Wow, I envy you. April 10, 2022 at 01:31AM

I already know this is gonna be a LONG one so, tl;dr will be below. Just for context: My boyfriend and I dated for 4 years, broke up and are now back together 7 years later (made it official again Feb of this year). We never really lost touch, we always had a (somewhat) stable ex dynamic because we remained friends. At the beginning of the pandemic in 2020, we lived on different islands. We ended up reconnecting since I had to come back home to stay with my parents. We were texting a TON before I came home, though. Once quarantine and other restrictions were lifted we started hanging out again and fell into a fwb thing. Eventually, feelings welled up and there were talks of trying again with us. Longgggggggg story short (because so much happened): pettiness, jealousy, and pride fucked it up, it didn't happen and we cut communication. A year later (2021) we started speaking again, and now in 2022 we're back together. My boyfriend is such a different person when texting vs whe...

nice!! i love all of alice oseman’s books, especially loveless (since it helped me come to terms with the fact that i’m aro)! April 10, 2022 at 12:23AM

I think perhaps they are struggling with the concept that it is a) not necessarily their business to understand, though it may be coming with the best of intentions, and b) we don't all have a one-size-fits-all shared experience that you can just Google + apply to every ace person. April 10, 2022 at 12:20AM

Basically I matched a girl in tindr we met hit it off really well but we lived a distance away so after maybe 2 months she asked me to move into her uni house, her housemates we okay with me being there she loved me being there so it was all good…apart from her mum and dad, they don’t like me but from what I’ve been told they don’t like any bf she’s ever had, but I figured whatever if they don’t like me they don’t like me but if she loves me like she says we’ll be okay fast forward to month 8 of us being together her house mate tell me she cheated on me with a family friend during a weekend away I wasn’t allowed to go to, also they guy is who her parents have always went her with. I kick off thinking the worst I love this girl we where FaceTiming and talk the whole time she was away and I hear she kissing this guy I hit the roof… I was wrong he tried to kiss her and she rejected him so he kicked off I wasn’t told this straight away because they knew id left work to confront him i don’...

It was literally our first time going out together(just two friends hanging out not a date or anything) and she put her head on my shoulder while in the cinema. Whats that supposed to mean and what should I have done at that moment? Submitted April 10, 2022 at 12:07AM It was literally our first time going out together(just two friends hanging out not a date or anything) and she put her head on my shoulder while in the cinema. Whats that supposed to mean and what should I have done at that moment?