Wondering about this too I've had gay experiences before March 22, 2023 at 01:04AM

The shader is worth it March 22, 2023 at 01:04AM

Back in 2016, I (f25) was 18y old and just about to leave for college. It was my last night in my hometown and I was shopping for some last minute stuff for my new place. The next morning I packed my car and drove to a city where I currently still live. Few months later I come back to my hometown to see my friends band play. Outside the venue, I meet someone (then 19y). It was the cashier from my last-minute shopping trip. He had approached me because he actually remembered me from the store few months back. We got to talking which led to a few small dates, but eventually he called it off due to the fact that he had just broken up with someone else. Actually it was that very same morning of the consert. After a few months, he reached out again and this time we did date. At this point we are 19-20y. Only problem was that I was studying 300km away and he had to complete national defence service for a year. Worst time to date someone. We tried to sustain it for a while but it ended soo...

About 4.5 years ago, I (35m) went on a date with a guy (32m) that went great. Really good conversation, lots in common, and I could feel a major spark. Only problem was I had just gotten out of a 3.5-year relationship (like a week before the date) and was still needing a lot time to process that before I was ready for anything serious. He asked when we could hang out again, and I was going out of town that weekend so I said we could hang when I got back. He pulled the old, "You're gonna make me wait a week to see you again?" I relented and agreed to a second date that week, which also went great. I remember he went out of his way to call me when I was out of town just to chat, and when I got back in town, things took off. We were hanging out a few times a week, sleeping at each other's places a lot, having sex, meeting each other's friends, etc., and it was great. Even gave me a key to his place. (He was in residency and would have to get up at like 4:30am, so on...

Same! I never experienced how it feels to cuddle but I still really crave it. But every time someone has offered to cuddle, it was with sexual/romantic intent and I can't handle that. It honestly sucks hard. March 21, 2023 at 10:51PM