Helping wife get over oral anxiety

She wants to do I it, she knows I would like it and feels guilty when to go down on her, she is just having a hard time getting over “eww penis in my mouth” part.

She has tried jumping in the deep end during a handjob and that didn’t work. We have also done gradual attempts at oral during foreplay to acclimate her to getting close to it. She has gotten to the point of kissing and liking the head but looses her nerve when I start leaking pre-cum. She has done best when I am fingering or using a vibrator. She says I should just force it but then we’ll both be having a bad time so I don’t want to do that. What I haven’t tried yet is flavored condoms and lube, I’m a little hesitant to try the consonant though as she is self conscious about taking so long to finish me during handjobs and I don’t want this to be a nothing she’s bad at in bed.

Submitted April 06, 2019 at 08:17AM

She wants to do I it, she knows I would like it and feels guilty when to go down on her, she is just having a hard time getting over “eww penis in my mouth” part.She has tried jumping in the deep end during a handjob and that didn’t work. We have also done gradual attempts at oral during foreplay to acclimate her to getting close to it. She has gotten to the point of kissing and liking the head but looses her nerve when I start leaking pre-cum. She has done best when I am fingering or using a vibrator. She says I should just force it but then we’ll both be having a bad time so I don’t want to do that. What I haven’t tried yet is flavored condoms and lube, I’m a little hesitant to try the consonant though as she is self conscious about taking so long to finish me during handjobs and I don’t want this to be a nothing she’s bad at in bed.