up, I’m just feeling like a coward who’s to afraid to ask a girl ou...

My son is 6 months old. His never met his father, met met his grandparents or any family. Every attempt I try, they block my number, ignore me. I cry almost every night. I grew up without a dad, I want my son to have healthy relationships with both his parents. Not to rock up at his door in 12 years and have to ask why he didn’t want him? How do I get through this? I don’t care if he doesn’t speak to me but gosh, can’t they have something to do with their son. Please. I don’t know how to get through this. I still love my ex, and I can’t move on. When I look st my son, I see him. I left the relationship early in the pregnancy because I got scared, and I regret it everyday. I’m trying to make it right for my son, not relationship wise and I can’t get through to anyone. What do I do? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 08:22AM My son is 6 months old. His never met his father, met met his grandparents or any family. Every attempt I try, they block my number, ignore me. I cry almost every n...

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She wants to do I it, she knows I would like it and feels guilty when to go down on her, she is just having a hard time getting over “eww penis in my mouth” part. She has tried jumping in the deep end during a handjob and that didn’t work. We have also done gradual attempts at oral during foreplay to acclimate her to getting close to it. She has gotten to the point of kissing and liking the head but looses her nerve when I start leaking pre-cum. She has done best when I am fingering or using a vibrator. She says I should just force it but then we’ll both be having a bad time so I don’t want to do that. What I haven’t tried yet is flavored condoms and lube, I’m a little hesitant to try the consonant though as she is self conscious about taking so long to finish me during handjobs and I don’t want this to be a nothing she’s bad at in bed. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 08:17AM She wants to do I it, she knows I would like it and feels guilty when to go down on her, she is just having...

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So I'm the shy type of guy because I lack of experience with girls in general and the problem is that she is shy too AND had a bad experience with his driving teacher who touched her although she didnt want him to which makes me even more concerned that I could do something wrong If i make physical contact with her. What's your advice? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:53AM So I'm the shy type of guy because I lack of experience with girls in general and the problem is that she is shy too AND had a bad experience with his driving teacher who touched her although she didnt want him to which makes me even more concerned that I could do something wrong If i make physical contact with her.What's your advice?

Need opinions. A girl who was seeing one of my friends in the past (but not exactly dating) has been coming onto me as of late and to be honest, I feel really iffy about it since I'm worried this might affect our friendship. Although he hasn't been in contact with her for months now and told me he doesn't really care, I'm wondering if my concerns are still valid and just dodge the situation altogether. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:59AM Need opinions. A girl who was seeing one of my friends in the past (but not exactly dating) has been coming onto me as of late and to be honest, I feel really iffy about it since I'm worried this might affect our friendship. Although he hasn't been in contact with her for months now and told me he doesn't really care, I'm wondering if my concerns are still valid and just dodge the situation altogether.

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Need opinions since this situation has been bothering me lately. A girl who was seeing one of my friends in the past (but not exactly dating) has been coming onto me as of late and to be honest, I feel really iffy about it since I'm worried this might affect our friendship. Although he hasn't been in contact with her for months now and told me he doesn't really care, I'm wondering if my concerns are still valid. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:49AM Need opinions since this situation has been bothering me lately. A girl who was seeing one of my friends in the past (but not exactly dating) has been coming onto me as of late and to be honest, I feel really iffy about it since I'm worried this might affect our friendship. Although he hasn't been in contact with her for months now and told me he doesn't really care, I'm wondering if my concerns are still valid.

My girlfriend [Female] and I [Male] are both 21 year old college students. We have known each other for years and have been living together for the past 7 months. Ever since high school, we haven't really fit into the standard mold of the average student. We do fine academically (her more than me), but we haven't ever been extremely social. It's always been just her and me for the most part, but she's been getting depressed about not having many friends. She's had friends in the past, but after moving to our college town some of those relationships just aren't as strong as they once were. I know she's great and very lovable, so I've been supporting her in her effort to get out there more. She's been doing better overall and has made a few friends, but she still feels like she could be living a different life overall. Then, during Spring Break, she went home to visit her family. The problem here is that during a special birthday visit, her mom told ...

Hi all, first time I'm posting on reddit after browsing for a while. I'm a 22 year old man, and 3 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me after a year over text during the middle of the night and did not have the courtesy to tell me this in person. I write this laying in bed while her and my friends are on a school trip... About my relationship: she is in my class at university and we will graduate together this year. It really hurt me for her to break up like this because she was away in another country for erasmus for 6 months where I waited for her and supported her all the way. She broke up with me because I was going through a rough patch in my life: I became depressed, insecure and generally unhappy and she thought she could fix me because she claims I was pulling me and her down. She could not help me and thinks that I am weak so she broke up with me at a time when I most needed her. So here I am because I need to know how everyone else dealt with such situations: ever...

I [20F] wanna surprise my boyfriend [23M] by being dominant to shake things up in the bedroom. To give context, in his first sexual partner and his first serious girlfriend while I’ve had a few partners. He’s unsure of what kinks and all of his likes are. I’m usually shy and quite and didn’t have a high sex drive until I got with my current boyfriend so i thought being dominant would be a nice surprise. However, I’ve never been dominant in the bedroom. What ways can I do this? I was thinking of dressing up in sexy black lingerie and waiting in bed for him or just get in his lap when he’s just browsing the internet... but I’m lost at what to do afterwards. Any help/suggestions would be great! Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:18AM I [20F] wanna surprise my boyfriend [23M] by being dominant to shake things up in the bedroom. To give context, in his first sexual partner and his first serious girlfriend while I’ve had a few partners. He’s unsure of what kinks and all of his likes are. ...

So I recently just got into a relationship with a pretty remarkable girl. She's funny, adorable and really really smart. She's honestly very sexy, and very very sexual (which is a plus 😁 ). But problem is, she smells down there. I've tried multiple times just to deal with the odor, but it literally just turns me off. I don't think I'll ever be able to have sex with her because of the stench. I know that vaginas aren't suppose to smell like flowers and that they're suppose to have a scent to them. But she literally smells like dirty armpit. Is that normal? Or am I just being a pussy? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:23AM So I recently just got into a relationship with a pretty remarkable girl. She's funny, adorable and really really smart. She's honestly very sexy, and very very sexual (which is a plus 😁 ). But problem is, she smells down there. I've tried multiple times just to deal with the odor, but it literally just turns me off. I don...

Hey ya’ll, just feeling like a bit of good old fashioned chat or app flirting. Casual but active people who have things to say. Does the Reddit’s have any guidance on a good place to find people DTF(lirt)???? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 07:18AM Hey ya’ll, just feeling like a bit of good old fashioned chat or app flirting. Casual but active people who have things to say. Does the Reddit’s have any guidance on a good place to find people DTF(lirt)????

TL;DR @ bottom, this is really long, I'm sorry My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year, one year and one month, to be exact, and suddenly I'm having doubts about this whole thing. In the typical exhilaration of high school relationships, you promise to be together forever (or maybe you don't, I don't know), mushy romance stuff and all that jazz. We're developed a really lovely and close relationship that I feel, for our age, we're lucky to have and have managed to get over bumps such as his tendency for ego boosting white lies and responsibility and I'm very proud of him for being able to do so. He's had a hard past with his abusive father. Naturally I was infatuated with him and even now I love him very much but I am having doubts if we should stay together or not. An explanation of my train of thought: Something just doesn't sit quite right with me. I love him and I love our relationship but at the same time I feel like I w...

I’ve been away on a trip recently and haven’t really been able to talk to her as much as I’d have liked, but tonight I opened up Snapchat and she drew a portrait of me while I was gone and I just think it’s so goddamn sweet. Anyways I know she browses this subreddit so Jessica, I love you and can’t wait to see you again. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 06:46AM I’ve been away on a trip recently and haven’t really been able to talk to her as much as I’d have liked, but tonight I opened up Snapchat and she drew a portrait of me while I was gone and I just think it’s so goddamn sweet.Anyways I know she browses this subreddit so Jessica, I love you and can’t wait to see you again.

Not sure if this is appropriate for this subreddit Normally I would ask him out, but he is in a stable relationship with a wonderful girl. I am not a home wrecker so I need to manage myself. But every now and then I would find myself fantasizing about how cute he is.. and sometimes when he cares of I had lunch or not and other little things. I am sure it doesn’t mean anything he does this basically for everyone. I sit right opposite to him to him so I sometimes become extremely conscious. Recently, I also got dreams regarding him. I need to get over this before its my productivity or sanity: Submitted April 06, 2019 at 05:49AM Not sure if this is appropriate for this subredditNormally I would ask him out, but he is in a stable relationship with a wonderful girl. I am not a home wrecker so I need to manage myself. But every now and then I would find myself fantasizing about how cute he is.. and sometimes when he cares of I had lunch or not and other little things. I am sure it d...

I’m single (27F) and have been for a few years. Now I’ve had a few dates a few guys interested in me but I’m not in interested in them. At all. Last night I went on a date (thinking we were just mates) and then in the car he made the move to kiss me. I was so shocked I just let the kiss be but I was so uncomfortable and didn’t know how to be like no. I think I was more scared of losing him as a friend. And so now he’s messaging me and I’m not interested in him in this way and I’ve already had this issue where I’ve told a guy and he didn’t really care and carried on (I even said I have a guy now and I’m not comfortable, but that’s a different situ) Does anyone here know how I can be direct without having to be nasty about it? It’s honestly put me off dating now and I shouldn’t be generalising! I don’t want to lead him on and I feel like I will be Submitted April 06, 2019 at 05:58AM I’m single (27F) and have been for a few years. Now I’ve had a few dates a few guys interested in...

I'm 22 year old guy with braces and I have 1 year to go with them. I'm self conscious about them. I've already been told I look young for my age (highschool) before having them, so I think they make it worse. For this reason and due to some social anxiety, I avoid talking to girls in college my age. The thing is, there are times that I get lonely and start wanting the affection only a girlfriend can give. In my head, I've decided that I'll start trying to date after I get them off, because I'm not happy with my current self. I justify this because a lot of people say that going into a relationship when you're not happy with yourself is the healthy thing to do. My slight depression is also a factor, but the braces are what's really killing me. I don't want to burden someone with where I'm at right now. I guess what I want to know is, how do you deal with feeling lonely if you've decided to put off dating to work on yourself. Submitted Apr...

I am a 20 year old girl and still a virgin. I wasn't ever religious and now I am an atheist and was raised in a semi progressive environment as my family isn't strict. I live in India and the culture here has been pretty harsh on me. I have been shamed for the kind of clothes that I wear (I wear a lot of non revealing clothes btw as a choice). I used to rebel as a teen and didn't really have a lot of friends because of that (I mean supporting gay marriage and being an atheist). I am kind of a centrist politically which makes me even more prone to judgement from both sides. So I had a bf when I was 15-18 and we used to kiss (only that) and talk about sex a lot (we never had it). We broke up and it got me wondering whether I should wait till I am married to have sex as I was almost ready to do it with him. I figured waiting till I am married will filter out the guys who would just want me for my body and I can't bear the thought of being used like that. It's very deg...

So I met this guy on POF and we been talki go line for about a week and at first I thought things were going well, but now it’s heading down a very sour route. We went on our first date and he started to make out with me when I told him that I wasn’t really ready for it. He nowadays wants to sleep with me which I’m okay with but now he wants me to suck his d**k and I don’t feel comfortable. I don’t know if I should pursue the dating any further. What should I do? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 06:58AM So I met this guy on POF and we been talki go line for about a week and at first I thought things were going well, but now it’s heading down a very sour route. We went on our first date and he started to make out with me when I told him that I wasn’t really ready for it. He nowadays wants to sleep with me which I’m okay with but now he wants me to suck his d**k and I don’t feel comfortable. I don’t know if I should pursue the dating any further. What should I do?

I like this girl at my school. We have a few small conversations / interactions every day, but since we only really see each other in big friend groups, I don’t get more than a few minutes of one-on-one conversation with her. She definitely knows who I am and gives me moderate amounts of attention. I was waiting for a good moment to ask her out casually (rock climbing), but with us only having a few minutes of private time I never got around to it. Now, we’re on spring break and I have free time so I want to hang out with her. We follow each other on Instagram from before we even started talking at school, but we’ve never messaged on anything. How should I ask her out over Instagram? Should I even? P.S: I’m not a huge fan of texting. I can do it, but I’d much rather just get to the point and hang out in person. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 06:59AM I like this girl at my school. We have a few small conversations / interactions every day, but since we only really see each other ...

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months. We aren’t serious yet. He will message me asking to make plans “I’ll go what time are you thinking or when?”. He will open it and not get back to me. The next day he will message me to make plans like nothing happened. This will go on for awhile. Then he will follow through and I’ll see him multiple times a week and it seems good. I don’t get the cycle. I’m starting to feel annoyed/disrespected. Any ideas of what is going on? How do I handle this? Submitted April 06, 2019 at 06:59AM I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months. We aren’t serious yet. He will message me asking to make plans “I’ll go what time are you thinking or when?”. He will open it and not get back to me. The next day he will message me to make plans like nothing happened. This will go on for awhile. Then he will follow through and I’ll see him multiple times a week and it seems good.I don’t get the cycle. I’m starting to feel annoyed/disrespected. Any ideas of what ...

It’s a bit of a sticky situation. I, (19 F) recently got out of a relationship of a year and a half, and was pretty broken about it. There has been a guy that my friend knows whom he insisted that I would like, and I met him the other night. Guess what? I like him. But here’s the thing. We had a fantastic time together and got on really well, we’re very flirty with each other, physical touching, etc... and then it hit 4 AM, and we forgot to give each other our numbers. He doesn’t really have a way to reach out to me besides through our mutual friend, or social media, and I haven’t talked to anyone else as interesting as him; i’d Love to get to know him more. It’s been about 2 days and I haven’t heard anything from him. he asked our mutual friend if I wanted to go out with them as a casual thing yesterday, but I had work, so the plans fell through. I haven’t heard anything about another plan.. but I’m really antsy to see him again, and he told me the one time that I met him a couple...

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My husband and I have been married for about 8 months. He has a friend lets call her Alice whom he told me about a long time ago. Now Alice just relocated to the city where my husband and I live for school. My husband helped her decide on this school and at the time it didnt bother me that of all the schools in the country, and the schools in the state, she had to choose a school that was in the same city my husband and I stay. After relocating, she asked my husband if she could stay with us for a couple of weeks until she found accommodation. I agreed because she was my husband's friend and I didnt want to make a big deal out of it even though husband asked me not to mention to his family that she was staying with us. My husband eventually found her a place far from school but very close to our house. I felt it was odd but didnt say anything. Afterwards, she started calling my husband to drive her to places, take her out to buy dinner and take her shopping. I asked why she couldn...

Hello, Im needing some advice or peoples thoughts on a situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and were very young. We have an okay sexual relationship(The sex is good) but we seem to fight a lot about everything sexual(kinky). He's a highly sexual person and I'm not. He has all these sexual things that he wants to try but I never feel comfortable doing any of them. The main thing that he's into is Hotwife/Cuckold. I like the hotwife kink to a point. But I don't like his Cuckhold fantasy. He wants me to go on dates and skype guys and do sexual things with them, but I'm just not comfortable with any of it. I love him but with all of this fighting because I won't do what he says, he's really pushing me away and I just wanna say I'm done do whatever you want. What should I do? Is there an in-between that we could do? Are there any good compromises? I need help. I can't stand fighting anymore Submitted April 05, 2019 at 10:5...

I get so excited for my husband to come home. Sometimes he doesn’t even acknowledge me. He doesn’t kiss me, doesn’t have anything much to say to me. It hurts my feelings and bursts my bubble and yet the next day I’m eager af to see him again and it happens again. I know I should talk to him, but I feel like I have before. He shows affections at other times and in different ways, just not the ways that I look for, y’know? Submitted April 05, 2019 at 11:52PM I get so excited for my husband to come home. Sometimes he doesn’t even acknowledge me. He doesn’t kiss me, doesn’t have anything much to say to me. It hurts my feelings and bursts my bubble and yet the next day I’m eager af to see him again and it happens again.I know I should talk to him, but I feel like I have before. He shows affections at other times and in different ways, just not the ways that I look for, y’know?

I started smoking weed and also am on a cbd regimen due to back aches, migraines, and pretty bad hernia pain. Anyway, here we are about a year later and I still haven't popped a pill in this entire time aside from being in a pinch, no weed access and taking a cpl advils once or twice. I'm doing great , not to mention I'm more calm all the time which is a change for me due to my temper so all is good, except for the fact that my wife hates that I smoke. She hates weed, hates how much I smoke, says I'm not me when Im medicated, doesn't think it's much different than any other drug etc..... Question is, I wanna hear from both sides. Input, stories, opinions? Which one of us is in the right? Should I stop for her? Should she just support me? Btw, I smoke daily/nightly to stay medicated Submitted April 06, 2019 at 12:37AM I started smoking weed and also am on a cbd regimen due to back aches, migraines, and pretty bad hernia pain. Anyway, here we are about a y...

My (33F) husband (48M) is new to Instagram and has begun following and liking the photos of a lot of local high school teenagers (girls in high school sports teams). Some are freshmen. I don't consider myself much of a jealous person, but the ages and close proximity of these girls is disturbing to me. I don't think he knows that I can see who he's following. I'm debating just keeping a close eye on his IG behavior, but I'm actually losing sleep over this now. What would you do? What should I do? ​ Update: One of the freshmen girls actually just DMed me a few minutes ago and showed me screen shots of him acting inappropriately with her. omg What the f**k. I asked her to check with her friends to see if he's done the same with them. How the f**k am I going to handle this... Submitted April 06, 2019 at 01:06AM My (33F) husband (48M) is new to Instagram and has begun following and liking the photos of a lot of local high school teenagers (girls in high sch...

I’m so destroyed. I just cannot seem to find it. Sunday night I was anxious and hardly got any sleep. Monday when I left work I looked at the cameras and I was wearing it. I went home took a shower, ate dinner, and passed out. I woke up in a rush Tuesday morning and according to my buildings cameras I did not have it when I went in. Sometime between Monday and Tuesday I misplaced it and I was so exhausted I can’t remember where I put it. Today I spent 7 hours searching every square inch of my house. I feel sick and I’m so depressed. I want it to turn up so badly but I’m losing hope of finding it. I should give up and get a new one but I want mine back. Ugh. This sucks. Edit. I’m also learning that people never take their rings off. Whenever I handle raw meat or shower I do and I didn’t think it made sense to wear it while sleeping. Submitted April 06, 2019 at 02:17AM I’m so destroyed. I just cannot seem to find it. Sunday night I was anxious and hardly got any sleep. Monday...

We've been together for 11 years, married for 8, 5 kids. There's some background. Back in December I took a job with a company that I really believed would be a great fit. The job description was exactly what I was looking for, and the company culture seemed on point. Well, fast forward to today and it looks like the wool was really pulled over my eyes. So I started looking, kind half assed, but looking. And lo and behold a company reached out to me without any prompting asking if I would sit down and discuss a position they had available. I spoke with my wife about it, and without hesitation, she was completely on board. Anyway, long story short, I took the position and will start next week. But I'm blown away by how much she has stood by my side through all this. Through all the shit treatment, the super long hours, the backstabbing politics, all of it. She stood strong. She made it all worthwhile. So tonight, I raise my bourbon soaked glass to the strong companions ...

FYI, Tinder just settled a class action lawsuit for age discrimination of subscribers to Tinder Plus and Gold. The following class members can claim a benefit: "If you are a Tinder user in California who subscribed to Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold between March 2, 2015 and March 1, 2019 and were at least 29 years old at time of purchase, then you may be member of this class action settlement." https://www.tindersettlement.com/ Submitted April 05, 2019 at 10:21PM FYI, Tinder just settled a class action lawsuit for age discrimination of subscribers to Tinder Plus and Gold.The following class members can claim a benefit:"If you are a Tinder user in California who subscribed to Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold between March 2, 2015 and March 1, 2019 and were at least 29 years old at time of purchase, then you may be member of this class action settlement."http://bit.ly/2TZX3Q1

I’m asking because I’ve been on several dates with a guy who seems like someone I should be more excited about. He’s attentive, makes an effort, has his shit together, and shows up when he says he will. But— I’m still not sure if I’m really into him. I’ve always suspected I’m slower at developing feelings than other people I know, so my question is, how soon do you typically know you’re into a person? Ten minutes into Date 1? After date 5? I don’t want to waste his time but I also am having trouble gauging whether I just need more time or if I’m just not into him. Submitted April 05, 2019 at 10:30PM I’m asking because I’ve been on several dates with a guy who seems like someone I should be more excited about. He’s attentive, makes an effort, has his shit together, and shows up when he says he will. But— I’m still not sure if I’m really into him. I’ve always suspected I’m slower at developing feelings than other people I know, so my question is, how soon do you typically know you...

Throwaway for obvious reasons. I’m a 31/F and for various factors in my youth/adolescence/whatever, I’m still a virgin. How big a deal is this? How do I broach this topic with any prospective dates without scaring them off? I’ve been tempted to just “get it over with” but at the same time... Am I making too big a deal of this?! Submitted April 05, 2019 at 10:47PM Throwaway for obvious reasons.I’m a 31/F and for various factors in my youth/adolescence/whatever, I’m still a virgin.How big a deal is this? How do I broach this topic with any prospective dates without scaring them off?I’ve been tempted to just “get it over with” but at the same time...Am I making too big a deal of this?!