Doctors really shouldn’t be lumped in with the general population on that front. A ginormous part of your job as a healthcare provider is to stay up to date and informed about things that effect your patients’ health, including things that effect their sexual health. If you can’t do that, you have failed at your job. October 02, 2021 at 11:24PM

I voted yes but in reality I don't want to live in a country for asexuals only. The idea of having to interact only with asexuals in everyday life feels relaxing, but I don't want to ban allos from my surroundings... It's just that sometimes I feel forced to deal with people I don't like, and allo thinking is a recurring trigger, but most of the allos I've met are not that annoying, so that's just a bias on my part and I need to be aware of it. October 02, 2021 at 11:23PM

I get it. Just when you get overwhelmed by it, try to remind yourself that there is WAY more support than rejection. The internet just has a way of concentrating all the negative stuff in one spot and making it seem far louder than it is irl. October 02, 2021 at 11:23PM

Before this post, not really. Wasn't aware the second part was even an option October 02, 2021 at 11:21PM

Have you thought about reporting her or leaving a public review with the ways she is failing as a doctor? I always look people up when I’m going to see a new healthcare provider, and knowing that someone is aphobic (or even just bad at their job) would definitely be something I’d want to know beforehand. October 02, 2021 at 11:20PM

Met him drunk at a bar earlier this summer, at first I had no interest but after texting for a bit I changed my mind. Anyway so he keeps saying he doesn’t want to be my regret and that he doesn’t want me to be drunk with him. At first that was kinda sweet to me cuz it seems caring, but now I’m getting annoyed by it. Like we’ve been texting for a few months now I’ve had more than enough time to think. And if I end up regretting it then that’s for me to worry about why is that on his mind! I’m 20 and he’s 30 so maybe that has something do to with it and he’s just having second thoughts? It’s starting to turn me off and I’m annoyed cuz I was excited to meet. Submitted October 03, 2021 at 12:37AM Met him drunk at a bar earlier this summer, at first I had no interest but after texting for a bit I changed my mind. Anyway so he keeps saying he doesn’t want to be my regret and that he doesn’t want me to be drunk with him. At first that was kinda sweet to me cuz it seems caring, but now ...

I feel like I’m living a dream but I don’t know what to do I love my girlfriend but one morning I woke she was sleeping I went to take a piss with a morning wood in my underwear and her mom saw so I just took my piss and when I was going to leave she came in and took of my pants starting sucking me off best blow job I ever got and she was letting me push her head back and everything it was so great but. I thought it was a one time thing. A week later or so she got my number a long time ago she texts me to come over she’s horny and I said no cuz like I love my girlfriend I thought it one only once. but some time goes on I go over to see my girlfriend and I’m up always super late I went to the kitchen and she had a robe on with only panties she put her hands down my pants and told me to come with her and I explained I thought it was only once but this woman in her 50s hasn’t dated in over ten years she told me if I don’t do anything with her again she’ll tell my girlfriend so I had to...

I enjoy erotica but I’m super picky about it. I get tired of so much backstory when I want the focus to be intense, descriptive sex. Lots of erotica focuses on the backgrounds of people. But that’s not something I care about lol. Any good recommendations? I’m into lots of stuff but some major turn ons are lesbian sex, gangbangs, and even some piss play. Submitted October 03, 2021 at 12:48AM I enjoy erotica but I’m super picky about it. I get tired of so much backstory when I want the focus to be intense, descriptive sex. Lots of erotica focuses on the backgrounds of people. But that’s not something I care about lol. Any good recommendations? I’m into lots of stuff but some major turn ons are lesbian sex, gangbangs, and even some piss play.

My girlfriend (33F) and I (31M) have a very close couple friends (32M and 33F) that we have known for a long time. Being that we are very close we have opened up talking about sex and exploring our sexuality so we created some sort of sex bucket list. My buddy brought up couple swapping as the last thing on this list. We are very very close with them and very private so we decided let's talk more about it and discuss the rules to avoid any jealousy. We talked about it for a few months so we decided let's do it by the end of this year. Well my buddy and I have discussed this when we are alone more often than our girls have. About two weeks ago in preparation to get me horny my friend said he had a surprise for me. He pulled up his phone and basically showed me his girlfriend naked and doing sexual acts to herself. Then the unthinkable happened. As he was swiping the pictures he got to a video of him having sex with her and her going down on him afterwards. My buddy is exact...

im in a happy relationship with my boyfriend, been together almost a year now. he’s absolutely incredible in every way and i know i wanna marry him. but the past few days, as if out of absolutely nowhere, i’ve had non-stop thoughts about fucking my toxic ex. and before now, the thought of my ex made me nauseous. but now i just want to see him so bad and get really nasty. it’s the only thing i’ve been able to think about for days now and i feel extremely guilty about it but this feeling of wanting to see my him is torturous and intense. it’s bothering me. i want to be feeling this way about my wonderful boyfriend and not my ex. my boyfriend sexually satisfies me like 99% of the time, something my ex didn’t exactly do but i am just like a dog in heat merely thinking about kissing him. it takes everything in me not to contact him. i would never cheat on my boyfriend or hurt him in any way but my brain is responding to thoughts about having sex with my ex as if it were a drug. i find myse...

I met this dude about 3 days ago, he just got out of a 4 year relationship super recently... I think around 7 days ago? We hung out twice and it was a good time, we really clicked, but every time we hang out he wants to buy expensive things for me even though I politely tell him not to. I told him how it makes me uncomfortable and that even though its a nice gesture, im very independant and will always insist on paying for myself and only myself (with some exceptions). He recently bought me a 'Christmas present,' a $90 set of skateboard wheels for my cruzer without telling me and I dont know how to respond. Theyre nice, and its a very kind thing for him to do, but this guy has come on super strong. He still talks to his ex, even while im around, he even sat on the phone with her while he was at my house. Theres a lot of red flags. I told him that I would like the weekend to myself as i was going to see my parents who live 4 hours away. I'm hesitant to talk to him again eve...

Went out with a girl yesterday for a second date, we got dinner and drinks and it went amazing. We kissed a few times, and even held hands. She seemed super into me the whole time (we did drink a lot though). Anyways today I texted her saying I had a good time and we should do it again sometime. She hasn’t responded and it’s been like 9 hours. She usually takes a very long time to text so it’s kinda normal, but I would think after a date she would try to let me know how she felt lol. Should I send another text at some point? If so when, and what would I say? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 11:55PM Went out with a girl yesterday for a second date, we got dinner and drinks and it went amazing. We kissed a few times, and even held hands. She seemed super into me the whole time (we did drink a lot though).Anyways today I texted her saying I had a good time and we should do it again sometime. She hasn’t responded and it’s been like 9 hours. She usually takes a very long time to text ...

But damn…she’s got a boyfriend since 1 year. He’s one year younger than us, and they got to know at the sea. I got to admit she’s very good looking. But I know I’m good looking too. Ofc, I don’t look like a model. But I’m 6’3 and I’ve been working out for years, in order to feel better with my physique. I’m always been pretty sporty tho, so I’ve never had physical insecurities. Tonight, I [18M] fell in love with a friend [18F] of mine But damn…she’s got a boyfriend, since 1 year. He’s one year younger than us, and they got to know at the sea. I got to admit she’s very good looking. But I know I’m good looking too. Ofc, I don’t look like a model. But I’m 6’3 and I’ve been working out for years, in order to feel better with my physique. I’m always been pretty sporty tho, so I’ve never had physical insecurities. We are currently classmates, and it’s our last year in high school. I know she had a crush on me for about 3 years, but i didn’t like her back. She never told me about it, b...

I am considering joining Bumble, I am an 18 year old male. My questions is; are there many other people of similar age to me on the app? I wouldn’t be interested in dating anyone over 20. Are there a good amount of people between the age of 18-20? Are there any other dating apps that have more people of that age? Thanks. Submitted October 03, 2021 at 12:06AM I am considering joining Bumble, I am an 18 year old male. My questions is; are there many other people of similar age to me on the app? I wouldn’t be interested in dating anyone over 20. Are there a good amount of people between the age of 18-20? Are there any other dating apps that have more people of that age? Thanks.

19M. Hey guys, I consider myself pretty good looking yet I'm not even sure how to romantically approach girls, quite literally. I wasn't as good looking as I am now so my relationship and romance experience is near zero. Like I was in a club and I saw a girl that was amazing, yet I just couldn't move to talk to her and I'm not sure how I'll make myself because when I get there I don't know what I'll do and what I'll tell her. Also quite sadly girls also don't approach me themselves. Soon I'll go to my uni and I'm pretty sure that I won't be able to land a girl I like even there because I won't know how to make her realise that I like her and what signals she gives. Any advice to solve these problems? Yes I am not really social and I'm trying to change that but I just can't... Submitted October 03, 2021 at 12:12AM 19M. Hey guys, I consider myself pretty good looking yet I'm not even sure how to romantically approach ...

I'm not capable of making a dinner reservation... That's too scary for me, and i'd rather eat homemade pizza alone in my bed watching tv October 02, 2021 at 11:20PM

Yes but like how would population work ? October 02, 2021 at 11:18PM

oh yeah. trueeee sorry just a bit resentful October 02, 2021 at 11:17PM

Just did the survey hope ya didn't give me any viruses lmao. Also for some reason it won't delete from my search history so that's weird October 02, 2021 at 11:16PM

It’s not inherent knowledge yet. Before I started researching on my own, I thought being asexual meant you only enjoyed masturbation, i.e. sex with yourself. There is absolutely no excuse for this doctor’s dismissive, condescending and straight up ignorant behavior, but I guarantee they didn’t teach about the sexuality spectrum when she went to medical school… if they even do so now. October 02, 2021 at 11:14PM