I got mine off Amazon. Was looking at Etsy but the ones I liked didn't come in my size. September 30, 2020 at 11:59PM

Hi friend! While I cant tell you what you are, as that is for you to decide I can say that ive gone through similar feelings, maybe not from the same scenario but if you are interested here goes: I for the longest time wasnt even aware that asexuality existed and thought I also had intimacy issues. I then realized I was demisexual, I cannot stand the though of sleeping with someone unless I have known them for a while and am emotionally connected with them on a deep level. Do some internet research on the different versions of asexual if you havent already. Asexual is just one adjective and you may find comfort in a different word and definition. Hope this helps, best of luck to you and your struggle youve always got friends here even if you dont decide you are ace. September 30, 2020 at 11:57PM

Yes yes yes, exactly :] and ig the fact that we are all so different is beautiful ^ ♡ September 30, 2020 at 11:55PM

I’m curious but would probably say no just because I’ve never done it before. when I’ve looked at porn it’s always been from a “oh ok that’s how that works” POV never been able to feel aroused by it and sex scenes in movies feel so unnecessary. But I just feel I should know what it’s all about by now. September 30, 2020 at 11:55PM

Sounds like your family is just aces! (God, that was the worst pun i’ve ever made) September 30, 2020 at 11:55PM

I like them when they're done well because they add to the storyline and characterizations, and add them into my own writing because I appreciate what they add to the story and characters, but that's my onion. September 30, 2020 at 11:54PM

Because sexual tension and antagonistic tension have a lot of overlap in how they're portrayed in media -- heavy fixation on their activities, long and intense stares and eye contact, physically close activities ie fighting, etc. September 30, 2020 at 11:53PM

people don’t feel like having sex in or right after stressful situations. ...I can't speak for all allos, but in both my irl experience and from having heard from my friends, yes they do, very frequently. Even if they're not "attracted to each other." It's like the brain is like "YOU'RE STILL ALIVE. GO MAKE BABY." And then afterwards you might be like "eugh why did I do that I am not into them at all." September 30, 2020 at 11:52PM

:/ but if you are working on it then that's what matters :D <3 September 30, 2020 at 11:52PM

Brilliant September 30, 2020 at 11:52PM

Sex is often part of horror movies for a few reasons. One, it's still "taboo" and especially is used to, as the stereotype goes, justify someone to then be killed by the bad guy. Two, it's a limbic system, lizard brain sort of action. Just like fear. It helps reinforce a subconscious element of being reduced to one's basal instincts. Three, it's a vulnerable activity, and helps reinforce that aspect of vulnerability. Four, people like to see boobies. September 30, 2020 at 11:51PM

Yay! September 30, 2020 at 11:50PM

I'm not too sure, it didn't have a label and I got it like 7 years back September 30, 2020 at 11:50PM

ooo September 30, 2020 at 11:44PM

Creeper aw man September 30, 2020 at 11:36PM

Thanks, and likewise. You didn’t deserve to be treated that way. September 30, 2020 at 11:33PM

I know right! Honestly Ill never understand people like that. Like, if you know doing sexual things makes your partner uncomfortable then why try and shame them for it? why not just tell them straight up that you dont think its going to work? Using someones sexuality against them is really fucked up. Sorry you had to go through that September 30, 2020 at 11:32PM

Maybe a partner? To me, relationships are more like friendship, but More - I'm not sure if I know how to explain properly? - so I don't know if I'd meet someone with whom I'd manage to match up with, and I've grown to accept that I'm probably going to stay alone and just have a group of friends and my close family. Kids, though, are a definite no. September 30, 2020 at 11:28PM

Aw go them! That’s such a nice and neutral way of putting things, credit to the textbook author! September 30, 2020 at 11:27PM

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I’ve been seeing this guy for two months and I think things are going well. We see each other 1-2 times a week in person. We don’t really text much in between but that’s been the norm the whole time. While I don’t need the bf/gf label, I would like to know how he is feeling about “us” and if he sees this developing into a relationship. I’m looking for advice on two things: Is it too early? Should I wait until the 3 month mark (ugh... October seems so long to wait)? Help me with wording?! How do I bring it up without scaring him away? Submitted September 30, 2020 at 11:43PM I’ve been seeing this guy for two months and I think things are going well. We see each other 1-2 times a week in person. We don’t really text much in between but that’s been the norm the whole time. While I don’t need the bf/gf label, I would like to know how he is feeling about “us” and if he sees this developing into a relationship. I’m looking for advice on two things:Is it too early? Should I wait...