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Help! Am I the a**hole for wanting to move?

I LOVE my career and it is something that has always been one of my utmost priorities. When I met my BF a year and a half ago, he knew this and was very supportive. However, my career is not a common one so if I want to stay in it and want/need to change jobs for whatever reason, I typically have to travel 200+ miles before I find another. I have done this before a couple of times, and love moving and that entire process. I have explicitly expressed this to him in the past and he said that he would be interested in going with me. Anyways, fast forward and we have an amazing relationship and there's nothing I would change about it. But the tides are changing with my job and I am starting to look for another. I have several interviews set up for jobs in my field ranging across the states. He knew I would be looking for a different job soon, but I'm a pretty private person, so I waited to tell him until I had some interviews lined up. When I talked to him, he was very disappoint...

/u/wednesdayriot on Hey, guys! I wanted to share garlic bread recipe from where I'm from (Lithuania). (recipe in comments)

Now this is porn. God I’m salivating May 18, 2022 at 12:07AM

Everything was sun shine and rainbows and then she dumped me out of no where? Fearful avoidant deactivating?

So last August I had a very beautiful girl message me on Instagram. Now she was very nice and funny but I had just gone through a breakup after a 2.5 year relationship and I really didn’t see any chance of us being serious. She’s 21 and I’m 22 we both are graduating right now. So, I ended up not responding to her after we had a kind of boring convo one day with no real consistency back and forth. What I did not know was her grandmother was sick at this time and she was putting a lot of her attention there. She was extremely close to her grandmother, who was like a mother to her. Sadly she passed away last October. But, for whatever reason about a month ago roughly, she was going through her contacts deleting some and she saw mine and wanted to try talking again and we hit it off. She was funny, sweet and super hard working. We had a lot in common; Politics, religion and Spanish backgrounds. She plans on going to nursing school and I’m a EMT and firefighter. She has been extremely st...

Got love bombed then completely stood up at first date, ghosted, disconnected phone number

Has this happened to anyone else?! We even video chatted last night. He was falling for me he said. He said he want me to be his. I even deleted my tinder. Then tonight, went to this fancy restaurant he said to meet at, it was closed, tried to call him and phone # disconnected!!! What kind of person does this to someone else?! Has this happened to anyone else??? Submitted May 18, 2022 at 12:06AM Has this happened to anyone else?! We even video chatted last night. He was falling for me he said. He said he want me to be his. I even deleted my tinder. Then tonight, went to this fancy restaurant he said to meet at, it was closed, tried to call him and phone # disconnected!!! What kind of person does this to someone else?! Has this happened to anyone else???

What does this mean!?

I feel SO silly posting this question but it's kind of been eating at my brain. I've been talking to this guy for over a month now. At the beginning of us talking we established we weren't looking for anything serious at the moment. We both got out of long time relationships fairly recent so we agreed to enjoy being single but also enjoy each others company. Anyway, he's only ever called me by my name and this Sunday he started calling me hun. I'm pretty sick at the moment so he's been checking in on me, calling me to see how I'm feeling and just being extra sweet. He is ALWAYS so sweet to me but extra this week that I've been sick. What does it mean when a guy calls you hun? He's 33 and I'm 28, i've never been called hun so I'm not sure. LOL, it feels flirty but some of my friends say it can be in a friendly way too. Not sure if this matters but we've gone on a couple of dates and he always initiates kissing, hand holding and cud...

Girlfriends is afraid she never knows when I will be angry

So my(21m) girlfriend (21f) are very different. I am a very anxious person and like things to be planned out ahead of time while my girlfriend is more go with the flow. I show up to class 10 minutes early incase something happens to make me late, meanwhile she walks in 3 minutes late. We're just different, and we both acknowledge that. We've had a few issues in the past, but have never had full on arguments. We are both really good at talking about our issues and resolving them without escalating things. Because the stuff that makes me upset, is so normal to my girlfriend, she explained that she feels like she never realized that what she was doing upsets me and is now afraid that I am going to be upset with her. for example, in the past, we had plans to meet on campus to do some studying. We agreed on 4:00. At 4:00, she wasn't there so I decided to walk to her house and we could just walk over together. I walked to her house and waited outside for another 15 minutes til...

How do I initiate getting to know a coworker better?

I started a tech internship a few weeks ago, and it’s basically my first experience in my field and I’m the only girl in the office. It’s been really overwhelming and intimidating, but there’s one guy in the office who I really got along with and has been my go to person to ask for help and he’s been more than willing to every single time. We haven’t talked outside of work yet, but I shadowed him and we got to talking about how we both like producing music, our desire to travel, our general values in life we agreed on, etc. and he just seemed really cool. I can’t say I I like him yet, because I obviously don’t know him well, but I am definitely attracted to him and just wanna get to know him better first. I’m really inexperienced with this kind of stuff, so I’m not sure what I should do and I’m scared of making things awkward if he just doesn’t even want to give me the time of day. I met him because I shadowed him a day, and my boss basically confirmed that he’s moving on to pairing...